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Romance / See What Attracts Men To Women by jefflexy(m): 10:31pm On Oct 10, 2016
Curves: Men love curves. As Rashmi
Rao mentioned in one of her answers,
they are programmed to respond to
softness of a woman's body and
demeanor in this sharp-edged world,
and contrary to popular belief they are
very much in love with the bothering
love handles or embarrassing thighs.
They don't judge when they see curves.
Period.


Face: Ask a guy the definition of
cuteness/beauty. I can guarantee there
will be one face where you can't find
the 'beauty' word anywhere. But they
still love that face, the spots, the
freckles and every little imperfection on
it. Maybe beautiful eyes, crooked nose
or deep dimples. They can find
something so weird in the face, so
beautiful, it blows your mind.


Smile: Dealmaker. If you ever find a
guy out of your league, just flash a
smile, he will respond. Every man
responds to a genuine smile. And again,
not looking for a Madhuri Dixit here.
Just flash those gorgeous gems and
see the magic!!


Imperfections : Have to stress the point
again, because we are so much
obsessed with the cover girls that we
forget being organic is being sexy.

Almost every guy agrees too much
makeup is a turn-off. They want to see
some natural beauty in you. The mole
is absolutely okay, so is the buck teeth.


They tend to associate you with your
marks and scars, and it makes you
uniquely attractive to them and
distinguish you from rest of the crowd.
Quirks: Every person has a quirk. And
your quirk may make you more
adorable. Maybe how your twirl your
hair when thinking, twitch your eyes
when nervous, or the way you sigh
cutely......those do attract men who
aren't looking for plastic toys to play
with.


Treatment : The most important. How
you treat people around you, your
opinions and your behavior matter to
them. Treating him respectfully and
sweetly, if not flirting at the first
conversation, makes a very good
impression upon them. So if you like
the guy, just don't come into bitch-
mode. Most probably he will run far
and never come back. *damn those
romcoms showing this shit*


Similarity to his mom: Trust me, if
there is Megan Fox and if there is a girl
who is similar to his mom, he would
rather give up the former. Maybe
because right from the childhood they
saw their moms as the epitome of a
perfect woman, that they desire women
similar to them.


Femininity: The soft voice. The softer
touch. Or your OCD about a clean room
and cleaner closet. Batting your
eyelashes and those feminine hand
gestures. They will surely fall for you
more.


Nothing : Yes, sometimes none of the
above. Sometimes they just like a girl,
without rhyme or reason. The world
stops for him when he sees thegirl, and
they're not going to trade that for
anything in the whole wide world. This
is something completely unique to guys
only.
Romance / Re: I Think Men Have Better Sexual Lives Than Women by jefflexy(m): 10:08am On Oct 09, 2016
any proof about that?
Romance / I Think Men Have Better Sexual Lives Than Women by jefflexy(m): 10:05am On Oct 09, 2016
are men more active than women sexually ?
Romance / Re: 5 Most Sensitive Parts Of A Girls Body by jefflexy(m): 8:44am On Oct 05, 2016
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Romance / Re: 5 Most Sensitive Parts Of A Girls Body by jefflexy(m): 6:37am On Oct 05, 2016
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Romance / Is It True Men Are Better Than Women ? by jefflexy(m): 6:34am On Oct 05, 2016
Research has shown that men and women are equal in general intelligence (IQ), But that isn't the case when it comes to emotional intelligence.
There is a big difference in the way men and women express and understand emotions and so, we need to explore this fact.
Personally i think men are smarter, lets take some considerations :
1. Men have better self awareness:
men might have little awareness or understanding of their emotions in the hope of avoiding any accountability for their actions. you see the wisdom in men not having awareness? to save themselves from impending consequences but women are mostly not aware of themselves but aware of the man involved or the benefits.
2. Men have better self management :
self management is what you do with your emotions once you are aware of them. it is known that men are emotionally stronger than women and can play a better control of emotions than women. A man who is heart broken never burst into tears or starves himself for days but what of a woman? I bet she's gonna kill herself.
3. Men are better socially:
you never find women making new friends as much as men do. women are good green light flashers but never take the step. don't joke with a man on this.
4. Men handles relationships better, infact they drive the relationship: there is no good relationship unless both parties understand their emotions .men often handle situations in a relationship better because they have better self awareness and so wether the relationship starts or end is all his decision to make.
Any doubts air your views
Romance / Re: 5 Most Sensitive Parts Of A Girls Body by jefflexy(m): 11:52pm On Oct 04, 2016
that's all u need to noe
Romance / 5 Most Sensitive Parts Of A Girls Body by jefflexy(m): 8:00pm On Oct 04, 2016
5 Most Sensitive Parts of Women

Every man hopes to understand the mysteries of his partner's body, but it is important to understand that there can be no end for this quest as well. Developing a routine to pleasure a woman will amount to
digging a grave for your sex life.

