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Sweetmarriage:
Helo. I want to post your question to our facebook page where you get more responses. On facebook search for Nigerian Papalette. But i need your permission first.

honestly i dont know o.....seriously

breathless:
OP, meat wey person dey forbid, e no dey use teeth share am o.

please could you speak in simple words not parables. thanks

anthoniaz:
Yeah, the first guy I dated before I met my hubby.We broke up after three years when he couldn't get what he wanted.

I told him right from beginning, he agreed thinking I would give in later on.I only visited his family house, I never demanded for anything. The only money he gave me then was the #750 recharge card he sent me.He introduced me to everyone in his family.The parents knew me well and took me like their daughter but I never allowed that to change my sense of reasoning. I'm this very cautious type cos I'm very emotional. The only time I visited him ( we were in different states), Na God save me.When he couldn't get what he wanted, he stopped calling, stopped answering my calls.Then, he flashed me one morning after like two weeks of no communication, I called back immediately, he gave the phone to a girl to answer me.I called back several times thinking it was network.

He's married to that babe now with two kids cos when I visited him, the girl was always coming to the house to cook, he claimed they were friends.He just finished from NDA then so he was staying with a friend inside the baracks cos according to him, his accommodation wasn't ready (he took me to the place sha).

If I had given in to his pressure, he might still have gone ahead with the other girl because it's possible he told her I'm his sister.I thank God I didn't allow his sweet mouth to make me do something I'd be regretting now.

You are very very young, be wise
Sorry for the long story.

wow......thats serious. thanks

anthoniaz:
I'm glad
There's something I forgot to mention. DON'T make demands, if he gives you anything, you can collect, but don't demand. You know why? So you won't feel you are indebted to him.I know you love him and want to keep him, be wise

Thanks alot. but i wonder, you seem to speak from experience. either positive or negative i cant say though. but its nice to be able to learn from you

anthoniaz:


Stay away from his house, avoid kissing if you really don't want to have s.ex with him.
Most guys agree to be in the 'no s.ex ' relationship with the hope that with time you will change your mind once you are comfortable with them.

Just watch, if all he wants is s.ex, he will start cheating on you and end the relationship.
Keep yourself for your future hubby, he'll be proud of you and I assure you, you will be glad you did.

I'm not saying virginity is the surest way to have a happy home but it goes a long way.Your hubby will be happy.

thanks.....got it. there wasnt kissing anyways.....we should meet outdoors.....that settles the issue of sex temptation...from you i have gotten one of the best advice i could ever have in my life

AWONEYAN:
@ op you posted this few months back... should we now beleive that you have stopped watching indecency?

https://www.nairaland.com/1575007/why-white-indecency-turns-me#20575099.

that was a phase of my life

ileobatojo:
Well, you need to understand something. All that's on your boyfriends mind is sexx, sexx and more sexx. His main goal is to get you to have sexx, period. So all this getting you comfortable with him, being romantic blah blah blah is just the means to an end. Stop going to his house or it will likely happen one day and you'll probably regret it. It may mean the end to the relationship but that's a choice you have to make. Being alone in the house with him and on the bed when you are not ready to have sexx is purely asking for trouble.

thanks ....i got that....its not acceptable....sometimes love makes you forget some morals.....i needed someone to dig morals back to my head. thanks

KanwuliaJara:
The problem with most of you.
You are one of those irritating species of humans that loves mind-games.
IF YOU DON'T WANT SEX. . . STAY AWAY FROM THE OPPOSITE SEX!
Why set yourself up?

It is too early in the year to haul insults. . . still on vacationing mood!

But. . . with all due 'disrespects'. . .You are an *&^%(!!!!!

so i should not marry?.........or i should end marrying myself. or marrying you if you are a handsome guy with all due respect. thats if you are a guy sef.

carefreewannabe:
First of all, how old are you?

21 actually

carefreewannabe:
First of all, how old are you?

