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lenghtinny:That’s another angle and you could be right . Understanding the concept will help women in Nigeria . Toxicity ain’t feminism. |
That’s a very generalized way to look at people. Relationships aren’t based on labels like that, they’re based on character and how two people treat each other. About your feminist point, I don’t agree with that description. Wanting equality doesn’t automatically mean wanting control or fighting a man’s role. In healthy relationships, leadership and decisions are shared through respect, not competition. If there’s constant conflict, that’s more about the specific relationship, not a whole group of women or all women. On single mothers, I understand the responsibility angle, yes the children will always be part of her life, but that doesn’t automatically mean you are “second place” or disrespected. A mature relationship is about accepting someone’s reality, including kids, and building something together if you choose that path. It’s not a trap, it’s a choice. About party girl. I get that lifestyle differences can cause issues long-term, especially if someone doesn’t want to change. But again, that depends on the individual. Some people naturally grow out of that phase, others don’t. You can’t assume everyone stays the same forever or lacks discipline. At the end of the day, I think judging people by categories like this ignores the real issue, which is compatibility, values, and maturity on both sides. I live in a first world country and my ideology changed from the traditional views since I left Nigeria . Equality is big here and that has thought me to respect a spouse even more and earn equal respect. Life is even sweeter with equality, feminism doesn’t take the place of respect and love. It only asks for consideration , respect and to be acknowledged. |
CodeTemplar:White South Africans, not blacks Count black millionaires In South Africa ![]() South African millionaires by group (approx.) * 🇿🇦 White South Africans: ~54–60% * 🖤 Black South Africans: ~7-10% * 🇮🇳 Indian South Africans: ~35% * 🇨🇳 Chinese South Africans: ~1–2% * 🟤 Coloured / Mixed race South Africans 3-5% SA is the only country with two distinct worlds Nigerian millionaires are Nigerians and proud blacks. Nigerian has a huge population and it is expected to see migration , we know we have bad leadership , poor systems and we don’t hide this fact as Nigerians . We probably have the worst leadership but we strive and still come out on top despite having a stupid government. That’s what makes us unique. We are not lazy and we don’t get anything for free . We literally pay for every damn thing and survive by hard work and brilliance . South Africans get government grants for for low income around R530 per child if you qualify . South Africa also have public healthcare for most South Africans . Yet you have the laziest youth in Africa. Give Nigerians this opportunity and watch us soar. Give us credit for surviving despite all odds against us as citizens . Lastly if you think relocation is easy . Try it . . Japa Requires Brain , money and serious commitment and hard work . We just work hard for everything . That being said , however I will say Big shame to Nigerians doing crime in South Africa or anywhere in the world . |
internationalman:No mind the pikin. Even people on minimum wage here still send good money home. The 19-year-old girl renting my apartment works as a hotel attendant and is already building a house in Delta. Nigeria is not a bad place, na leadership spoil things. I also left even though I was comfortable back home, but I came with a plan. I went straight to school and worked toward nursing and I am thankful to God I made that decision |
you know how you barely eat per day in CanadaMaybe you should feed me then. You think say na one of those homeless people that came to seek asylum you de talk to. Even asylum seekers get fed real good. That’s why food banks exist for the poor. |
Ninaffivadit:Which Canada ? Fuel that I just bought few minutes ago. It’s 1.52 per litter not 155 dollars . Or maybe you meant to type 152.3 cents not 155 dollar . I bought $70 gas And that would last me a week. Don’t even compare Canada to Nigeria bros. This country has given me a better life. I thought I had a good life in Nigeria until I left . |
heniford2:We all experience it brother . Na who no know de happy say snow de fall. There’s nothing good about snow . It is simply a bad weather . Yeah I like it here too for other reasons and I am highly skilled so my life goals are met here unlike Nigeria where dreams are barely achievable or by connection . Weather wise , Nigeria wins . |
Roon9:It’s not about driving skills my brother , The reason we change tires twice a year in Canada is because regular tires are not designed for extreme winter conditions. We keep the regular tire in the garage until it’s summer again and you are charged good money when changing it cos you have to go in for the change unlike Naija where we change tires ourselves. They do some balancing and more. Winter tires are made with a special rubber compound that stays soft in very cold temperatures. Regular all-season tires become hard when it is very cold. When the rubber becomes hard, it cannot grip the road properly. That means less traction on snow and ice. With regular tires , it affects braking. The tires are designed with deeper treads and special patterns that bite into snow and push away slush. This helps the car stop faster and more safely. With regular tires, braking distance increases on icy roads, which can easily lead to accidents. you