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Romance / See What Attracts Men To Women by jefflexy(m): 10:31pm On Oct 10, 2016 |
Curves: Men love curves. As Rashmi Rao mentioned in one of her answers, they are programmed to respond to softness of a woman's body and demeanor in this sharp-edged world, and contrary to popular belief they are very much in love with the bothering love handles or embarrassing thighs. They don't judge when they see curves. Period. Face: Ask a guy the definition of cuteness/beauty. I can guarantee there will be one face where you can't find the 'beauty' word anywhere. But they still love that face, the spots, the freckles and every little imperfection on it. Maybe beautiful eyes, crooked nose or deep dimples. They can find something so weird in the face, so beautiful, it blows your mind. Smile: Dealmaker. If you ever find a guy out of your league, just flash a smile, he will respond. Every man responds to a genuine smile. And again, not looking for a Madhuri Dixit here. Just flash those gorgeous gems and see the magic!! Imperfections : Have to stress the point again, because we are so much obsessed with the cover girls that we forget being organic is being sexy. Almost every guy agrees too much makeup is a turn-off. They want to see some natural beauty in you. The mole is absolutely okay, so is the buck teeth. They tend to associate you with your marks and scars, and it makes you uniquely attractive to them and distinguish you from rest of the crowd. Quirks: Every person has a quirk. And your quirk may make you more adorable. Maybe how your twirl your hair when thinking, twitch your eyes when nervous, or the way you sigh cutely......those do attract men who aren't looking for plastic toys to play with. Treatment : The most important. How you treat people around you, your opinions and your behavior matter to them. Treating him respectfully and sweetly, if not flirting at the first conversation, makes a very good impression upon them. So if you like the guy, just don't come into bitch- mode. Most probably he will run far and never come back. *damn those romcoms showing this shit* Similarity to his mom: Trust me, if there is Megan Fox and if there is a girl who is similar to his mom, he would rather give up the former. Maybe because right from the childhood they saw their moms as the epitome of a perfect woman, that they desire women similar to them. Femininity: The soft voice. The softer touch. Or your OCD about a clean room and cleaner closet. Batting your eyelashes and those feminine hand gestures. They will surely fall for you more. Nothing : Yes, sometimes none of the above. Sometimes they just like a girl, without rhyme or reason. The world stops for him when he sees thegirl, and they're not going to trade that for anything in the whole wide world. This is something completely unique to guys only. |
Romance / Re: I Think Men Have Better Sexual Lives Than Women by jefflexy(m): 10:08am On Oct 09, 2016 |
any proof about that? |
Romance / I Think Men Have Better Sexual Lives Than Women by jefflexy(m): 10:05am On Oct 09, 2016 |
are men more active than women sexually ? |
Romance / Re: 5 Most Sensitive Parts Of A Girls Body by jefflexy(m): 8:44am On Oct 05, 2016 |
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Romance / Re: 5 Most Sensitive Parts Of A Girls Body by jefflexy(m): 6:37am On Oct 05, 2016 |
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Romance / Is It True Men Are Better Than Women ? by jefflexy(m): 6:34am On Oct 05, 2016 |
Research has shown that men and
women are equal in general intelligence
(IQ), But that isn't the case when it
comes to emotional intelligence. There is a big difference in the way men and women express and understand emotions and so, we need to explore this fact. Personally i think men are smarter, lets take some considerations : 1. Men have better self awareness: men might have little awareness or understanding of their emotions in the hope of avoiding any accountability for their actions. you see the wisdom in men not having awareness? to save themselves from impending consequences but women are mostly not aware of themselves but aware of the man involved or the benefits. 2. Men have better self management : self management is what you do with your emotions once you are aware of them. it is known that men are emotionally stronger than women and can play a better control of emotions than women. A man who is heart broken never burst into tears or starves himself for days but what of a woman? I bet she's gonna kill herself. 3. Men are better socially: you never find women making new friends as much as men do. women are good green light flashers but never take the step. don't joke with a man on this. 4. Men handles relationships better, infact they drive the relationship: there is no good relationship unless both parties understand their emotions .men often handle situations in a relationship better because they have better self awareness and so wether the relationship starts or end is all his decision to make. Any doubts air your views |
Romance / Re: 5 Most Sensitive Parts Of A Girls Body by jefflexy(m): 11:52pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
that's all u need to noe |
Romance / 5 Most Sensitive Parts Of A Girls Body by jefflexy(m): 8:00pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
