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Autos / Re: I Finally Bought The Tokunbo E250 Ford Econoline For 1.4m (PICS ATTACHED) by jideakpan1: 10:59am On Jun 10, 2022
Very good and rugged vehicle. I used it while doing some logistic contract with UPS in the US. Can really carry load.
Good investment at that price.
All the best to you!

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Crime / Re: Nigerian Man Kills Himself During Police Chase After Shooting His Wife And Mom by jideakpan1: 12:10pm On Jun 03, 2022
Divorce, custody and child support is the primary reason for most of the killings in the US. The US govt is in denial and the people know these things but are afraid of being labeled "irresponsible".
Unfortunately these killings will continue until the system is fixed to be fair to the men also instead of always believing the lies of probably a cheating wife.
Politics / Re: Nigerian Army Gets New University In Biu, Borno State by jideakpan1: 12:24am On Apr 12, 2018
Good development. Biu is an old city but one of the most marginalized area in the entire country. I hope that this will lead to the completion of the Biu dam which is the only Federal project in the entire southern Borno. The dam was started over 30 years ago. Make we see how Kanuri want take vex.
Family / Re: How Can My Husband Adopt My Son Legally? by jideakpan1: 3:26am On Mar 08, 2018
Actually you do nothing. When your husband completes the form I-130, he just adds both of you to the forms and pay the relevant fees when he makes submission. He should indicate for relationship that your son is his step son. Your son is still a minor and by virtue of your marriage to your husband, that makes your son a relative.
Career / Re: Injustice In My Workplace; Should I Return The Money? by jideakpan1: 2:38pm On Mar 03, 2018
You are an employee of form A on contract loan to firm B. Firm A's business is to help procure workers like you for firms like B. You do not have a contract with firm B. You are not their employee and are not directly obligated to them in terms of liabilities. Firm A as recruiter is in business because firms like B don't have the time or resources to undertake the expensive venture of running a HR dept. Firms like A survive on the difference negotiated with both employees and employers like firm B.
So, did you interview with firm A , B or both?
Did you negotiate salary with A, B or both?
From your write-up, I think firm B is interfering with firm A's business especially if firm A had negotiated and agreed on Salary with you. If firm A had structured their contract with you very well, you are not supposed to contact firm B about anything as they are NOT your employer. You are supposed to make your reports or requests through your employer -firm A. If firm B had mistreated you, firm A is supposed to be there to defend you based on labor laws.
So now that your investigations have put both firms at loggerheads and has taken commission that was earned by firm A for supplying worker (YOU) to firm B, I think you should let them have their commission as long as they are paying you what was agreed. Firm A is your employer and not firm B. Let them have their commission.

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Family / Re: I Had A Fight With My Husband by jideakpan1: 8:46am On Aug 29, 2009
We live this practically everyday. While it is wrong for you to have disrespected each other, I would like to suggest that you look for him immediately because as much as we know that time heals, it could be a dangerous thing for you both to be away from each other for more than a few days. As being human, one of you could fall to the many temptations out there. Here are my suggestions without the blames.
1. Looks for your husband immediately. 2. You may be the offended one but there is nothing wrong in apologizing even when you are "right." It is advisable because keeping the peace is necessary. 3. At this time, pls do not call the police. I know a family where the husband made the mistake of hitting the wife( he still regrets it till today) and she did call the police and as we speak, they are no longer together. Divorce is very painful to both parties no matter how much they try to brag when they are with their friends n supporters.
4. When you eventually come together again, Sit and talk about these things and fashion out a way to deal with future occurances- Communication is key. Make your husband realize how much he has hurt you and while at it, let him know also how much you love him. Keep talking about these differences until you both get them off your minds b4 they take you to the place of resentment.
There is much stress out here and you both will need each other's support to scale to the next level. As soon as you both sort yourselves out, get in to make good friends  and be accountable to each other as husband n wife and as friends. Let his friend talk to him when he is wrong and same for you. Do be careful though to pick good  friends.
I wish you both a happy marriage.

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