Chocogold:

this is what happened to the poor boy, he spent almost his whole time thinking and sleeping with the lady.You know ladies are very smart and some how intelligent more than today boys...(.Erickson 2009)...he had F in 4 of his courses with 5E's....His CGPA at this level already showed red....if at all he grab 5points in his final year which is impossible. Don't be surprise how I got this info....one of his neighbour at school that is even reading this with me now is my cousin. I heard the OP is lost in love which I see as a stupid act, the girl you blowing gbu, gbu, gbu gba, gba at night every time will be graduating soon while u just picking a tent to start with maths 101, Ges 101, it's shameful bro...the girl can leave, that's my takes...the Op should struggle hard so he won't regret this later in life...am sorry if am harsh but am upset as my cousin is telling me how this happened.a smart guy don't eat with the whole 10 fingers naa

Dude don't say what you know nothing about. Thanks

Mirror97:
You've said it .... Op you should read this post .

What post

Wow! You guys have been really amazing with your words, I really do appreciate. Thank you so much!
I guess I'll stick to you guys advice moving on and still been friends with her, and also not giving up on my self and also work on my success too

Please what little business that is profitable with time do you guys think/suggest one can start or do while in school?

Young03:
Nwanne oburo ball eji me training ka ejI agba match

u see ur life, u want to tie someone's daughter down
why didn't u go into biz when ur schooling matter crashed to make moni come marry her

I got admitted again merit list, so am starting again. So my schooling hasn't crashed

banjicom:
please can you let us know what really happened, why do u have 2 start over from 100L wen u are suppose to be in 400L now. Am just curious to know

As for your girlfriend i will advice you to let her be and focus on yourself for now there is nothing much u can do in this situation bro. Please stop whining and take d bull by d horn, u might still end up marrying her if she start seeing positive changes in your life. please just put urself together life goes on.

It was a malpractice ish, tried helping a sick friend out with a course but it didn't go out pretty well, had no choice but to go tk jamb and select a different course, though the school hasn't given their final judgment yet but I couldn't just continue and waste time/money paying school fees and tomorrow the judgement would be really bad . If they was really enough money I wanted to continue both courses so just incase the judgement is light at least I will have 2 degrees

Guys thanks for the advice, but it feels so sad going back to been just friends all over with someone you're really in love with, she called me this morning to ask how I was doing, tho not based on the issue, but she later brought it up that hope am not still thinking about what she told me yesterday. That at least we've been dating for 3 years and things went really well for both of us, and if we're meant to be in the future we might find ourselves dating again

Khd95:
How about u tell us d mistake that made u start all over again,sombody could learn from such mistake.


As for d girl,move on with life..if she is urs,she will come back to you,no matter ur status

Sorry I can't, just be careful in school not to find yourself with an ish that might make you have no choice than to start all over again.

EmmzyWhite:

isa 10 vs 27 don happen for you

Can you please explain better, read it but don't really get it sha

Hi guys I know nairaland ain't the perfect Place to come asking for advice but I have no one to confide to, am this kinda person that find it hard sharing personal issues with someone I know, When I read people write about their personal love life issues I find it very funny sha..lol..

Not knowing I'll one day face mine and be forced to share it. Been dating this girl for 3 years now am in the university, 400L while she's in her 300L presently, she's always cared and loved me undoubtedly since day 1, always had back in school both financially and others too and we've always had this plan for a future together, coz I strongly believe and know our love was real. The bond we had was just so strong, suddenly I had an issue with school which brought me back though.

Sadly Had to start all over from 100L it hurts me so much, though all the time have been going through this dilemma, she's always tried encouraging me and pushed me not to give up on my dream.

I was almost thinking so negative when I had this school ish, thought about killing myself thinking the world was over. But this lady stood by me and never gave up on me and convinced me that killing my self wouldn't help matters (I was really a mess then, like a HUGE mess) didn't go out much, had to stay in school a whole year preparing all over again for jamb nd all that, tho still attending lectures.

Now, when I had this issue that was were my dreams started shattering, our future wasn't looking all bright anymore because now am starting all over again, when I'll be in my 100L she'll be in her 300L and on and on like that..

It really broke my heart, at some point she believes in me and tries to convince me things would be better and I'll definitely scale through, But most times there's just this little doubts that comes in, You Ladies are prone to marry early (and she's very cute) which is actually a huge A+, men have always been coming asking for her hand in marriage and she has always declined them.. But she ain't getting any younger, and has to get married someday, sadly she told me yesterday she really do love me so much and has always had my back always and supported me always and which is so true that she has just decided to give me some lil break so I can try sorting my self out and balancing my life and she has decided to agree to one of her suitors(the guy is quite close to her family/ he's financially stable too tho the guy has a lil kid sha I guess his a single dad) coz she's always told me about ppl asking for her hand in marriage, though they ain't getting married now, but at least she wants to face him, instead of pushing away all her suitors and in the future wen she graduates and am Still in school, it might not be easy for me to be financially stable easily, tho she begged me that Pls hope I wouldn't paint her as a bad person coz she really tried for me.

I've just been really down since she told me this and it's really affecting me so much tho what she says is sadly the truth, Have just really built my life around her and she's just the only one I confined to in school when I have issues (coz am really this typa person who don't flows and share things easily with anyone, I kinda hv trust issues) don't really know how I'll cope when Am back to school, we leave close to each other in school, and she still really wants to be friends with me and wants to always support me too. Don't really know what to do right now I really do love her so much because she's an amazing person who has just been by my side through really hard times in school, it wont be easy starting Just as friends right now, I really do have a mild heart.

Wish I could rewind the hands of the clock and correct the mistake I made that made me start all over again.. It's just really sad

Pls if I made a mistake with my typing, don't attack me.. Just really down now