go match brake , car go de slide de carry you go where you no know and our traffic light sabi change quick , light wey green now now go yellow and turn red and person wey de your front go stop cos they get winter tire , you wey no get go brake too , slide go hit am, you don buy gbese, And there is the issue of tire pressure. In cold weather, air contracts, and tire pressure drops. When pressure drops too low, it affects handling, fuel efficiency, and safety. Winter tires are built to perform better under those cold conditions, even when pressure You also deal with black ice, packed snow, slush, and extreme temperatures. Winter tires are specifically engineered for those conditions. In summer, however, winter tires wear out quickly because the rubber is too soft for warm pavement so you have to take it offf to save your investment, na like 1300 dollars I buy all 4. That is why we switch back to regular or all-season tires when temperatures rise. So it is not just for comfort. It is mainly for safety, proper grip, better braking, stability, and to reduce the risk of accidents |
Nice photos Well, after living in Canada for some time, I can say that Nigeria’s weather is way better than Canada’s. Nigeria has warm weather almost all year round. You wake up to sunshine, clear roads, and you can go out without wearing heavy jackets, boots, gloves, and hats. The weather makes life easier and more enjoyable. You can move around freely, attend events, and socialize without worrying about extreme cold. Although Nigeria is usually hot, there are many days that are not extremely hot, and those days are very comfortable. A place like Jos, for example, has a mild and pleasant climate that is not harsh. If Canada had weather like Jos, more people would truly enjoy it. Especially here in Canada, we have 24-hour electricity, so running an air conditioner would not even be a problem and will be a less expensive alternative to using furnace in the winter that makes our energy bill very high. That kind of weather would be perfect. On the other hand, snow in Canada is not as exciting as it looks in pictures. Yes, it looks beautiful at first, but realistically it brings many challenges. Roads get covered in snow and ice, which makes driving stressful and dangerous. Accident rates increase during winter because of slippery roads. You also spend more money on gas since cars use more fuel in cold weather. Then there is the cost of changing tires twice a year. You need winter tires for the snow and then change back to regular tires. That is extra expense and stress. Frostbite is also a real risk when the temperature drops too low. The cold weather can affect people’s mental health too. Many people experience seasonal depression because they stay indoors most of the time due to the cold. Winter takes up a big part of the year, and we literally celebrate when summer finally comes. Shoveling snow from your driveway and walkway is another task that is not enjoyable, imagine that you have to wake up and shovel for 30mins before going to work in extreme cold when it decides to snow daily, and start your car 20 to 30 mins before you leave home to make sure it is warm inside and ice on the windshield melts, sometimes your car won’t even start adding to the frustration, that’s why we plug in our cars overnight to make sure it starts the next day’ . The city clears snow from the roads, but they often push it to the sides of the streets, which covers street parking. It becomes hard to find parking when you go to work or other places. Compared to summer, where the streets are clear and driving is more straightforward weather-wise, winter here adds extra stress to daily life. So realistically, even though Canada has its own beauty, but simmer makes daily living easier, more comfortable, and less stressful overall. |
Adaumunocha:Not for immigrants .only a few get lucky. Read my comment above |
I have called my friend in Kuwait and this were her words . Before leaving Africa she was promised a good salary, but when she arrived the contract was different and the pay was lower than what she agreed to. Because she had already travelled and even borrowed money to go, she had no real choice but to accept it. This is common where workers are shown one contract at home and another on arrival. Her employer collected her passport immediately. Even though this is illegal, it still happens a lot. Without her passport she could not leave the country and she could not change jobs. Under the sponsorship (kafala) system, the employer controls your residency status. If they cancel it, you can instantly become illegal. Because of that she was afraid to complain even when she worked very long hours with almost no proper rest days. Sometimes her salary was delayed. Some days she worked from morning until late night. She depended completely on the employer. She also told me her movement was controlled. Even going out into the city was scheduled by the employer, sometimes only once a month. Many workers she knows live the same way. They have been there for years and cannot easily leave because their passports are held and their visa depends on the employer. She feels trapped and says she lives like a slave because she cannot freely decide where to go or when to stop working. It has affected her mentally and emotionally. The weather is another serious problem. During summer temperatures can go above 50°C. For people working outside like construction, security, or delivery, heat stroke and dehydration are real dangers. Even indoor domestic workers still suffer because of long hours and lack of rest. There are also