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dominique:
Your uncle and by extension the rest of your family wants to open office on your husband's head. I hope this greedy men won't chase your finance away with billings.

Some of them don't know so I intend to call all of them and complain.

SpencerForbes:
Your uncle does not like you and he’s probably diabolical and has evil intentions.

Hope the man has left so he doesn’t get affected with your family problems🤧
Let your uncle marry you😤

If you’ve got village council which I doubt you know, summon your uncle to their presence let him explain his motive.

List that I was with my dad when he was writing it and even making calls to confirm.
Go and settle with your uncle before you get married so you and your uncles don’t stress the innocent man🤧😤
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I have never had issues with this particular Uncle

He was even calling me his favourite niece at some point. He asks everyone for money tho and I have always known so I am not surprised. I just didn't think they will leave me in his hands because he stayed in the village longer than any other person.

My dad is late and my fiance proposed early this year. We did Introduction a few months ago and my very difficult uncle who is the last of his siblings was asked to handle the sending of Marriage List. He is now asking my fiance to pay over 100k for him to transport himself to the village to collect the list. He says it is tradition.

I have reached out to another uncle to try to reason with him but no one is doing anything about it.


I'm Ukwani from Ndokwa west and I don't believe this is how it is done. I have gone back to read about my culture and asked other people and someone said that the list can be gotten from any cyber cafe in the town. Please is this true?

I need advice as I do not want my uncle to take advantage of my fiance. All this is just to see the Marriage List before he now starts to pay for what is on the list.

I'm scared that he will inflate what is on the list too and no one will do anything about it.