On the contrary, it is not very hard to be creative in
the bed, especially when you know which
parts of the body to explore. Given below
are 5 parts of the female body that are
most likely to react to sexual advances.

1. Ears

The ear is covered with abundant nerve
endings and is one part of the body that
experiences the least amount of physical
contact in a day, which adds to its intrigue.

How to do: It would be wise to start slow by
gently exploring the shape of the ear before
caressing the earlobe with your lips. Slowly
combine these moves and penetrate the ear
with your tongue to both surprise and
pleasure your partner.

Low guttural sounds
or whispers are another way to leverage this
sensitive part.

2. Lips

There is a reason why couples find it
imperative to kiss because it is not just
some romantic convention but a stimulation
of the countless nerve endings on the lips.

This can cause secretions that affect the
whole body and make you feel good.
How to do: Kissing, however, is only one of
the ways to exploit a lady's lips.

The
tongue, teeth and fingers can also be used
to induce the same secretions in your
partner. Simply brush those lips while
catching your breath!

3. Nipples

Nipples are one of the most well–known
places among the 5 most sensitive parts on
the female body.

There are ways to utilize
them to their maximum potential.
How to do: Cupping a breast in your hand
while gently touching or licking regions
around the nipples will slowly stimulate the
body.

Then turn your focus to the nipples by
holding it with your lips and rubbing it with
your tongue. Studying your partner's
reaction can help you judge the nuances
that work for them.

4. Clitoris

If you ever doubt the importance of pleasure
in sex, then let me tell you about the clitoris,
a part of the woman's body that is custom
made for pleasure.

How to do: The slightest touch can set it
off, and it is important to understand just
how much gets your partner going. Gently
work it with two fingers or your mouth,
varying the type of motion and speed to see
what she likes. It is important to be gentle
and even use lubrication if needed.

5. Inner Thighs

The last of the 5 most sensitive parts are
the inner thighs. These are extremely
sensitive to touch and are best stimulated
gently with the tongue or fingers.

How to do: Down here, blowing over parts
that are moist is another way to excite your
partner. Caressing the thighs will increase
the flow of blood to the genitals and will
make MouthAction that much more pleasurable,
if done simultaneously.

Other 5 Sensitive Parts of Women
Besides the parts that we have listed as the
5 most sensitive parts, there are a few
others that could help you find more
creative ways of giving your partner an
orgasm.

1. Brain

While men are aroused by things they see,
women are stimulated through sound and
touch. Moreover, these senses are routed
directly to the brain and arousal actually
occurs because of how the brain perceives
thing that is heard.

How to do: Women don't mind repeatedly
hearing sweet words. Simply whispering
about the depth of your love during sex can
achieve a far quicker climax.

2. Neck

The neck is an interesting erogenous zone
and stimulation of the neck occurs mostly
due to a psychological effect. Massaging
the neck can make a woman feel
dominated, delicate and feminine, while
making the man seem powerful, talented
and masculine.

Such a sexual expression
gives some women a powerful sensation. It
is important to experiment and understand
just how much your partner is comfortable
with before mastering this particular region
during sex.

3. Hand and Feet

Caring for parts of the body that face
regular wear and tear can show the tender
and attentive side of a relationship.

How to do: Gently massaging callouses on
the feet with oil can stimulate the sensitive
parts of the feet. Simply touching these
parts can produce waves of pleasure in
some women.

Hands as well have sensitive
points that can be stimulated. They can be
massaged gently to relieve the tension in
the muscles and relax a woman. Loving care
for these parts can go a long way to attest
to your devotion and love, and in some
cases can aid orgasms far better than that
of the above 5 most sensitive parts.

4. Stomach

The stomach is a special part of any woman
because there is where she carries a child.
As a result, your partner could be sensitive
here and protective of this region.

How to do: Licking or touching this part can
produce feelings of arousal, as well as show
just how careful you can be. Exploring this
region above the vagina can indicate
promises of pleasures to come. It could
also be surprising for a woman to see the
attention you lavish to this often neglected
part.

5. Forehead

The forehead is a generally forgotten part of
the body, but a kiss here can have a great
psychological impact on a woman. A
forehead kiss shows your compassion and
how much you care.

