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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: . by jaysworld(f): 9:09pm On May 30, 2015
Just sent you a sample article and CV.
Romance / How To Identify That Your Partner Is A Gold Digger by jaysworld(f): 10:23pm On May 25, 2015
[b][/b]Ever had a partner whom you thought was all that you needed, and just as you considered that you had finally arrived at the God –sent person, then the worst happened. You realized that he or she was more interested in your money than in you. If you have found yourself in this bog, then you would realize that it is one very sad incident to happen.

Conversely, just before you label that partner of yours a gold digger, you have got to know what the real McCoy is. Do have at the back of your mind that there is absolutely nothing wrong with your partner being concerned about your financial strength; after all, being in love means that you both have got to have each other’s back through thick and thin.


The differentiation between a gold digger and someone who is concerned about your financial steadiness is that the gold digger may likely leave you if you for any reason lose your ability to provide for them financially. On the other hand, a true partner would stand by you come what may.
Now, let us see some factors that may point to the fact that your partner is a gold digger.

1. If Your Partner Always Asks You for a Loan

One of the traits of gold diggers is that they always give the impression that they are in the middle of a financial crisis. They do not mind to ask you for cash loans incessantly because they know that you are in love and wouldn’t want them to be in a financial mess so they capitalize on that.

2. If they are always particular About Your Financial Status

If you are in a relationship and your partner always asks to know how much you make per year, or asks to know if there has been an increase, or wants to know how much they are entitled to get from you all the time, then chances are that you are in a relationship with one who wants to milk you dry. This is because there is supposed to be less focus on your financial area.

3. If Your Partner Enjoys Receiving

If you are in a relationship with someone who so loves to be on the receiving end, and does not even offer to make a move in terms of paying for some bills, then you may as well be in a wrong relationship. This is a relationship anomaly because to a large extent, there has to be a balance in the relationship. It must not necessarily be same but a 50 to 30 equation wouldn’t be a bad idea.


4. If Your Partner Detests You Looking Into Their Bags or Wallets

One other sign of a gold digger is that they do not for any reason like that their bags or wallets be looked at. They just do not like this because they do not want you to know how much they have, since they are comfortable receiving from you.

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Romance / How To Cope With A Nagging Wife by jaysworld(f): 8:04pm On May 14, 2015
She is a great cook, she has a great sense of style, the way she walks is so captivating, she whips up great meals, she is so fair in complexion, her dark skin is so attractive, I could go on and on about this descriptions that may fit your partner, conversely, you would agree with me that if your once lovely wife now nags a lot, then there is tendency that you have pushed her to into the habit.


Chances are that you are now drawn back and may not even remember how enchanting she looks any more. A Nagging wife or partner is one of the worst things that may happen to a man. As some men put it; they say, ‘I’d rather have a peaceful time outside home than come home to meet a nagging woman’.

Whew! Now that isn’t a good one. But wait a minute! For how long are you going to keep avoiding your woman? Well, you can help save the situation by learning how to cope very well with a nagging wife, as well as help her out of the habit.
Here goes….

1. Learn To Be Calm


This might not come too easy for some men. Especially, because we all know that men are the ones who hold their ego so dearly. In addition to that, more often than not, they prefer the women to be on the receiving end. Hence, you have to be the one to calm down in an irritating and annoying scenario as this, but that might not in any case go down well with you. However, truth is; you both cannot be raging lousy at the same time. It is for that reason that you have got to be calm. Listen to what she may be ranting about. She may be right and just doesn’t know how to manage her temper.

2. Talk things through

After she has gone on her ‘you should do this and you should do that’ rampage, then you may want to talk about it. This might be hard for some men, but if for nothing, do this for the love of your marriage and for the love for peace to reign in the home. When emotions are cool, then now is a good time to let her know how annoying her nagging habit is. Do make sure that you pass your message across with love and respect- after all you want a happy wife. Be firm as the head of the home, and yet make her see how you want her to make amend.

3. See to Those Things She Nags About

If in the true sense of the word you are guilty of all the things she fumes about, then you have got to begin to look at ways to adjust. Truth is that your once loving wife, didn't wake up one day nuts ( please do permit me say), bottom-line is that you are stepping on a very painful nerve and so she really wants you to adjust but perhaps lacks how to send the message across without fuming. Hence, it is vital that you know that you are contributing to her evolving into a bitter nag.[b][/b]

You may want to read up more here...

http://relationshipnaija..com/2015/05/how-to-cope-with-nagging-wife.html
Romance / How To Identify The Right Person For You by jaysworld(f): 2:39pm On May 12, 2015
If you have found yourself jumping from one relationship to another (not because you are a flirt) as a result of being confused about who the right partner for you might be for life, then you just would agree that it can sometimes be a very daunting task.

