Nollywood actor, Desmond Elliot was accused some months back of sleeping with two sisters, a report which went viral on the internet. Desmond Elliot kept silent on the matter until recently, when he reacted the report. He stated in an interview that nothing of such happened, stating that the girls in question were just wards under his care.

According to the actor and politician, it's not a must that to be related to someone by blood, adding that the girls were just family friends who he took care of because their parents travelled abroad.

He noted that it was an accusation that had no foundation and boasted that the writer of the article had to apologise to him for creating such a distraction.

"I don’t know. It was baseless. The ladies in question are my wards and I take care of them. Do I have to be related to them by blood? We are family friends and we have been family friends for years. Their parents are abroad and whenever they are in Nigeria, they stay with me, so it was a baseless distraction and the person who did the article about me has since apologised," he explained.

http://www.slastyles.com/2014/07/i-never-slept-with-2-sisters-desmond.html

When we were young, it was easier to love (or be in lust with) the outer appearance of a man without really considering actual long-term compatibility. But as adults, I would hope that when one is considering starting a relationship, they would care more about the goals and character of the person they’re pursuing than their sexual abilities or simply the way the person after their affections makes them feel. I was asked a peculiar question over the weekend that had me questioning the necessity of “love and affection” in a relationship. Should romantic intimacy be the only goal when seeking a life partner or is it fair to approach a long-term relationship like a business investment? If you plan on spending the rest of your life with a person, wouldn’t it be smart to consider doing so with a person who shares the same ambitions when it comes to achieving important life goals?


For instance, it’s similar to the decisions you make when preparing to purchase a new car. How silly would it be to make an investment on a vehicle that did not possess the full capacity to help you accomplish your goal of getting from point A to point B? If it looks so good on the outside and makes you so proud to be in the driver seat, but you can’t get anywhere with it, why did you invest in the car in the first place? In terms of an intimate relationship, if the goal is to spend the rest of your life with a person, how important is it to find someone who can help you get from point A to point B? This is not a concept related to marrying for money or career advancement, but a logical concern when choosing a life partner to support you in reaching your full potential.

Have you ever known a couple that seemed to be destined for one another? They were the type that completed each other’s sentences, couldn’t keep their hands to themselves and seemed to have effortlessly maintained the spark in their relationship. All that is nice until you realize that when it comes to their quality of life, it looks like the blind leading the blind. I know I am not the only person that has questioned the reasons behind why two people would stay together when it’s clear that they are not beneficial to one another in more ways that just looking cute as a couple.

Now imagine for a moment that you did meet this person who, like Ne-Yo says, makes you better, but he is rarely available to you (because he’s chasing his dreams) and when you are together there isn’t much passion or affection between the both of you. Could you endure a relationship such as this one? If you and this person made an excellent partnership of sorts in business but had very little in the emotional connection department, could you feel complete in this relationship or would you feel like something is missing?

Thinking on all of these questions, I can’t imagine any adult relationship that would survive on sexual intimacy alone. The consensus among many married couples I know is that when it comes to passion, after a while, it fizzles out, and therefore, there must be another element to the relationship that keeps it alive. On the other hand though, I can’t really say that a business-style relationship has any chance at long-term survival either. If that were true, side chicks wouldn’t be winning. We wouldn’t swoon over movies about passionate love affairs between people who naturally shouldn’t be together but seem to be created for one another (I adore Titanic by the way). These questions cannot be answered without carefully considering the necessity of both arguments and figuring out what it is you’re looking for in a long-term love. Of course it’s beneficial to love a person who can match your drive to accomplish goals, but doing so long-term without any real emotional connection would be lonely wouldn’t it?

When it comes to healthy relationships, I think the answer to what is necessary is relative. You have to know what it is you’re looking for and where you see yourself down the road. But no matter what kind of relationship you prefer, never settle for less than what you deserve.

http://www.slastyles.com/2014/07/whats-your-reason-for-being-in.html#more

This Houston based Nigerian lady(right), Caroline Ikpea suddenly showed up on Twitter, claiming Wizkid is getting down low with her. LOL!

Then some bloggers are saying her claim may not be true, reminding us that Wizzy is in a 'serious' relationship with Tania Omotayo.

So what? At what age are we talking about here? Wizzy and this Tania girl are just kids playing around for now-at least until something serious happens. And at his age, a girl is already cohabiting with a boy that should normally still be under his parents’ tutelage.

Remember, Wizzy is still a 'kid' and anything can still happen. So who says him actually ''fuxing'' the Houston based chick can't be true? And who knows, the girl may also be another attention seeker! Well check out her crazy tweets after the jump.

http://www.slastyles.com/2014/07/houston-based-nigerian-girl-says-shes.html

He may have been criticised several times for showing off his wealth on social networks especially Twitter and Instagram but Omobaba olowo ''Davido'' doesn't care. Speaking with Encomium magazine on why he flaunts his wealth on social Network, Davido said;

"I don't call it flaunting of wealth. It is my car, my money and it is even my page. You don't have to follow me on instagram. You don't have to follow me on social media. It would have being different if I was advertising all this on a billboard. I am not doing that" he said.

http://www.slastyles.com/2014/07/davido-explains-why-he-flaunts-his.html

He may have been criticised several times for showing off his wealth on social networks especially Twitter and Instagram but Omobaba olowo ''Davido'' doesn't care. Speaking with Encomium magazine on why he flaunts his wealth on social Network, Davido said;

"I don't call it flaunting of wealth. It is my car, my money and it is even my page. You don't have to follow me on instagram. You don't have to follow me on social media. It would have being different if I was advertising all this on a billboard. I am not doing that" he said.

http://www.slastyles.com/2014/07/davido-explains-why-he-flaunts-his.html