strict laws and cultural differences. Alcohol is illegal, public behaviour rules are stricter, and even social media posts criticizing authorities or arguing with employers can become legal trouble. Something normal back home may become a police matter there. If you do not speak Arabic it becomes even harder to defend yourself or solve disputes. No matter the confirmation or promises given before travelling, it is still risky. Almost everyone my friend knows there is in similar conditions, working only under employer terms and unable to freely change jobs. Some people succeed, but many struggle silently because they cannot just leave. If you still plan to sponsor him, make sure everything is officially verified. Use only licensed recruitment channels, never let him travel on a tourist visa to work, confirm the contract through official authorities before he leaves, ensure he keeps copies of all documents, inform family of his exact address and employer, register with his embassy immediately after arrival, and get written agreement that the employer will not keep his passport and allows job transfer if needed. Please do not rush because of money. Sometimes what looks like an opportunity can turn into suffering if things are not properly arranged. It is better to delay and be safe than to send someone into a situation where leaving becomes difficult. |
I have a friend who’s in Kuwait I will call her and ask but her condition was bad last time I checked |
DR Congo earned their place, and if the rules end up hurting them that would still be considered fair. Nigeria will be given a third chance, and I just hope they don’t waste it. We had every reason to qualify on our own but failed, so I can’t really be excited about qualifying through back-door or unfortunate situations. Either way, I wish both teams well. If DR Congo were in our position, they would also push for the opportunity, so I don’t see why we shouldn’t. Every country is patriotic and wants to be part of the World Cup. We picked form and made fantastic discoveries after failing to qualify for World Cup which is evident in the nations cup . It will be exciting to see if that was a fluke or if Chelle is getting things right with the boys finally. |
The amount of money this woman stole make me wonder how some Nigerian politicians steal money they can never finish spending, yet keep piling it up for generations. It makes you wonder what kind of wicked leaders we have, instead of people who actually want to make the country better like other oil-rich nations. Nigeria is a place where life can be enjoyed more than abroad, where people work nonstop just to pay bills. So why not make this place a real heaven? That way, everyone could enjoy it, instead of destroying it with greed |
Freshandfitpod:I have explained better above . Just my opinion anyway . Of the business runs on fuel die to lack of power , guess how long it would take for 200 or 100k to vanish . One can’t plan with 100k or 200k . I know it’s a small business but even small businesses now are worth at least a million in this current economy |
His gesture is truly appreciated towards sharing ₦10 million for his birthday. Giving back is a beautiful thing, However, sharing it as ₦200,000 each means many people benefit, but in today’s Nigeria, ₦200,000 is very small and cannot really change or grow anyone’s business in a meaningful way. Most times, it will be spent quickly on basic needs. Personally, I believe impact matters more than numbers. Giving fewer people a bigger amount like around ₦1 million each can actually help someone grow a business, invest properly, or make a real long-term difference. This does not take away from the generosity at all. It simply means choosing quality over quantity so the help truly transforms lives. |
Omah Lay is still solid. This song does not have as much meaning as his other tracks, but the rhythm is good. It is more for vibes and dancing. |
antimason:I understand your point and I agree with you. I do not believe Islam itself is a bad religion. I know very well that no true religion teaches violence, and like you said, Islam clearly teaches the value of human life. I also agree that there is a difference between a religion and the people who claim to follow it. I have seen and experienced Muslims who are kind, peaceful, and respectful, and countries like Saudi Arabia, Qatar, and others show that Islam can coexist with other religions. At the same time, I think we also have to be honest about perception. Many violent groups around the world identify as Muslims, even if they are misrepresenting Islam. So it becomes difficult for people with only surface knowledge to separate the religion from those actions. Christians and people of other beliefs did not create that image on their own; it was shaped by repeated violence done in the name of Islam, even when Islam itself does not support it. I see this as a problem of misinterpretation and leadership, just like in Christianity where some pastors twist the Bible for money through tithes and offerings. Every religion has bad eggs. Unfortunately, in Islam, those bad eggs have been very loud and very destructive, and they have painted a picture that may not be fair but is still real in people’s minds. I truly believe Islam needs strong, genuine clerics and leaders to speak louder, correct these wrong teachings, and show the good, peaceful side of Islam more clearly. Until then, it will be very hard to convince people who only know what they see on the news and what happens daily across the world in the name of Islam by radicals and sympathizers. Like I said before, I do have a soft spot for Islam like you said because I have really met good people from Islam and they have been the kindest people I ever met, and my criticism is not from hatred but from honesty and concern. A lot need to be done to right the image of Islam across the world . |