You even begin to wonder why your case is different and why your friends and relatives find it so easy to settle down. Hold on, just before you begin to compare your life’s note with others! You need not brood over this, as you probably haven’t taken enough time to see what might be in a relationship for you.

If you find yourself grappling with how to identify the right partner for you, then respite is here as the following tips would suffice.
Now, here goes….

1. Do You Have Same Values
This is one fundamental winning tip you must hold dearly if you want to end up with the right person for life. You have got to first identify if you share same ideologies and values. For instance; if your partner doesn’t see anything wrong about nudity in public, and you see a whole lot wrong with it, then please take a walk because you two do not sync.

2. Are You Compatible
This has to do with your core traits, life goals, dreams and what have you. If the person you are with presently wants to be a politician in the nearest future, and you are looking to own a big church or mosque, and even take the responsibility of manning it full time with your spouse being there with you, then you have a challenge. Your life partner has got to fit into the future picture you have.

3. Short Term and Long Term Goals
Does your short term and long term goals rhyme? This is very imperative, because without a synergy here you risk running into a relationship pit fall soon.

4. Is There Chemistry
If you are sucking up to the person you presently are with, because you stand to gain something material in future, other than attraction, then you just might be heading for the rocks. Ever asked yourself; ‘what if all the plans got thwarted, what happens? Attraction is a key factor in knowing the right person, but you must have other factors backing it, like the points I made earlier. This means attraction cannot be isolated from other factors stated here.

5. Does Your Gut Feeling Say So?
Your gut feelings have to do with your instincts, intuitive spirit, et al. If your partner meets the above requirements and your intuition also says so, then it could mean the person is the one. If it so does happen, then you must critically look at things so as to stay in tune with each other.

There you have it guys. 5 solid winning tips on how to identify your partner for life. If at the end of the day your partner meets this entire requirement, then you may as well begin to plan to walk down the aisle.

Get more tips here..
http://relationshipnaija..com/
Romance / Re: How To Be Romantic by jaysworld(f): 4:17pm On May 11, 2015
Does posting a topic warrant curses?

I bet you all who just cursed know it doesn't.

Be civil enough to walk past than curse.

Thank you.
Romance / How To Be Romantic by jaysworld(f): 2:58pm On May 11, 2015
Is your partner incessantly complaining that you aren't romantic?

If yes, then this will do you a world of good.

Read it up here. http://relationshipnaija..com/?m=0

cheers
Literature/Writing Ads / Re: Attention : I Need Writers(HIRED!!!) by jaysworld(f): 9:43am On May 11, 2015
Do check your mail box.

Regards
Joy
Jobs/Vacancies / Domestic Driver Needed by jaysworld(f): 10:05am On Mar 13, 2015
A domestic driver is urgently needed.

The person must reside around the yaba,Akoka,or mainland axis.

Please contact 08035385228 if you fit into the description.
Jobs/Vacancies / Domestic Driver Needed by jaysworld(f): 9:13am On Mar 13, 2015
A domestic driver is urgently needed.

The person must reside around the yaba,Akoka,or mainland axis.

Please contact 08035385228 if you fit into the description.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Need Blogger by jaysworld(f): 8:46am On Feb 18, 2015
I am a goid blogger and i can help you with your blog.

Hire me and you would be glad you did.
Jobs/Vacancies / Domestic Driver Needed Urgently by jaysworld(f): 8:41am On Feb 18, 2015
I am in need of a domestic driver-meaning this isn't a corporate driving job

Candidate must live around Yaba ,onipanu,Akoka/Bariga area.

Working on saturdays and sundays is compulsory,whilst there would be a working day off during the week.

Interested candidates should call 08035385228 now.
Romance / Re: Lost Interest In My Girlfriend by jaysworld(f): 1:25pm On Jan 23, 2015
Hi Christian.
Been following your thread.

I am a relationship counsellor. You can add me on facebook Joy Akwara Nwokoro or follow me on twitter @singlescafeng let us have a private counselling session.

If you don't mind,after i am done with you would also like to have a word with her.
Romance / 3 Activities To Engage In Whilst Waiting For Your Right Partner by jaysworld(f): 12:54pm On Jan 23, 2015
If you have been starry-eyed waiting for the right partner to surface, then you might want to agree with me that it can sometimes be a very frustrating and daunting task. This is because meeting that special person is one scenario we all want to behold without delay. However, ironically there are times when you just must wait some more.