5 Most Sensitive Parts of Women Every man hopes to understand the mysteries of his partner's body, but it is important to understand that there can be no end for this quest as well. Developing a routine to pleasure a woman will amount to digging a grave for your sex life. On the contrary, it is not very hard to be creative in the bed, especially when you know which parts of the body to explore. Given below are 5 parts of the female body that are most likely to react to sexual advances. 1. Ears The ear is covered with abundant nerve endings and is one part of the body that experiences the least amount of physical contact in a day, which adds to its intrigue. How to do: It would be wise to start slow by gently exploring the shape of the ear before caressing the earlobe with your lips. Slowly combine these moves and penetrate the ear with your tongue to both surprise and pleasure your partner. Low guttural sounds or whispers are another way to leverage this sensitive part. 2. Lips There is a reason why couples find it imperative to kiss because it is not just some romantic convention but a stimulation of the countless nerve endings on the lips. This can cause secretions that affect the whole body and make you feel good. How to do: Kissing, however, is only one of the ways to exploit a lady's lips. The tongue, teeth and fingers can also be used to induce the same secretions in your partner. Simply brush those lips while catching your breath! 3. Nipples Nipples are one of the most well–known places among the 5 most sensitive parts on the female body. There are ways to utilize them to their maximum potential. How to do: Cupping a breast in your hand while gently touching or licking regions around the nipples will slowly stimulate the body. Then turn your focus to the nipples by holding it with your lips and rubbing it with your tongue. Studying your partner's reaction can help you judge the nuances that work for them. 4. Clitoris If you ever doubt the importance of pleasure in sex, then let me tell you about the clitoris, a part of the woman's body that is custom made for pleasure. How to do: The slightest touch can set it off, and it is important to understand just how much gets your partner going. Gently work it with two fingers or your mouth, varying the type of motion and speed to see what she likes. It is important to be gentle and even use lubrication if needed. 5. Inner Thighs The last of the 5 most sensitive parts are the inner thighs. These are extremely sensitive to touch and are best stimulated gently with the tongue or fingers. How to do: Down here, blowing over parts that are moist is another way to excite your partner. Caressing the thighs will increase the flow of blood to the genitals and will make MouthAction that much more pleasurable, if done simultaneously. Other 5 Sensitive Parts of Women Besides the parts that we have listed as the 5 most sensitive parts, there are a few others that could help you find more creative ways of giving your partner an orgasm. 1. Brain While men are aroused by things they see, women are stimulated through sound and touch. Moreover, these senses are routed directly to the brain and arousal actually occurs because of how the brain perceives thing that is heard. How to do: Women don't mind repeatedly hearing sweet words. Simply whispering about the depth of your love during sex can achieve a far quicker climax. 2. Neck The neck is an interesting erogenous zone and stimulation of the neck occurs mostly due to a psychological effect. Massaging the neck can make a woman feel dominated, delicate and feminine, while making the man seem powerful, talented and masculine. Such a sexual expression gives some women a powerful sensation. It is important to experiment and understand just how much your partner is comfortable with before mastering this particular region during sex. 3. Hand and Feet Caring for parts of the body that face regular wear and tear can show the tender and attentive side of a relationship. How to do: Gently massaging callouses on the feet with oil can stimulate the sensitive parts of the feet. Simply touching these parts can produce waves of pleasure in some women. Hands as well have sensitive points that can be stimulated. They can be massaged gently to relieve the tension in the muscles and relax a woman. Loving care for these parts can go a long way to attest to your devotion and love, and in some cases can aid orgasms far better than that of the above 5 most sensitive parts. 4. Stomach The stomach is a special part of any woman because there is where she carries a child. As a result, your partner could be sensitive here and protective of this region. How to do: Licking or touching this part can produce feelings of arousal, as well as show just how careful you can be. Exploring this region above the vagina can indicate promises of pleasures to come. It could also be surprising for a woman to see the attention you lavish to this often neglected part. 5. Forehead The forehead is a generally forgotten part of the body, but a kiss here can have a great psychological impact on a woman. A forehead kiss shows your compassion and how much you care. When a man is able to hold a woman close, kiss her forehead and avoid further sexual advances, it shows control and reassures a woman about his ability to take charge. This will stimulate her and cause her to desire the man sexually. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Health / Re: Why Women Need Cucumber by jefflexy(m): 7:36pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
i'll work on that.thanks |
Fashion / Re: Mistakes Girls Make Dressing Up by jefflexy(m): 7:33pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
thanks |
Jokes Etc / Re: If You Have These 15 Childhood Memories Then You Are A Real Ajepako by jefflexy(m): 7:28pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
...Lol aswear,we even drove keke on the street |
Health / Re: Why Women Need Cucumber by jefflexy(m): 7:13pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
any available in the market...especially the fresh ones |
Fashion / Mistakes Girls Make Dressing Up by jefflexy(m): 7:08pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
1. Her underwear/bra strap is
showing.
