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raslim20:
Abeg dem go call this one prophecy like this, who does know inec will always conduct election malpractice before or which election dem do for this nigeria that inec doesn't disappoint, say another thing oga

Celebrityblog:
63 ISWAP’s bodies recovered after failed attack on Malam Fatori

Photo credit: Zagazola Makama


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Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/8637818/63-bodies-boko-haram-iswap

Bubbastic:
Well delivered jokes... This guy still got it 💯

mascot87:
Guy, na so you dey delusional reach?

PHIPEX:
The ISWAP terrorist was sentenced to 20yrs but a freedom fighter with no proven case of murder is jailed for life

Someone should describe what a disgraced country looks like once more?

okrikaboi:
As an African man I will never kneel down to ask you to be my wife. My ancestors will be rolling in their graves. The woman should kneel down and collect the ring. I will lift her up back into my arms. It's a symbol of submission and leadership dynamics. Too bad she wasted his time now he has to spend another year looking for a good woman and another year to court her. This is why people get scared and diversify their dating portfolio.

KobeMan:
We married A Year ago. We decided to wait for a year before having kids. We started trying 3 few months but no success. I told both of us needs to get tested. I did Sperm Analysis & the result is good, I'm very fertile.

She did pelvic scan, and in the scan, She has fibroid (Submocousal fibroid 5.5cm). The news broke me and I was very sad, I never imagined I'll be in this kind of situation. We went to the gynecologist and He told us to go for HSG to check her fallopian tube, The result showed that Both Tubes are blocked.

I've not been myself for the last couple of days. I had to pretend to be strong because She was down & has been crying as well. This are two serious fertility issues and Her chances of conception is very low. Even if The gynecologist tells us to do the IVF(Which I don't even have money for it cause it's vey expensive) They'll still have to remove the fibroid.

This are very expensive procedures that are not even guaranteed that it will work and She will conceive. I'm the only male child in my family, in my early 30's. Pressure will start coming from all directions and also considering my my age, I don't pray to experience delay with child birth. I just decided to pour own my mind here. I'm really down, I don't know what to do.

Jamieb:
You lack critical reasoning . That's not what he's trying to say

casdoruche:
You will just come and spew trash like a kid. North Korea now you want to push to their death. You think is about displays fanfare of weapons. In war precision and accuracy is important. North Korea has never fought a war like world war and won. They just make mouth. Israel is trained for assault all their existence and are ever ready. North Korea went to Ukraine and died like chickens.

Kobicove:
You just said it, these are for girlfriends. No reasonable Nigerian guy would encourage his wife to be a drunkard or chimney or any of those things you listed

Wananonly:
The garri was all he had to offer her and she stayed bro. Giving him cooking and cleaning and doggy and monkey. Whereas people were who would have given her more if she followed them.

She didn't buy the garri but what she sacrificed was 10x more.

I don't care bro. Let the simpsults rain on me.

Dpsychologist:
I saw this tweet by Erigga and it hit deep.

“I was with him when he was drinking garri.”
But na you buy the garri? 🤨

Let’s unpack this mindset that’s becoming very common in our generation.


🧠 The “Loyalty” Women Talk About Today is Not Real

Many women love to say they were there when you had nothing.
But truth is, a lot of them were just witnesses, not builders.

They didn’t help.
They didn’t invest.
They didn’t even believe in you—they were just hoping for a return on their emotional “time.”

It’s all about positioning themselves for the future harvest without ever planting seeds.


📌 Presence ≠ Participation

There’s a clear difference between being present and being useful.

Ask yourself:

Did she contribute to your hustle?

Did she support with money, ideas, motivation?

Or did she just sit there… waiting?


Too many women want to claim royalty status for just hanging around during your broke phase.


💭 Real Loyalty is Silent

The girl who actually bought the garri isn’t the one tweeting.
She’s the one you remember when you finally blow—because she didn’t make noise, she made impact.

Loyalty is:

Showing up consistently.

Investing (not just emotionally, but tangibly).

Praying, planning, building with you.


But most of what you see now is emotional blackmail masked as support.


⚠️ Men, Stop Rewarding Passive Loyalty

Your success is not community property.
If she didn’t grind with you, she shouldn’t reap with you.

