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sod09: we have done our own new year since nov....

Ok celebrate it as a new month in the normal calendar our world uses . Don't mind me jare. Anyone you choose is ok brother

But why now? This is the calendar that we live in not that one.hope you get. Its just a celebration in my own view for any religion saying thank you allah for another calendar year(the general one that you use) that we on earth use daily for our living.e.g are you not in 1st January 2014 today? That's because it's what it is in the world you live in. It's same as saying thank you lord for another day. Is that bad? Pls explain I really want to understand
It's taking everything to extreme. Fanatism that causes problem and issues. My Allah would not be angry I am celebrating a new day in a new calendar rating method the world he put me in uses. He would be glad I am thankful. It's not about the celebration or the food. It's about the gratitude to allah that comes along with it. May Allah help us

i keep wondering, pls men i need to understand something here. you husbands, dont you actually get tired of sleeping with or being intimate with the same woman over years. As in does a time come that when you guys are about to have your thing with her you are not sexually aroused and your organ refuses to respond since you guys are aroused by what you see and i mean you have been seeing her body over and over again during lovemaking and out of love making. i mean after her having all those children e.g 5 and the tummy fats and the fact that shes been the same old person, its really to surprising to me that men can still be visibly aroused by their wives to me. but am not a man so i dont understand. besides am not married. so do you guys really remain continously aroused? how and why? or is it some fact you just have to live with for the rest of your life since you cant change wife? help a young chap understand