If you are a naija guy you must have noticed some of this common stories girls tell. every Nigerian girl is guilty of at least 2 of them no matter how innocent they are. Girls read this and accept the fact that you guys lie more than the men. The way Nigerian girls lie is so so bleeped up that I have decided to expose their 7 most common lies. Just so you don’t fall, be my guest, read this;

7. Age
Most Nigerian girls lie about their age… especially the igbo girls and the other ladies from the south south. I have noticed this very often. Yoruba girls don’t really lie as much. Its either they are trying to hide it from you or lie about it. It may be for a couple of years but they will sha lie.
Girls lie about age for the obvious reason: men are attracted to younger women. Even with all the BS that the media is telling women (“40 is the new 30,” etc.), women still instinctively know when men find them the most attractive and when they are above that age, they will sometimes try to hop in a time machine. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work.
6. Being Single
Another thing many naija babes lie about is whether they are single. There is the obvious one where they will pretend they have a boyfriend when a guy they aren’t attracted to asks them out, but we will focus on the opposite situation. When a girl really likes a guy she ends up meeting, many taken girls will lie about not having a boyfriend. At the very least they will never mention it, which is the same as lying about it.
There were quite a few girls that were in committed relationships before they met me. I don’t usually ask a girl if she is single; I just assume she is from the fact that she lets me kiss her and touch her in a more than friendly way. These girls would never mention their boyfriends and I would never know about them until getting a strange phone call, message on Facebook, and seeing that they were tying to juggle two (or more) guys.
Sometimes the girls would try to go on dating both myself and another guy. Other times they would dump the guy after it seemed like the two of us were developing a consistent pattern of seeing each other. Then, there were the girls that would cheat on their boyfriends of many years for the passion and excitement of being with another man.
You know what’s scary about this? That man they cheat with could end up knocking them up.

continue at http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/7-lies-naija-babes-tell-in-relationship.html

Popular blogger, Seun Oloketuyi of wwwnaijahotgist.com was yesterday, Tuesday arraigned by the Police Special Fraud Unit for allegedly defaming the Chief Executive Officer of Fidelity Bank, Nnamdi Okonkwo, by publishing that Okonkwo impregnated one Justina, a married woman working in the marketing department of the bank.

Oloketuyi, who was arraigned on two counts of malicious defamation, was accused of further publishing that the alleged affair between Okonkwo and Justina led to Justina’s husband, Ben, sending her out.
Oloketuyi was accused of publishing that Okonkwo had taken over the responsibility of Justina’s children and had sent her abroad to further her education.

Continue to read the gist and see his picture at http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/popular-nigerian-blogger-arrested-for.html

Costume companies have provoked outrage after unveiling a Caitlyn Jenner Halloween outfit.
Supporters of the transgender television star, formerly known as Bruce, have labelled the unisex ensemble "transphobic" and "disgusting".

The "Call Me Caitlyn" costume is similar to Jenner's look in June's Vanity Fair magazine cover story where she unveiled her feminine identity.
Spirit Halloween defended the outfit, which consists of a wig, white bodice, hot pants and sash printed with the words "Call Me Caitlyn". See the costume here http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/caitlyn-jenner-halloween-costume-sparks.html

How This is a very difficult topic to discuss – because you’ve got to be sensitive to people’s feelings, but at the same time, give them a dose of reality.
It’s both disappointing and unfortunate to see how many abusive relationships are happening on a daily basis, and thought to be normal.
It’s important to note that you don’t need physical violence in order to have an abusive relationship. And don’t forget, both men and women can be guilty of this.
If you are made to feel any of the following ways or recognize any of the following things, then you truly need to take a step back, put your emotions aside, and ask yourself what your partner is really bringing to your life.
You always feel guilty, but don’t know why. –
Is your partner always making you feel as though you did something wrong, but you genuinely can’t understand why? There are people who literally seek out and find issues, and when they can’t find one – they create them. This is not the type of person who will change out of the blue and you need to get away from them.
– They’re obsessively jealous. –
It’s okay to be ‘kinda sorta’ jealous. Jealous in a way that says “I care about you” – but jealous in the way that says “I don’t want you talking to any other guy/girl, definitely not hanging out with them, and in fact, take their contact information out of your phone” is a red flag of someone who is illogically jealous and will slowly whittle your social life down to nothing – unless it includes them. Run.