Let’s break it down clearly:

If What She Did is to make you feel Encouraged, supported, sacrificed then sje deserves Respect & loyalty
If What She Did is Invested in your dream then What She Deserves is Return on value
But if she Complained, watched, tolerated you then she deserves Nothing but silence 😐


💬 Final Thoughts

Let this sink in:

🧾 Presence without contribution is just observation.
And observers don’t get trophies.

So next time a woman says, “I was with you when you were drinking garri”, calmly ask:

“Did you buy am for me?”

Because sitting on the sideline doesn't make you a teammate.

What do y’all think?
Have you experienced this?
Drop your thoughts and share with someone who needs this reminder. 🧠🔥

GanagiBitrus:
Kids mentality. There is no marriage without stress. It's your ability to manage the stress that makes you a wise & matured person.

Fact is, As long as you are alive, you'll always face stress either from women or from your fellow man or from circumstances beyond your control.

PantShifter:
Being married to 4 women in this harsh economy is highly commendable but the guy has serious work to do to keep them happy.

Anyway he has 4 different pùssies so he won't get bored

Odafe360:
you think I'm broke? Lolss... You're pathetic

Merry100
That poo in front of a shop is jazz they do. It makes one's legs to swell up and eventually start bringing out maggots. You need to pray fervently. May God be with you.


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Someone is targeting me, and I don't know who it is, but it seems to be related to a shop. I recently reopened this particular shop. It is in a good location, situated beside the main road, but I had previously closed it out of frustration. The shop was burgled and all my valuable gadgets were stolen. It has not even been three months since I renovated the shop, brought in new gadgets, and reopened it, but someone has been trying to burgle it again.

Yesterday, we discovered that someone tried to break into the shop, the person also tampered with the signboard on top of the shop roof, causing it to face downwards.

Also, a man came to the shop yesterday and placed a large order for different foods and various drinks, which exceeded what was available, he said he needed it for a party. While my other staff were in the kitchen area preparing more food for him, he sent the staff who was supposed to serve the food on an errand, and she left without informing anyone, I don't know if she was under a spell or if she was just licking his feet.

When the man realized that he had successfully distracted all of them, he started pretending to be in a hurry. My sister decided to assist by putting the available food into disposable plates, and in the process, the man stole her phone and fled.

A lot has been happening lately. My staff had previously informed me that on the first day the shop was reopened, they saw a nylon bag full of poo in front of the shop and disposed of it.

My sister has been very cold and down since yesterday. Apart from the fact that the stolen phone is expensive, there are important documents on it. I tried hard to suppress my emotions, but seeing my sister in distress because of me made it impossible to hold back my tears.

She didn't even need to be in my shop yesterday. It was Monday and I needed to take foodstuffs to the shop, but I begged her to help me because I had an early morning appointment with a client at the office.

Even my car was tampered with. She parked it outside the shop in its usual location, but there were signs that someone had tried to break into it. It seems like someone is deliberately trying to frustrate me to the leave the shop.

santaclaws:
I hope they checked the sample well... If it's true however, she should face the consequences. Doping is one of the worst things you can do to yourself as an athlete.

Hemanwel:
This president Tinubu is obviously proving that he's only good at politics - how to make political moves , how to settle political scores, etc. He is so bereaved of ideas when it comes to governance! Like, for how long are we gonna drag on this minimum wage thing? Is it this maladministration we are getting from him that he has taken his lifetime to prepare for?

Prices of commodities have sky-rocketed in the market, inflation is on an all-time high, food security challenge still persists, high dollar-naira exchange rate has affected the prices of imported goods, yet workers are still on 30k minimum wage.

Haba! This is not what we voted/bargained for

immortalcrown:
Moral decadence!

Your married cousin brings his side chick to your house and you allow it, claiming that you don't want to be seen as a bad person.

If another person harbours your son-in-law or or your brother-in-law with a side chick, will you praise the person? Answer this question.

Where is the wife of this your cousin? Is she dead or separated from your cousin? If not, why do you support infidelity against her? Will you be happy if someone supports the husband of your daughter or the husband of your sister to behave like this your cousin?

What standard of living does this your cousin give his 4 kids? Would you be happy if you learn that your father left you and your mother and spent weeks with another woman?

You now pretend to care about his wife and his children because he and his side chick make you uncomfortable in your house, not because you condemn his infidelity.[sub][/sub]

Dshocker:
Which of his brothers?

Mind you, even Jesus didn't solve everyone's problem, when he was on earth.
That one is Cubana Chief priest o...not obi Cubana...don't get it twisted
So calm down.