CrownedPhoenix:I am not naive bros. I am simply a good person who respects life, friendship, and peaceful co-existence with the people around me. I have been friends with these guys for many years, and they are genuinely good people. In fact, Hausa people are awesome, and I truly respect their simple and modest way of life. That said, I am also realistic. Religious fanaticism can be subtle and sometimes shows itself, which is why I choose to be cautious and keep healthy boundaries. That does not make me naive; it makes me wise. I am not even living around them anymore. We only talk on the phone, and I am not in the country at all. Still, I did not throw away years of friendship because of differences. Choosing peace, understanding, and boundaries at the same time is not weakness or ignorance. It is maturity. |
GiftofGod77:It only gets worse as years pass by. More radical Muslim clerics keep spreading hate for Christian’s . Education has a lot to do with this also because an educated child won’t be easily manipulated. |
delpee:Christians in Nigeria have faced a lot of persecution over the years, and that is very sad. Christians are often taught to forgive and to let God be the judge. Because of this forgiving spirit taught in the Bible, many Christians choose peace instead of revenge, but sadly this has sometimes made them an easy target. I truly hope that Nigerian Muslims and Christians can learn to live together in peace and mutual respect. Hausa people are good people, and I respect their simple and modest way of life. The real problem has been religious extremism among some which has created division between us. |
If anyone is wondering why other Muslims did not notice the freshly dug spot, it is because mosques usually have mats or rugs covering the floor. So it is very possible that no one noticed it. I do not think this story was made up to discredit the USA statement about the killing of Christians. Bombings of mosques have been happening for a long time, and Muslims have also been killed many times. This is not new. I attended the University of Maiduguri, and I can say from experience that suicide bombings and other attacks have always been happening there. Are Christians being killed? Yes. But Muslims are also being killed. The sad truth is that many of these killings are done by Muslims, and some of them have sympathizers within the Muslim community. Because of this, Christians in the North and other parts of Nigeria feel unsafe. Some Muslim clerics also make things worse, because some of the radical ones openly call for the death of Christians. The Deborah case is another issue that was not handled well by the Muslim community, and it confirmed the fears Christians already have. Muslims need to stand up against these bad people and stop protecting or excusing them. That is the only way they can earn the trust of Christians living among them. During the peak of the Maiduguri crisis, my church was burnt. St. Rita’s Catholic Church in Bulunkutu was attacked, and my parish priest was burnt alive. He had a gun, but he did not shoot at anyone. He only shot into the air to scare them away, but they jumped over the fence and entered the church. I was in the church that day. I saw some boys who lived around the church join the crowd. They were holding sticks and chanting in Arabic. Our priest told us to jump over the fence behind the church to escape while he stayed back and kept shooting in the air. Everyone left the church except him. That experience made me lose trust in the average Muslim. Some of the same people I joked with, played with, and talked to every day, who lived close to the church, pointed at the church and joined in burning it. I am not saying all Muslims are like this, but I do not want to find out the hard way who is and who is not. That is why I am careful around my Muslim friends. You never know who will betray you the next minute. I have also noticed that many Muslims become aggressive when you say anything they feel is against Islam. I have argued with Muslim friends before about things in the Bible and the Quran. When they say things I do not agree with, like saying Jesus is not the Son of God, I do not get angry. But when I share my own opinion about their prophet based on my beliefs, they become furious. They want to fight me, even though they just said their own opinion about Jesus and I stayed calm. These are people I call my best friends, because I would not have such discussions with someone I am not close to. All of these experiences have made me very careful around Muslims. They get angry easily, and many have violent tendencies when it comes to religion. Not all of them, but a lot of them |
Rest in peace to those who lost their lives. It is really sad and unfortunate. There are many possible causes of accidents, especially at this time when the roads are very busy. Reckless driving is also a big issue on Nigerian roads. You can be doing everything right and still get hit by someone driving carelessly. Sometimes being careful on your own is just not enough. It is sad that some people still link accidents to rituals and sacrifices. I have seen comments saying things like “he paid his dues” or “the sacrifice was accepted,” and that way of thinking is really unfortunate. Accidents happen every day. Not everything has a spiritual meaning behind it. This is the first time I am hearing about Joshua being involved in an accident or any loss of life connected to him, so does that mean he was not “doing sacrifices” all these years? We need to start thinking logically and humanly. Not every tragedy has a ritual explanation. Sometimes, an accident is simply an accident. |
