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Romance › Re: Mr Jaybee's Input Especially: Am I Being Too Objective? by jazzmin(op): 6:50am On Dec 14, 2011

sexkillz:
[color=#000070] Is that all you want from a husband? Is "awws" and "oohs" a determinant to him being the husband, and subsequent father of your kids, you want him to become? Are you after impressing people with how perfect you two look as a couple, but deep down, all is not glittering? In life, you can NEVER have it all! There exists the perfect man NOT! [/color][color=#000070]All i'll say to you is keep him as a friend, but keep your eyes and ears open. Someone better could come along. You discussed a young couple that got engaged that did not have marriage in mind when they started dating in the first year, right? Was it first month? And in the first month, did the guy in the story make statements such as " He's gonna be the last one standing when all his friends have fallen in love and married."? No two relationship is the same! Study yours, and if it is not working to your favor, i believe you are old enough to know what you really want![/color]

Thankz a lo for your advice sexkillz and everyone. I'll take them all into consideration.

Romance › Mr Jaybee's Input Especially: Am I Being Too Objective? by jazzmin(op): 6:09am On Dec 13, 2011

[color=Black] I am 23 yrs, I recently got out of a relationship and I decided that the next relationship I go into would be with someone I can see myself settling with, not just to "see where it goes" or "casually dating" . So I put an age limit of 27 and up.

Then I met a guy, 25yr old and I ruled him out before I got to know him cos of his age, but then he kept insisting that his age had nothing to do with anything, he has 25 yr old friends that have proposed to their girlfriends, blah blah blah. I gave it a shot, and we've been talking for a month now. We started out very hot, and now it has kinda cooled off. and it's annoying now cos I kinda like him now I've gotten to know him. I think now he knows I like him, he has lost interest or something (I didn't play hard to get, but I wasn't so easy as well). He's been sounding a bit distracted, and I know work has really been hectic for him though, but am I being to selfish by expecting him to give me the attention he wad giving me in the beginning? I mean it's been only 1month and he is already cooling off?

Then last night, he made a comment about how his image as "Mr good times" cannot just go down like that. He's gonna be the last one standing when all his friends have fallen in love and married. It'll take a lot to get him to fall on his knees and propose(maybe he is trying to tell me something self). I just feel like I shouldn't even waste my time and his time. we have a very very good chemistry together, errbody does the "awws" and the "oohs" when they see us together, he is a very warm, and really nice person, funny and the life of the party type. I like errthing about him.

I'm thinking, should I just enjoy this guy, this feeling and this moment and stop worrying about age, whether he'll be ready to settle in 2 yrs, or marriage. OR should I stand firm in what I think I want - "permanent and soon-to-settle" type? The young couple he talked about that just got engaged, obviously didn't have marriage in mind when they started dating in first year , but now they are engaged. So maybe I should just keep that out of my mind and just enjoy the relationship but at the same time, I don't want to be the girl who is caught up n a 5-8 yr relationship that isn't going anywhere

Comments please, my apologies for the length. [/color]

Romance › Re: Caught by jazzmin: 11:40pm On Jan 25, 2010

unban190:
How would you feel if your little daughter or son catches you kissing her dad or her mum?

there are 1001 reasons why its not good to allow them see
you kissing your husband or wife
do u want to spoil the kids
u know kids tend to adapt to bad things these days~

Unban are you serious? What is wrong with the kids seeing their parents being affectionate? Is it not better for them to see their parents kissing and know it's for husband and wife, than to go see it in movies or elsewere and start practicing it in skool or w/ their friends?

Romance › Re: How Do You Deal With A Naija Lady by jazzmin: 11:35pm On Jan 25, 2010

Well she told you right at the beginning, and you still went to put your head inside, now you are complaining,

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