Continue at http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/8-warning-signs-that-you-are-in-toxic.html

There’s a lot to be said about a person, or a couple who decides to walk away from the normal routine of engaging in sexual intimacy in relationships and decides to practice celibacy. With all of the temptations through song lyrics, movies, television, and of course the all mighty Internet it’s easy to fall prey to sexual temptations. A few years ago, I made the unconscious choice to practice celibacy. I say unconscious because I
hadn’t been actively dating anyone, and I’ve never been the type to randomly sleep around so going without wasn’t an issue. I also had no real intentions of not having sex before marriage. Why would I? There was no real reason too, and honestly speaking I enjoyed having sex! So why on earth would I deliberately give it up (no pun intended)? As time passed I did some soul-searching and reflecting about my past relationships, and I realized that each of them failed miserably because they were built on physical attraction and satisfying my sexual needs. So, I made up in my mind that, that way of thinking was no longer good enough for me. Continue at http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/ladies-why-you-must-become-born-virgin.html

All eyes were on Nicki Minaj, yesterday when she stepped onto the stage at the Billboard Hot 100 Festival on Aug. 23. The rapper showed up in a racy outfit and entertained the crowed with some of her hottest songs. http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/nicki-minaj-flashes-butt-in-racy-outfit.html

UN chief Ban Ki-moon today Monday laid a wreath in Abuja to commemorate the fourth anniversary of a deadly attack on the UN office by Boko Haram.
The secretary-general hugged several relatives of the victims of the bombing during a ceremony at United Nations House and praised the “the extraordinary fortitude and determination” of the survivors. Continue at http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/ban-ki-moon-marks-boko-haram-attack-on.html

Sorry One Direction fans, your favorite boy band is splitting up... at least for a year.
The group which is comprised of Niall Horan, Harry Styles, Liam Payne and Louis Tomlinson - have reportedly decided to take at least a year out to focus on solo projects and will not tour their upcoming fifth album.

According to The UK Sun newspaper, they have been together for five years and they fully deserve to have at least a year to work on their own projects. They say there is absolutely no bad blood between them and they are all 100 per cent behind the decision.
The Sun reports that they have some work commitments in February and will take their break in March next year. Am so sad…. I really loved them.


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Nsuto efere ke ke do. This is so unfair, I think everybody deserves a fair hearing no matter what. According to Vanguard, a mob in Calabar, Cross River State capital, yesterday, butchered a young man and set the remains on fire beside Atu Secondary School fence along Goldie Street, for allegedly robbing a woman of a pot of soup. His two accomplices escaped The hoodlum, in the company of two others, were alleged to have attacked the woman at Mayne Avenue Extension in Calabar South.

They were allegedly attracted by the aroma of the soup the woman was warming for her family’s breakfast before heading for early morning mass at nearby St. Bernard’s Catholic Church.
A young man, who lives in the same premises with the lady, said as the robbers were about to get out of the compound with the pot of soup, the woman raised the alarm, prompting neighbours to go after them. They caught up with the one carrying the pot of soup and dealt him several machete cuts before setting him ablaze.
An eyewitness said: “It was almost dawn when the boys attacked the woman and carried away her pot of soup. When they were about getting out of the compound, she raised alarm and people came out, pursued and caught up with one.”. Continue at http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/calabar-man-burnt-to-death-for-stealing.html

So Donald Trump is good in the boardroom and in the bedroom.
One of his former lovers, Sandra Taylor, pictured above, claims that Trump was amazing when the two enjoyed a brief fling in 1991, gushing about the presidential's hopefuls sexual prowess. 'Omigosh, he was great' she said. She said Trump had his secretary track her down after spotting her on the cover of New York magazine.


Taylor - who was bearing Sandi Korn before then- also said in her interview that Trump would make a 'terrific president.'
As for their first date, she did not get too graphic with the details, simply saying that the two went for pizza and a walk around the city before ending up back at her apartment.
'He was very sweet,' said Taylor.
And it was not just a night of passionate lovemaking Taylor got on that first date, as Trump also gave her a copy of his book - The Art of the Deal - and told her she needed to change her name.

Continue at http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/how-donald-trump-was-amazing-in-bed-ex.html

Just as the news hit the media that popular 90’s actor, Moses Olaiya popularly known as Baba Sala was rushed to University College Hospital (UCH) in Ibadan, condolence messages started trailing and people started speculating that he had passed on because his health has always been shaky. Now however, a family member has debunked such reports saying he is responding to treatment.

"He has come back to his normal life style. He is cracking jokes with the doctors now and may need to rest for few days before he is discharged. Its not something so serious. Its just normal old age sickness. Daddy is old now and all his early years of struggles, tours and performances on stage is part of what is telling on his body." He told a blogger

http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/baba-sala-not-dead-responding-to.html

Never did I ever imagine giving birth to a child would bring so much guilt. You might think that’s an odd thing to say considering how wonderful it is to become a mother. Truthfully speaking, it’s one of the best things you’ll ever experience in life. When my child was born several weeks ago, I felt the same amount of joy I did last year when my first son came into my life.

