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Ivmanyquestions:
Wow Mr Julius, thank you
Thank you, God bless you
Thank you

You're welcome. Keep us posted on your progress and feel free to reach out if you have any further questions.

Just read through your situation and I can relate to it because I've been there. You need to be strong and keep your head up. Eventually you'll learn that life doesn't give you what you deserve but what you demand of it. Never wallow in self-pity. Get up and try again. You got through yesterday, that's a victory behind. Get up and submit that next CV, make that new friend, solve that next challenge for someone, look for somebody that knows somebody that needs your skill/services, lead that next neighborhood task, call that next prospect, take that next free course, talk to that next benefactor, book an appointment with that mentor, volunteer for that next opportunity, provide that next solution and charge a fee, develop that idea into a business, tutor that next exam candidate....whatever...just don't sit...keep moving and you'll have the next victory and eventually get your break...

The only thing you're guaranteed of in life are opportunities, but they're wrapped in all sorts of guises. Find and take them. You are the only one that can decide to be happy yourself, never let your happiness depend on anything or anyone - or you'll get terribly burnt in life. Take charge of your life and happiness.

I've also worked as a casual laborer...with a postgraduate degree - but I did it with a cheer and smile, and even with a difference. Because I knew in my heart it was temporary. I knew who I was. I knew that it was just a passing phase. It's a different story now.

Your situation won't last forever. It will change. It always does. This only makes your story more interesting. But make sure you come out of it a wiser and better person. And above all, put your trust in GOD!

Cheers!