Before getting to the real issue in this topic, it would be needful to know who the right partner really is, as the terms have often been bastardized by all and sundry. Simply said; the right partner does vary. To some it might mean that special person who sweeps one off the feet, it could also mean saying good bye to that grouchy and violent partner, and yet to others it could signify meeting that very focused partner. However in summary, the right partner means meeting that person who is perfect for you. Perfect to accommodate all your shortcomings and what have you.

Nonetheless, it must be worthy to note that you couldn’t possibly be waiting for the right person without first being the right person yourself. Yes, this means that your period of waiting simply indicates that you must work on the very important areas of your life so that by the time you meet him or her, there is a synergy.

Here are 3 key activities you must really engage in before meeting your partner.

1. Self Excursion
This has nothing to do with a physical trip to an island or ocean. It has to do with some self expedition. If you looked back at your past relationships you must be able to decipher whether you were really self-developed or not. Truth is that you have got to learn a whole lot about yourself before thinking to meet the right partner. The reverse however is the case with some folks, as they think that first finding the person would help them discover who they really are. They simply are putting the cart before the horse. Knowing your own areas of strengths and weaknesses, as well as learning your own value system would to a large extent help you in filtering the wrong partners from the very right one.

2. Be At Your Best
Do not wait till you meet her or him before you begin to be at the very zenith of your passion. In fact, some folks especially ladies are too scared to take on some bold career steps in life because they feel that might make men steer clear them. Truth is that you meet that special person when you are at the very best of your career. Those who run away from you because of your passion are truthfully not meant for you. That special person strolls by when you are at the height of your passion.

Read up more here.

http://singlescafeng..com/2015/01/3-activities-to-engage-in-whilst.html
Romance / Re: 3 Signs That You Are Loving The Wrong Person by jaysworld(f): 4:13pm On Jan 15, 2015
Take a cue guys.
Romance / 3 Reasons Why Co-habiting With Your Lover Before Marriage Might Spell Doom by jaysworld(f): 7:12pm On Jan 14, 2015
So, by now you already know that marriage is a lifelong contract and that it needs to be embarked on meticulously. Whilst some may argue that marrying their live-in lover was best for them, but with a critical look down the line, they have come to realize that such practice was charade which have caused them some hitches in future.

Co- habiting with your lover simply put means that you have come to terms with living with your partner with whom you are supposed to tie the nuptial knot with. The questions therefore are; is there really anything wrong with this? Aren’t there a thousand and one people who have treaded this path and are married today?

If you have been in doubt about this particular subject, then perhaps this read just might help. Follow me as we look at 3 reasons why this act might spell doom for you.

1. Excess Familiarity
I am sure that for the umpteenth time you must have heard the saying that goes; ‘too much familiarity breeds contempt’. Without a shadow of doubt, this is true and really holds sway with many marriages. Now imagine couples who weren’t live in lovers going through this phase, let alone live-in lovers who end up being married couples. Here is what happens; they become so used to themselves that they might even begin to take the love they share very unserious. The lesson here is that it is very needful that you wait before you are married before you begin to live with your partner so as to scale through this challenge that is capable of dealing a sad blow at your eventual union.


2. Co- habitation isn’t A Guarantee of Love
If you thought before now that living with your lover means that you would be loved more and in turn be the number one option for marriage, then you just may consider having a rethink. There is no guarantee that real love exists or might exist if you co- habited. In fact what this does is cause a great level of sexual attraction build between you both which might eventually become a stale one after you both must have become too sexually entwined. The rule of thumb therefore is to build your love independent of living together.

Read up more here;http://singlescafeng..com/2015/01/3-reasons-why-co-habiting-with-your.html
Romance / 3 Signs That You Are Loving The Wrong Person by jaysworld(f): 12:38pm On Jan 13, 2015
It is a huge truth that love is a very beautiful thing. This is no wonder late Teddy Pendergrass' song that has the line ' it's so good loving somebody...' sold platinum all over the world when it hit the charts. There are an avalanche of folks who would do all they could to make sure that they loved that one person they have purported in their hearts to.

However, the truth yet remains that the hurt that goes with being in love can sometimes be a disastrous one. If you have found yourself badly hurt by that one person you thought you loved, then you might reckon with this. This is because being mere mortals there are times when you have gotten it really wrong in your love relationships that you wished you knew before hand or were a superior being who had all the powers to know all along that the person wasn't just the right person for you.