When a man is able to
hold a woman close, kiss her forehead and
avoid further sexual advances, it shows
control and reassures a woman about his
ability to take charge.

This will stimulate her
and cause her to desire the man sexually.

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Health / Re: Why Women Need Cucumber by jefflexy(m): 7:36pm On Oct 04, 2016
i'll work on that.thanks
Fashion / Re: Mistakes Girls Make Dressing Up by jefflexy(m): 7:33pm On Oct 04, 2016
thanks
Jokes Etc / Re: If You Have These 15 Childhood Memories Then You Are A Real Ajepako by jefflexy(m): 7:28pm On Oct 04, 2016
grin...Lol aswear,we even drove keke on the street
Health / Re: Why Women Need Cucumber by jefflexy(m): 7:13pm On Oct 04, 2016
any available in the market...especially the fresh ones
Fashion / Mistakes Girls Make Dressing Up by jefflexy(m): 7:08pm On Oct 04, 2016
1. Her underwear/bra strap is showing. Even something as seemingly innocent as a camisole peeking out from an open blouse can read as inappropriate in an office environment, especially if it has little spaghetti straps or lace detailing that make it look especially like lingerie. Fix: Cover it up! Look at yourself in the mirror. Turn around. Stretch. Reach. Bend over. If at any point your bra strap pops out or you catch a glimpse of your shapewear peeking below the hem of your skirt, it's probably a good idea to change. Even if the exposed undergarment in question isn't sexy, the fact that it's visible makes you look sloppy and that's not the impression you want to give to a potential employer. 2. Her shirt/skirt/dress/whatever is see-through. Depending on the office you work in, even wearing a sheer blouse over a neutral bra or camisole can end up looking inappropriate. The fact is, even a little bit of transparency can be a distraction and you never want your clothes to be a distraction. Fix: Stick to sturdy fabrics and knits, and stay away from anything flimsy. And make sure any under layers you wear are smooth so they don't cause awkward ripples and bumps in your clothing. 3. You're trying to do a whole day- to-night thing. When you are at work, you should dress for work. Period. Dressing for whatever you have going on outside the office just gives the impression that work is not your number-one priority, and that is only going to hurt you in a highly competitive job market. Fix: Save the day-to-night stuff for after you actually have a job. Push that dinner reservation of yours to 9:00 so you have time to go home and get dressed after work. And don't even think about bringing a change of clothes to the office and getting dressed in the bathroom. 4. Her hair is wet and it's not even raining outside. How do you expect your boss to trust you to complete important tasks when you can't even manage to wake up in time to wash and blow-dry your own hair? Fix: Either wash it the night before, or put in some dry shampoo and give yourself an up-do. No one cares if your alarm didn't go off or if you were up all night comforting your roommate. It's up to you to manage your own time outside of the office. 5. You can't bend over without flashing the person standing behind you. If you feel the need to hold your skirt against your butt before bending over to pick up a dropped pen, then it is really too short. Fix: Wear a longer skirt or just wear pants. That is all. 6. Her high heels are slowing her down . It doesn't matter how professional your pumps look, if you can't haul ass when the time comes, then they are not appropriate. Fix: Stick to shoes you can run across the room in. For some people, this means wearing flats. For other people, it might mean wearing a heel that is just a little bit thicker than normal or putting a rubber tread on the bottom of an otherwise slick shoe. Whatever you need to do to stay mobile, just do it, because if your boss sees you walking when they think you should be running, they will think you do not share their sense of urgency, which could really hurt your chances of getting hired if/when the time comes. 7. Her makeup could only be considered professional if she is performing in a drag show. Wearing a lot of heavy makeup is distracting to those around you and can make you look high- maintenance, which is not an attractive quality to employers. Fix: Less is more. Office makeup should be minimal, natural, and polished. Even if you are wearing a lot of makeup, it shouldn't look like it. Save the heavy stuff for the weekend. 8. The smaller the straps, the smaller your chances of being taken seriously. It should go without saying then that strapless tops and dresses are completely inappropriate. Fix: Just make it easy on yourself and wear sleeves. You can also try layering a jacket or sweater over your strappy top or dress, but keep in mind that you will not be able to take that top layer off if you start to overheat.

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Health / Why Women Need Cucumber by jefflexy(m): 7:02pm On Oct 04, 2016
Here are some of the secret benefits of
cucumbers.