Even something as seemingly
innocent as a camisole peeking
out from an open blouse can
read as inappropriate in an
office environment, especially if
it has little spaghetti straps or
lace detailing that make it look
especially like lingerie.
Fix: Cover it up!
Look at yourself in the mirror.
Turn around. Stretch. Reach.
Bend over. If at any point your
bra strap pops out or you catch a
glimpse of your shapewear
peeking below the hem of your
skirt, it's probably a good idea to
change. Even if the exposed
undergarment in question
isn't sexy, the fact that it's
visible makes you look sloppy
and that's not the impression you
want to give to a potential
employer.
2. Her shirt/skirt/dress/whatever is
see-through.
Depending on the office you
work in, even wearing a sheer
blouse over a neutral bra or
camisole can end up looking
inappropriate. The fact is, even a
little bit of transparency can be a
distraction and you never want
your clothes to be a distraction.
Fix: Stick to sturdy fabrics and
knits, and stay away from
anything flimsy.
And make sure any under layers
you wear are smooth so they
don't cause awkward ripples and
bumps in your clothing.
3. You're trying to do a whole day-
to-night thing.
When you are at work, you
should dress for work. Period.
Dressing for whatever you have
going on outside the office just
gives the impression that work is
not your number-one priority,
and that is only going to hurt you
in a highly competitive job
market.
Fix: Save the day-to-night stuff
for after you actually have a job.
Push that dinner reservation of
yours to 9:00 so you have time to
go home and get dressed after
work. And don't even think
about bringing a change of
clothes to the office and getting
dressed in the bathroom.
4. Her hair is wet and it's not
even raining outside.
How do you expect your boss to
trust you to complete important
tasks when you can't even
manage to wake up in time to
wash and blow-dry your own
hair?
Fix: Either wash it the night
before, or put in some dry
shampoo and give yourself an
up-do.
No one cares if your alarm didn't
go off or if you were up all night
comforting your roommate. It's
up to you to manage your own
time outside of the office.
5. You can't bend over without
flashing the person standing behind
you.
If you feel the need to hold your
skirt against your butt before
bending over to pick up a
dropped pen, then it is really too
short.
Fix: Wear a longer skirt or just
wear pants.
That is all.
6. Her high heels are slowing her
down .
It doesn't matter how
professional your pumps look, if
you can't haul ass when the time
comes, then they are not
appropriate.
Fix: Stick to shoes you can run
across the room in.
For some people, this means
wearing flats. For other people, it
might mean wearing a heel that
is just a little bit thicker than
normal or putting a rubber tread
on the bottom of an otherwise
slick shoe. Whatever you need to
do to stay mobile, just do it,
because if your boss sees you
walking when they think you
should be running, they will
think you do not share their
sense of urgency, which could
really hurt your chances of
getting hired if/when the time
comes.
7. Her makeup could only be
considered professional if she is
performing in a drag show.
Wearing a lot of heavy makeup
is distracting to those around you
and can make you look high-
maintenance, which is not an
attractive quality to employers.
Fix: Less is more.
Office makeup should be
minimal, natural, and polished.
Even if you are wearing a lot of
makeup, it shouldn't look like it.
Save the heavy stuff for the
weekend.
8. The smaller the straps, the
smaller your chances of being taken
seriously.
It should go without saying then
that strapless tops and dresses
are completely inappropriate.
Fix: Just make it easy on yourself
and wear sleeves.