Did you know that there are tell tale signs that you could take a cue from in knowing if you are loving the wrong person? Those who have their fingers burnt in time past know that following these signs would help prevent you some great pains in future.

Are you ready for these signs? Well, here you go.

1. When You Have Butterflies in Your Tummy

Surprised why this is one of the signs? Well; do not be, as this is one of the most important signs that show you- especially ladies that you are with the wrong person. This is also known as the Red flag system. This danger sign might surface whenever you are with a particular person whom you think you love and there is always this feeling of butterflies in your tummy. Truth is that physiologists have revealed that this is only a red flag feeling trying to signal you that that person isn't the right person. It is a sign that you might be in danger of being emotionally hurt. Statistics have further gone to show that 80 percent of people, who claimed they had butterflies in their tummies when in a relationship, certainly did break up along the line, as real reasons as to why they weren't compatible came to show.

Read up more here;

http://singlescafeng..com/2015/01/3-signs-that-you-are-loving-wrong-person.html
Romance / Love Relationship Attitude For 2015 by jaysworld(f): 1:31pm On Jan 12, 2015
If you have been looking to convert a mere love relationship with the opposite sex to a meaningful one that could possibly make for a long lasting one- marriage , then you just might want to agree that it takes loads of effort. This is not to say that converting a casual boyfriend and girlfriend affair into a long lasting relationship is a herculean task. In fact it only, means that you must be very willing to do the needful, as well as have a positive mindset.
So what does having the right mindset have to do with keeping a love relationship, you just might ask? Well, here are 3 surefire tips that you must be willing to work hard at attaining in 2015 to achieve the best.

http://singlescafeng..com/2015/01/love-relationship-attitude-for-2015.html
Jobs/Vacancies / An Experienced Driver Is Urgently Needed by jaysworld(f): 8:23am On Jan 09, 2015
A very experienced driver is urgently needed.

The person must reside around one the following axis: Yaba,Onipanu,Palmgroove,Akoka or Bariga area.

Must be aged 30 and above.

Interested person should urgently reach this number:08035385228.

Thanks
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Blog Authors Needed At ON! Tech News And Info by jaysworld(f): 3:47pm On Dec 22, 2014
Hi.My email is: joy.nwokoro@gmail.com
Literature/Writing Ads / Re: Professional Article Writters Needed!! by jaysworld(f): 10:29am On Dec 18, 2014
Hi i am available to write.....my email is joy.nwokoro@gmail.com

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Academic And Articles Writer Urgently Needed by jaysworld(f): 12:11pm On Dec 13, 2014
eripecs:
jaysworld, pls drop ur email here. I'll get back to you.

my email is joy.nwokoro@gmail.com
Literature/Writing Ads / Re: We Need Intelligent Content Writers, Individuals Or Organisations by jaysworld(f): 11:59am On Dec 09, 2014
Please check your mail box.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Need 3 Female Freelance Writers by jaysworld(f): 11:08am On Nov 14, 2014
Hi,
I just did you a mail.Please check.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Freelance Writers Needed! by jaysworld(f): 9:21am On Nov 03, 2014
Hi Ibexy,
I just sent in my sample.

Regards
Joy
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Cheers

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Writers Needed For Online News Blog by jaysworld(f): 10:16am On Nov 01, 2014
Would if be a work from home kind of job?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Web Designer / Administrator Needed For Urgent Employment by jaysworld(f): 7:38am On Nov 01, 2014
I am a writer and i am available.
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Best Regards
Business To Business / Ankara Accessories And Beads Mobile And Fixed Training by jaysworld(f): 1:31pm On Jan 09, 2014
Are you a Housewife? Do you know a house wife? Or better still are you a career person yet hungry for a skill? If your answer is Yes,then this information might do you good.

Registration for our Ankara Accessories and Bead Assembling training is on going. You will have the opportunity to learn the following;
Courses include: African Fabric Earrings,Bracelets,Broaches, Neck pieces,and Roses.

Caribbean Beads designing\Assembling for Bracelets,earrings,Single layered and multiple layered neck pieces.

No more cut throat price!Get this training at a really subsidized rate of N17,000 for our Mobile Class,and 15,000 for our fixed Class.

Other Benefits include:

-Free Mentorship by us.
-Free Lessons on ways to make your money back real fast.
-Ways to get clients at the snap of your fingertips.

Interested? Add Shannon Creations on BB: 2A8277D2,or call our hotline on 08035385228.Also let's chat on Whatsapp on the same line.

2014 is looking very promising with loads of blessings, so make hay while the sun shine

Please let someone in on this as you might helping someone acquire a skill of a lifetime.

Best Regards

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