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Hello guys, good afternoon and happy Eid-ul-fitri to the Muslims faithful, I need an advice from this great family.
I have changed the names of the people involved for some reasons, I(Tunde) served in Lagos with my now ex-girlfriend(kemi), kemi was a primary school teacher close to her house, I kept motivating her to be better by sending jobs links to her, planning on interview questions and otherwise.
Grace smiled on kemi she got a job at the airport, buh another hurdle, she needed guarantors that were not her family, because of love then and someone I wanted to settle down with I became her guarantor and a friend of mine.
I fell very ill and reached out to kemi to help me with some funds that I was at the pharmacy and my bank app wasn't responding, she told me to reach out to my family that she didn't have enough on her.
I felt very bad for my girlfriend to say such, I didn't tell her that I had bought the drugs and she never did ask, we quarreled and broke up, after the split sometimes I would reach out to her to check up on her buh she would be very harsh to me over the phone. She said I should stop communicating with her.
Fast forward she reached out to me asking over my whereabouts, I was shocked buh calm, then after a while she told me that her office asked her to bring the id cards of her two guarantors ( me& my friend) .
For someone who ghosted me for weeks to just show up and ask for a favour with any remorse, it baffles me.