It’s just really hard to celebrate when you’re comforting a friend who lost a baby.
I can’t even begin to imagine the emotions a few of my friends are dealing with. In what seems like bad news after bad news, many found the courage to share their heartbreaking stories on Facebook. A friend of mine was put on bed rest at the start of her second trimester — only to lose her baby days later. Another friend of mine was just 16 weeks pregnant when she felt an unfathomable amount of pain one evening. There in her bed she went through labor and miscarried her son. And if those stories were not sad enough, a good friend of mine and her husband lost their child minutes after he came into this world. In her case, there was no warning or hint of a problem.
Hearing these women’s stories makes me realize just how much of a miracle having a child really is. All of us are 30-years-old that would make you think complications wouldn’t be something to think about, when in actuality, they can happen to any one of us. Continue at http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/comforting-friend-that-has-lost-baby.html

RIta Ora and Chris Brown got way too steamy in a new music video for their collaboration, Body On Me. Rita posted a teaser on her Instagram page, ahead of the release of the full video on Wednesday.The short clip may only be ten seconds long, but there's plenty of racy moments between the British singer and controversial US star. This is how Chris Brown started with Rihanna. Just saying. See steamy photo here;
http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/dont-itrita-ora-gets-steamy-with-chris.html

What is your own is your own so why do this. A very angry woman( I suppose she was really furious) decided to take revenge on her cheating partner by burning his private part while he was sleeping. The crazy woman as you would see in the pictures below poured a liquid suspected to be gasoline and lit the man’s genitals. Men, imagine yourself waking up to realize that your private part is on fire, that is what happen. Lol. See photos here
http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/woman-burns-cheating-partners-private.html

Niger Delta Development Commission, NDDC, has debunked allegations that N183.7 billion of the commission was missing. The Executive Director, Finance and Administration of the commission, Mr Henry Ogiri, made this known in Abua, Ahoada West Local Government Area, Rivers State, that the allegation of missing fund contained in the report of the Auditor General of the Federation, Mr Samuel Ukura to the National Assembly was allegedly premature and misinforming.

He said: “I find the report very misleading and untrue. It tended to portray the current management as being responsible for the missing money when in fact the period covered by the report is 2008-2012. I will say without fear of contradiction that the Auditor-General’s report is premature. I say this because we are already putting together the responses to the queries which were for a period we were not in the commission. continue at http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/nddc-denies-allegation-of-missing.html

This is what the estranged wife of popular pastor, Chris Oyakhilome, Anita, wrote on her blog this morning. She says she went through an abusive marriage and that she was somewhat encouraging ladies that no matter what they go through or the situation they find themselves, their life is never wasted. Read on;


I am Anita. It is my desire to reach out and inspire you especially if you feel vulnerable and in need of a change. I hope to inspire you to believe in yourself no matter the circumstances. I want to help you recreate your life going forward, so you can live beautifully. I have been through this journey of rediscovery and nothing is as beautiful as realising one's uniqueness as I have done. Life is precious however, your life can go through different seasons: winter, spring, summer or autumn. Life can hit you with financial loss, disappointments, death of a loved one, a broken relationship, loss of a job, a divorce, being falsely accused or being a victim of crime. These can shatter you to pieces but you can do something about it.

Life is a gift from God and you deserve to be happy irrespective of your age, race, gender, background or financial situation. I urge you to appreciate the gift you are, you are precious and valuable. Never lose sight of who you are; begin to create new visions and dreams for your life. Let nothing stop you from growing every day.

My story is not one of a bed of roses, far from it but I had a choice to either beat myself over the regret of tolerating abuse for so long or put a stop to the abuse and recreate my life for the best. My journey was not in vain. I can now help others realise that their situation does not define them. Continue at http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/chris-anita-oyakhilomes-messy-divorce-i.html

OMG Wendy William so roasted Ariana Grande to the extent that the hashtag #CancelWendyWilliamsShow was trending in america. She mocked Ariana Grande saying she looks younger than her age in a not so good way. Here is what she said;

“She’s 21, she’ll forever look 12. And I don’t mean that in a good way. I mean that in a…You know, it’s nice to look younger than you are but when you look too young and then you’re short, she’s only 4’11. I don’t look at her as like a woman.”
continue at http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/omg-wendy-william-shades-heck-outta.html