Lies. I live in Canada and I paid 190 CAD from my province to another including my return . I only booked a month earlier . Nigerians lie a lot . Jeeeezzz Secondly , does Nigeria have same earning potential other countries have ? Why comparing baselessly and also telling a lie while doing so ? God will punish wicked Nigerian politicians and business men . All of them , this is not particular to Air peace but every business man extorting Nigerians including Dangote where I worked before leaving Nigeria . Ok
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duduade:which Canada ? This one wey I de ? Even with 40 million you cannot . Least tuition for a diploma is 18k dollars which is over 20m Proof of funds is 20k now and 2850 woll be added next month . You have to show that amount and more and also pray to be granted visa because denial rate is very high now . |
MT:I never said you will automatically immigrate to USA having a Canadian passport . I only said you could get hired and that’s obviously in the in demand and follow the processes to get admitted into the USA for work |
Ebubu:USA has better wages than Canada in all fields so it’s a good decision. Canada is becoming strict with emigration so you might wanna start already . And the way you mentioned the years ehn! It might take longer than that in reality oh . But stay positive . Just be patient with the process . Canada is still good and you can live very comfortably with savings and do a lot back home as well . Pharmacist here also do well but not better than USA overall |
FameGlory:I have a sister in the Uk who’s married . She’s doing well . Her husband is a doctor so they are both very good. But that’s not the case for a lot of people . So it might be true . I live in Canada which is a better place . You can save here and make a good life . You can even work in the USA once you have your passport and apply for jobs there . Just some documentations required . Avoid the UK if you have other options if not . Go for it . Still better than Nigeria |
Ejyksneh:I am in Canada . Use the express entry system and a stream that’s easy to get a provincial nomination . Categories like French , agriculture and health are your best bet . Start by writing the English or French exam , evaluating your highest credential then open an express entry profile . Do more research too |
Izuchukwu70:I am in Canada sir . It’s totally free |
GeneralPula:True, you can build a small house in Nigeria with ₦30 million , no doubt. But let’s be honest, what does that house really offer you in a country where security is unstable, electricity is unreliable, and daily survival can be a hustle? That same house can become a liability without peace of mind. Meanwhile, with that $5,000 abroad and a full time job, good credit score , I can start building a solid life. I can lease a brand new car, live in a clean, secure environment, eat well, save consistently, and still send money home. Over time, I can buy a house here on mortgage, paying gradually over years without stress. If I want, I can also start building a home back in Nigeria at my own pace, using the advantage of the currency conversion. And the best part? As my equity credit grows, I can buy a second property, rent it out, and let the rental income pay off the mortgage while still earning extra. Add to that the fact that when both husband and wife are working, and the system actually supports your efforts , life becomes easier, more predictable, and much more fulfilling. It’s not just about the house , it’s about the quality of life and the system that lets you grow without fighting ten battles every day. |
Great100000:That’s the difference between living in a place with working systems and one where everything feels like a constant hustle. In countries like Canada, the US, or the UK, your money actually works for you, there is structure, stability, and access to credit. You can plan, invest, and grow without being drained by random, unofficial charges or harassment. But in Nigeria, even with millions, you’re constantly firefighting, insecurity, poor infrastructure, and unnecessary stress. It’s not about how much you have, it’s about what systems exist to support you. That’s what makes life abroad feel more manageable and productive. Being a kidnap victim in port harcourt , and I was doing very well in Nigeria but I still left the country last year and I don’t regret it . I even wish I left Nigeria earlier . I am building a life here gradually and I can tell you that it gets better everyday cos I left legally and following processes . Currently In school to get the required certifications to earn better hourly pay and I will finish these courses soon . I already working in the field but they are waiting for my completion to offer a permanent position. I can pick up a 2024 car today and pay Bi-weekly , but that I will do after school . Life na jeje. I have access to free healthcare . Kids don’t pay tuition . Quality of life for family . The advantages are endless . You can only understand it better if you get a chance to legally leave Nigeria to a good country and have the right skill or be ready to go back to school for it . You will be grateful for that decision . I love Nigeria but the country lacks systems and basic infrastructure for survival or decent living . |