21?

how far is too much when dating a guy and you want to do it the godly way?. i love this guy and we knew each other since january last year. started dating around june. i have refused to go to his house till recently.i used to pull away from all those hugging or touching and the rest and i told him no sex but somehow i started feeling i wasnt affectionate enough and that may pull him away if he can not hug me freely without me being uptight about it or pat me on the leg and all those stuff. recently, i tried to start going to his house and to enter sef was a big deal for me. my question now is he wants to hug me, put his head on my chest, touch me, wants me to be confortable and trust him enough to lie on his bed along side with him maybe while we watch a movie and trust him enough to know he wont hurt me or would never rape me or have sex with me if i do not want....even though i tried this once with him but i was so uneasy when he wanted coming close or just hugging me on the bed and telling me to hug him back. am i reading too much meaning to all this? do i have to be this scared? am not just ready to be used and dumped by some guy....are all this stuff normal and ok? i dont wana displease God also. i just wana do it the right way. how much is too much? where is the boundary to be set?

talk2davoo: d last time i checked they dont fight in church.so u've nt answd my question

Looool.so tell me where can we fight? We're do you think is optimum for fighting? Loooool. You are not annoying as I thought you know.

talk2davoo: beat? Wao! That wil be lovely.when and where is the beating going to take place pls.fast

In church for the whole saints to see how strong I am. Come this sunday obviously not in a hidden place. Is that what you thought? Loool

lilhansome: Hope u ain't bored again cos wit all dis chat..... buh jst incase u're still bored i could give u my number if u care.... #waitin 4 ur reply

Hi. Am still bored actually, very. Because I don't even have a phone charger so I practically have no phone to chat till God knows when . Am so sad

krafty iyk: so i got 4/5..., and for the indomie, i think i prefer the one you prepared your self..something tells me u r an indomie specialist , so i'll send you my plate via bluetooth

You are such a funny being. It's unfortunate that am very bad at cooking indomie especially for others because I simply microwave the whole stuff inside a pool of water till its very soft and drink it. Does that sound disgusting? Now, Do you still want me to cook it for u or send 70 naira to you?? I would add money for egg don't worry. How many eggs do u want? . Actually u got 3/5 because beauty(pretty) is in the eyes of the beholder and you haven't beheld.

talk2davoo: dont want to use style any longer.i want to bleep u

Loooooool. Not possible. Sorry. For u to bleep me en, Not now and not soon and not ever . It would be so lovely to have known you in person am sure I for don beat you big time. Hope not the reverse I hope

kilmix: She already got what she wanted

Front Page

Not everybody is interested in that. No insults but I would like to say "use your brains"

GustavoFring: This is the 21st century jor...

You can be born again AND having pre-marital sex...

If Jesus was around now, he would probably giving it to Mary Magdalene while cruising above Paris in his G-6

May God forgive u

talk2davoo: i want to know because i hate bleeping virgins.

Was the thread about bleeping? Change in topic. Well your not bleeping virgins is none of my business Na u e concern. Not me. u wan bleep me? Wel it's not your business o whether am V or not am sha not bleeping u . Dis one wey u dey take style ask. Hahaha. My very good friend.

talk2davoo: have u bleep b4

How does that affect you my very good friend? Your wife will catch u o. Shhhhh am sometimes annoying right? We nearly fought before. Loooool

talk2davoo: have u bleep b4

How does that affect you my very good friend?

Prodigee: Am not mocking u...just stating d obvious. U sure hv alot happening around you...

A lot? As in? List them. Because I can't see a lot happening o

krafty iyk: 5 things abi..
1...inquisitive
2...read a lot/bookworm
3..fun to be with
4..God fearing
5..pretty/handsome
u r laughing already , caz am gonna go konk some1 if i dont get my consolation prize of INDOMIE..

Loooool. God fearing? There is a question mark to that for now because I love being sincere so rapture better not come now as for your indomie come to my house and eat or send me your account number. 2small ones cost 70 naira. I would send that amount just for you. With so much love from from me to you. Think straight o abeg

krafty iyk: boyyyyy...don't we have a lot in common
yes am back....

I don't think so. Just list 5things we have in common and I would cook you indomie

Prodigee: Interesting girl you are i must say...

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Loool. Very interesting am so glad you can see between the lines and know how over interesting I am. Na my temperament cause am sha. U just mocking me

Am ready. Except that am not fully educated since am not done.An xtain. Below 28. Presentable? Yes I guess.looool. Wayward?i don't know o. Sorry kidding.