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akmath:
25 years old, You try

The plan was to keep it till the day I get married, but many don't believe me when I tell them I'm (was) a Virgin.

Demigod22:
You are having that feeling because she is the girl that deflowered, she is your first. When you start having sex regularly with other girls the feeling will go away.
We have a special and genuine bond with the first person we have sex with.

The first girl I had sex with, we are so close and shared deep bond. We had sex multiple times and we were inseparable. Even when the relationship was being threatened, we found away of seeing each other. We are still in touch till today, anytime we meet we always have sex, but my friend advised me to stop having sex with her since we are no longer dating because it will affect my future relationship.

If you genuinely love the girl you can reach out to her, but if it's for the sex, just go get another girl, with time the feeling will fade away.

Thanks man, the most meaningful comment I have seen so far, I think it's because I lost my virginity to her, that's the only reasonable explanation I can think of, she's not a Virgin though.

VlamesIffect:
No worry with time you'll grow up.....then look back and realize how naive this post sounds.

You should have kept quiet and wait for me to grow up all the same but you can't resist the urge to display what you're made of, now fvck off to wherever you emerged from, I have a serious issue here for serious people.

VlamesIffect:
At 25 you still dey think like small pikin

Na wa.

Teach me how to think like you, an ancestor, that's why I brought it here so people can tell me what I don't know, we learn everyday and I have alot to learn from extremely wise people like you, thanks.

I'm 25, lost my virginity four months ago due to peer pressure, went to a cross over night party at the beginning of this year, and I hang out with friends they all talk about Thier sex life and I don't contribute, one of them noticed and said you always date clean girls but you never discuss sex when everyone is discussing sex, then I told them a secret I never told anyone before, I told them I'm a Virgin, some of them doubted me, and many of them teased so I swore to myself I have to loose the virginity, so I quickly got myself a girl in two weeks, I don't love her, I just like her and wanted a fling, within a week we had sex, and I realized I like it, so we had sex like five more times in the space of one month and some days, then I broke up with her, she didn't take it so well, she cried but my mind was made up, so we broke up, then my problem started,

I started having erotic dreams, and it's always with this girl I broke up with, it feels so real, and whenever I wake up from that dream the only thing I think about is to call her back and beg her to reconcile, it's always that thought, one time it was so severe I nearly called her at 4am, had the dream last night too, that's the fifth one, and that's why I am worried, same dream, same feelings Everytime, what's wrong with me, is it because she was my first?