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Double0h7:
I kissed a guy good night once, at my front door, and literally threw up in my mouth! I ran upstairs and brushed my teeth and tongue and I couldn't get his taste out of my mouth. 🤮. I don't kiss now unless we've dated long enough for me to understand your hygiene rituals.

Eww

Being dirty and unhygienic is a big turn off for me.

If I like a guy and find out he doesn't have good hygiene, I always run away.

I have had some experiences with that, sadly.

MikeofKd:
So apparently my age has gotten quite serious yeah, and I'm kinda wanting to settle down at least have a child or something but these Nigerian women , majority of them have nothing in their head. All they care about is their feelings , they never care about yours. Very selfish set of beings. Its Always about them , always about what they want , always about their selfish entitled stupid feelings , all they care about is you validating their selfish feelings while they invalidate yours.


For example, there's this girl I've been talking with ( talking stage ) , she came over to my place this weekend, I was trynna get to talk to her and vibe , she was just on her phone , so i left her alone and then luckily one of my guys came visiting and we started playing PS 4 , this girl starts dey vex say I just ignore her they play with my friend , mhen I be wan craze cus like dis na persin wey I bin dey try follow vibe oh , she just dey on her phone , acting uninterested omo

I pray I find a loyal one soon sha cause time isn't on a man's side anymore , I don't like the idea of babymama. I for don born like two at least. It is well.

Good things take time and patience.

If you want what you deserve, you must be willing to work for it and also be the best you want to see in others.

For staters, don't be too quick to write people off. Most people, especially females show you the side they think you deserve.

MikeofKd:
Why do I want to get married ? Well you get a companion, kids ( a lovely family ) I also feel like if I dont get married any sonner , I might just giv up on that journey entirely. So it's kinda a time factor thing for me , but I'd rather still chill and find a decent woman than get married to the wrong one (that's going to be brutal) i hate divorces ( they are so messy).

Wow I used to stay in Abuja few years back ( stress free city btw ) now I'm currently working in Jos but I actually reside in Lagos. Would be back by August

Can u pls send me an email.

Hi, I was offline. Had some things to handle.

Yes, I will send you an email right now so we can email each other and keep it private.

It is wrong to keep displaying our personal information or details about our lives online.

How is your day going?

MikeofKd:
Your very much welcome.

Hmmm sounds nice , doing things with someone that has a mutual romantic chemistry with you is quite a lot of fun.

My last relationship was also a mess , most of it my fault tho , I would admit ngl( i didnt really have time I was mostly carried away with work) I'm currently single to stupor , been trynna find a girl to get married to but it's like I've not really had any luck with that so far.
I've kinda learnt how to balance work and relationships now tho.

My sallah was low-key boring , was indoor , slept like a baby , ate , saw 1 or 2 movies.
How did your sallah go ?

Good thing you have learned how to balance work and relationship now.

Why do you want to get married?

A month ago, I moved from Abuja to Lagos.
I am still adjusting to Lagos life.

My Sallah was boring but some parents and students in the school I teach, came around and gave me Sallah meat (raw and fried).

I have been watching movies and sleeping a lot. I miss Abuja. Where do you reside?

MikeofKd:
So sorry about your moms , she's in a better place now. Wish I could thank her for raising you the right way.

Tbh I guess keeping me happy entails truth and honesty, I don't like the faking it energy , keep it real with me and I'd be happy for life.

Yeah I agree , romantic relationships are always a two way thing. What keeps you happy ?

Thanks for sympathy. I appreciate your kind words. 😊

I agree, honesty and keeping it real goes a long way with relationships.

What makes me happy? Doing things I like to do when I feel like doing them with someone I am into and hopefully, that person is also into me. I am currently single.

My last relationship was a big mess but I survived.

Lately, I have realized so many people aren't even worth it. For me, the connection (attraction and mutual chemistry) is the most basic part of every relationship.

Everything depends on how we get along.

How was your Sallah?

MikeofKd:
You seem to fit the description of a nice well mannered girl , so come and keep me happy , I would take care (of you).

As for the manners, my mother did a great job in raising me the right way. I am forever thankful to her. I wish she was alive so I can take good care of her and keep her happy.
She is in heaven so I am still happy.

What does keeping you happy entail? Last time I checked, relationship is a two way thing.

Kobojunkie:
You will not send yourself but someone else's daughter in with that immature being? How cruel can you be?

He does not sound cruel. Stop judging people based on their first impression.

He could be a way better man than you are. 😐

MikeofKd:
Well I know I'm a good person cause I've helped a lot of people in need , coulda just minded my business but I helped anyways.

And I don't go around telling stories of pple I helped , I'm only saying this here cus it's a faceless forum.

Hmm okay. If you say so.

I hope you find a nice well mannered girl to keep you happy. Take care. 😊

As for me, just 20million and I will be fine.

Reminderz:
Coldness from my dad... No matter what, I rarely show how I really feel inside... I might care a lot about you, but you will have a hard time knowing my true intentions...

With a personality like this, you would end up chasing a lot of people from you.

Some or most may feel you don't care even when you do. It's important to let people know how we feel about them. Just saying!

Abeg I can't love or marry a robot Biko 😒

MikeofKd:
Yeah from my Dad actually, he is a cold hearted bastard , I do not have a soft heart but I'm a good person and I'm very logical too but I hate it so much.
My heart is cold as Russia , I can't fall in love like a proper human being, all the girls that truly loved me I broke their hearts to pieces , my heart is too cold for stuffs like love. It makes me feel weak. But I honestly wish Im not like that.

How are you so sure you are a good person?
It's usually people outside of yourself that can attest to that after engaging with you.

I am happy for them.

Peakdesign23:
Dem no dey pass 40 or 45 years?

Internet age. She is obviously more than 45.

Too many surgeries, she no longer even looks like Tonto Dike. Na WA!

Anyway, happy birthday to her oo 😒

I am in Lagos and I am interested but these numbers never go through.

Is this for real?