1. Cucumbers contain lots of vitamins: Our
bodies need minerals and vitamins for them
to act properly. One cucumber has your
bodies’ daily needs of vitamins.

These are some of the Vitamins found in
cucumbers: Thiamine (Vitamin B1),
riboflavin (Vitamin B2), nicatin (Vitamin B3),
Vitamin B6, folic acid, calcium, iron,
potassium, zinc, magnesium and
phosphorous.

2. Quick Fix for Cellulite: Rub a slice of
cucumber on the problem area for a few
minutes. There’s a substance in the
cucumber called phytochemicals.

This will cause the collagen in your skin to
tighten and firm up the outer layers. It
works wonders on wrinkles as well.

3. Energy Booster: If you want to get rid of
afternoon tiredness without resorting to
using caffeine, eat some cucumber.

The Vitamin B and Carbohydrates in the
cucumber will offer the energy boost your
body needs.

3. Hangover Cure: Are you prone to
hangovers and headaches after a few
drinks? Eat a few cucumber slices before
going to bed. It’s refreshing and will
stop you waking up with a headache.

The
sugar, vitamin B and electrolytes in the
cucumber will replace any vital nutrients the
body may have lost.

In addition, it will keep your system
balanced and prevent hangovers.

4. Curb Afternoon or Evening Snack
Bingeing: If you want to fight those hunger
pangs, eat some cucumber. It’s been used
for centuries by European
trappers, traders and explorers to sustain
them and prevent starvation.

5. Stress Buster: Need to relax and unwind?
Cut up a whole cucumber and put it in a pot
of boiling water. The nutrients and
chemicals from the
cucumber will react with the boiling water,
and release the beneficial properties through
the steam.

This will induce a calm, relaxing aroma in
the atmosphere. This has worked to cut
stress in new mothers and students taking
exams.

6. Cure for Dark Circles Under Eyes:
Cucumber helps to lighten dark circles under
the eyes. Cut two slices of cucumber. Lay
down and place one
slice on each eye for 5 to 10 minutes. Close
your eyes as the juice from the cucumber
may irritate them.

I have also used this
method to brighten my eyes. It works! It’s
also beneficial for soothing tired eyes;
especially for those of us who stare at a
computer screen for long periods.

7. Stop Bathroom Mirror from Clouding: Rub
a slice of cucumber along the inner edges
of the mirror.

This will stop the steam from fogging up the
mirror.

8. Shine Your Shoes Without Using Polish:
Cut some cucumber slices and rub them
over your shoes.

The chemicals from the
cucumber will give your shoes a lovely
shine. It also repels water. Your
shoes won’t lose their shine if they get wet.

9. Freshen Your Breath: To get rid of bad
breath, press a slice of cucumber to the
roof of your mouth. Use your tongue to hold
it in place for about 30 seconds.

The
phytochemicals from the cucumber will
destroy the bacteria which causes
bad breath.

10. Magic Eraser: This is useful for rubbing
out pen writing. Use the outside of a
cucumber as an eraser. Use it to rub off
crayon marks from walls as well.

11. Control Slugs in Your Garden: There’s
nothing more annoying than slugs destroying
your flower beds. Try this to keep them
away. Cut some cucumber slices. Put the
slices in a small tin and
place it in your garden.

The chemicals in the
cucumber and the aluminum reacts to
produce a scent.

The smell is not detectable to humans but
will keep those annoying slugs out of your
garden.

12. Fix That Squeaky Hinge: Need to stop
squeaky hinges and don’t have any WD-40?
Rub a slice of cucumber along the area of
the hinge that squeaks.
It works like a dream.

13. Clean and Shine Your Sink and Stainless
Steel Areas? Rub a slice of cucumber over
the surface that you want to clean. It will
remove tarnish and restore the shine. As an
experiment, I rubbed a thick slice of
cucumber over my glass top table and
wiped off the juice with a kitchen towel.

The result was a beautiful, shiny glass
table. Try it for yourself.

14. Remedy for Sunburn: To soothe your
sunburn skin, try this. Cut some thin slices
of cucumber and put them on the sunburn
area.

Remove them when the cucumber starts to
feel warm on your skin.
They’re beneficial for delicate areas, such
as the face and neck.

15. Face Mask: For oily skin – grate 1/2
cucumber into a bowl and add 1 tea spoon
of rose-water.

Apply to the T-Zone, which is the forehead,
nose and chin. To reduce pores and tighten
skin – apply the mixture all over the face
including under the eyes and eyelids. Leave
on for 15 minutes and rinse with warm
water.

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