My boyfriend is just too fat and it is so embarrassing. He just came back from the US for his masters and he looks as fat as ever. Before I use to pose to my friends that I have a BF in the US who use to send me money because he always sent good amount of money to me. I was ready to even marry him if he proposes. But now, shame dey catch me. He’s always been chubby but while in the US I realized he’s
got really fat. He is so fat that people stare at him and start laughing and passing comments. Sometimes I have to pretend we are not together. I felt so embarrassed to be with him and wished he didn’t look so bad. It’s a turn off for me to see him naked. Even in clothes it’s not attractive. I have spoken to him many times about his size, healthy eating and exercise. I tried to get him to join a gym with me. He laughs it off and says he is fine. The guys has been nice to me and even promised to buy me a car. Do I just get the car and leave? What do I do?

Expert advice from Petra;
Dear friend,


I don’t think you can ‘make’ him change.
Giving you instructions on how to force him to diet or exercise doesn’t help him, or you, look at any underlying reasons (assuming they exist) around overeating, or his feelings about food, exercise or his body.
I have no context about his lifestyle, your income, what your food budget is, how food and exercise fit with his work patterns, or if alcohol plays a role.
I don’t know if his weight is affected by disability, pre-existing physical or mental health conditions, or the side-effects of medication.
You may get further by thinking about these factors yourself, or talking to him about those, rather than your previous instructions about his diet and fitness (more on this shortly).
None of that will help you, though. And there isn’t any point in having advice columns if people don’t feel free to confide about how they truly feel - and know that someone isn’t going to shut you down for saying things your friends or family members might frown on.
You are entitled to feel upset about this.
But if we go back and look at how you have described him, there is no getting away from the words you’ve used. These include ‘chubby’, ‘really fat’, ‘embarrassed to be with him’, ‘wished he didn’t look so bad’.
You say ‘It’s a turn off…to see him naked’ and ‘not attractive’.
As you read these statements, can you identify if this is you feeling worried about him, frustrated over how he is acting, or a sign you simply don’t fancy him anymore? Continue at http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/advice-my-boyfriend-is-too-fat-it.html

In an article that recently resurfaced, originally published two years ago, a DNA expert said three out of 10 Nigerian men are not the biological fathers of their children. The article no doubt caught the attention of many. And though the authenticity of the statement remains in question, it certainly provoked a conversation, and surely, reactions. I am certain a good number of men began to question their paternity, and those who had prior suspicions must have gone ahead to take a paternity test. This information came right after the rumoured durex survey which alleged that Nigerian women are the most unfaithful in the world; the statement seemed to fan a flame. In his interview, the expert made reference to the survey, saying that the sexual recklessness of Nigerian women is the reason for the alarming statistics of paternity fraud in country.
In truth, cases of paternity fraud aren’t common in Nigeria, largely because they are either often settled out of court, or swept under the carpet. In other parts of the world, the United States for example, paternity fraud is a criminal offence, and one of the most rampant cases in court. Reason? Child support; women seize opportunities to receive a higher child support award than the biological father of the child can provide. This issue is such a big deal in the West; there are activists and movements against it. In a country like Nigeria, as is with most West African countries, fathers cater for children born prior wedlock, or out of extramarital affairs, without the involvement of the court. So, legal cases of paternity fraud are not common.
Another reason for paternity fraud is sexual promiscuity. Promiscuous and unfaithful women are more likely to misattribute paternity, honestly or dishonestly. An Australian based research did show that 40 percent of women and 60 percent of men in a committed relationship will be unfaithful at some point. And that 8 percent of women had multiple partners while in a long term relationship. It was also established that that fathers who doubt the paternity claims of their sexual partners are 20 to 28 percent often correct. The result of a research on the sexual promiscuity among Nigerian female. Continue at http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/paternity-fraud-are-you-really-father.html

One of the pilots at the ill fated helicopter that crashed into the Lagoon in lagos yesterday was Peter Bello, a 26 year old media photographer based in calabar. Peter is actually from Cross river state. He is still yet to be found . 4 people have been confirmed dead while 6 have been rescued alive. But Peter and one other person in the 12- seat helicopter are yet to be found and divers say there is no sign of him yet. See more photos of him herehttp://judithfrank..com/2015/08/missing-co-pilot-of-lagos-helicopter.html

onto Dikeh’s boy and personal stylist, Jeremiah Ogbodo shades the heck out of actor, Gideon Okeke. Though he didn’t, mention any name, it is obvious. He calls him a man who can’t take responsibilities.
See what he posted on Instagram at http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/rip-gideon-okeke-tonto-dikehs-stylist.html