You can also try layering a jacket
or sweater over your strappy top
or dress, but keep in mind that
you will not be able to take that
top layer off if you start to
overheat. 1 Like |
Health / Why Women Need Cucumber by jefflexy(m): 7:02pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Here are some of the secret benefits of cucumbers. 1. Cucumbers contain lots of vitamins: Our bodies need minerals and vitamins for them to act properly. One cucumber has your bodies’ daily needs of vitamins. These are some of the Vitamins found in cucumbers: Thiamine (Vitamin B1), riboflavin (Vitamin B2), nicatin (Vitamin B3), Vitamin B6, folic acid, calcium, iron, potassium, zinc, magnesium and phosphorous. 2. Quick Fix for Cellulite: Rub a slice of cucumber on the problem area for a few minutes. There’s a substance in the cucumber called phytochemicals. This will cause the collagen in your skin to tighten and firm up the outer layers. It works wonders on wrinkles as well. 3. Energy Booster: If you want to get rid of afternoon tiredness without resorting to using caffeine, eat some cucumber. The Vitamin B and Carbohydrates in the cucumber will offer the energy boost your body needs. 3. Hangover Cure: Are you prone to hangovers and headaches after a few drinks? Eat a few cucumber slices before going to bed. It’s refreshing and will stop you waking up with a headache. The sugar, vitamin B and electrolytes in the cucumber will replace any vital nutrients the body may have lost. In addition, it will keep your system balanced and prevent hangovers. 4. Curb Afternoon or Evening Snack Bingeing: If you want to fight those hunger pangs, eat some cucumber. It’s been used for centuries by European trappers, traders and explorers to sustain them and prevent starvation. 5. Stress Buster: Need to relax and unwind? Cut up a whole cucumber and put it in a pot of boiling water. The nutrients and chemicals from the cucumber will react with the boiling water, and release the beneficial properties through the steam. This will induce a calm, relaxing aroma in the atmosphere. This has worked to cut stress in new mothers and students taking exams. 6. Cure for Dark Circles Under Eyes: Cucumber helps to lighten dark circles under the eyes. Cut two slices of cucumber. Lay down and place one slice on each eye for 5 to 10 minutes. Close your eyes as the juice from the cucumber may irritate them. I have also used this method to brighten my eyes. It works! It’s also beneficial for soothing tired eyes; especially for those of us who stare at a computer screen for long periods. 7. Stop Bathroom Mirror from Clouding: Rub a slice of cucumber along the inner edges of the mirror. This will stop the steam from fogging up the mirror. 8. Shine Your Shoes Without Using Polish: Cut some cucumber slices and rub them over your shoes. The chemicals from the cucumber will give your shoes a lovely shine. It also repels water. Your shoes won’t lose their shine if they get wet. 9. Freshen Your Breath: To get rid of bad breath, press a slice of cucumber to the roof of your mouth. Use your tongue to hold it in place for about 30 seconds. The phytochemicals from the cucumber will destroy the bacteria which causes bad breath. 10. Magic Eraser: This is useful for rubbing out pen writing. Use the outside of a cucumber as an eraser. Use it to rub off crayon marks from walls as well. 11. Control Slugs in Your Garden: There’s nothing more annoying than slugs destroying your flower beds. Try this to keep them away. Cut some cucumber slices. Put the slices in a small tin and place it in your garden. The chemicals in the cucumber and the aluminum reacts to produce a scent. The smell is not detectable to humans but will keep those annoying slugs out of your garden. 12. Fix That Squeaky Hinge: Need to stop squeaky hinges and don’t have any WD-40? Rub a slice of cucumber along the area of the hinge that squeaks. It works like a dream. 13. Clean and Shine Your Sink and Stainless Steel Areas? Rub a slice of cucumber over the surface that you want to clean. It will remove tarnish and restore the shine. As an experiment, I rubbed a thick slice of cucumber over my glass top table and wiped off the juice with a kitchen towel. The result was a beautiful, shiny glass table. Try it for yourself. 14. Remedy for Sunburn: To soothe your sunburn skin, try this. Cut some thin slices of cucumber and put them on the sunburn area. Remove them when the cucumber starts to feel warm on your skin. They’re beneficial for delicate areas, such as the face and neck. 15. Face Mask: For oily skin – grate 1/2 cucumber into a bowl and add 1 tea spoon of rose-water. Apply to the T-Zone, which is the forehead, nose and chin. To reduce pores and tighten skin – apply the mixture all over the face including under the eyes and eyelids. Leave on for 15 minutes and rinse with warm water. 1 Like 1 Share |
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