Orekelewah:
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twinskenny:


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5minsmadness:

Ah, a young marriage.
It's always like that,its like a rumpled bedsheet that needs to be straightened out.

Also this is your first baby so there's a lot of readjusting going on in the family dynamics right now i.e husband having to share attention with baby, having to assist you in some household chores (if you don't have a nanny), the stress on you with having to take care of baby, added financial expenses etc.
Both of you are stressed. He would have missed some of that TLC that comes with being a single young couple.

I wonder if both of you are working, and if your jobs are stressful?


You seem to be the mature partner at this point in time. I assure you that this emotional stress you are going through is quite common with new marriages, the doubts, the fears, the sleepless nights and the general worry if either of you took the right step in engaging in marriage to each other.

Be patient. It will pass. And you both will come out stronger for it.

I won't say you shouldn't send the hate text because I honestly think you need to let him know how you feel. He is the man of the house and ought to know the effect that his behaviour is having on the marriage.

I however think you should compose it in such a way that you don't say something you can never take back. Express your anger but choose your words carefully.

5minsmadness:

What about you?
Do you enjoy sex with him?
A lot of women don't realise that we men are more sensitive than they think. If you show by your body language that you are "just managing" him, he will deifinetly find out. He may not say it, but he might feel he is not doing right by you and hence might begin to nurse grudges, feeling like his ex might have responded to him better. Crazy, I know but some guys are like that. If you dont enjoy sex with him you should pick a very casual day to jokingly tell him what you would like him to do to you during intercourse.

How old is your marriage?

If less than five years then he is probably in the withdrawal phase from his ex. In this phase the slightest difficulty in your marriage makes him compare his relationship with his ex and wish he was still with her. This is usually cured when the ex gets married or tells him off outright. Be patient, it will pass or at least reduce a lot after a while.

Him not talking to you for long periods is exeedingly immature of him. he was the one caught having an illicit chat afterall. Try and follow the steps I mentioned earlier, hopefully he will break his silence.

thorpido:
You were not wrong with your actions.A married man should not be exchanging love/romantics messages with an ex.
I expect you as a couple to have someone you both can look up to to intercede in this matter......a pastor,a trusted elder or counsellor.
I wouldn't say you didn't know the kind of man you were getting married to but probably hoped to live with it.
In all you do,don't let him bully you.He is responsible to you as a husband.

thorpido:
You were not wrong with your actions.A married man should not be exchanging love/romantics messages with an ex.
I expect you as a couple to have someone you both can look up to to intercede in this matter......a pastor,a trusted elder or counsellor.
I wouldn't say you didn't know the kind of man you were getting married to but probably hoped to live with it.
In all you do,don't let him bully you.He is responsible to you as a husband.

thorpido:
You were not wrong with your actions.A married man should not be exchanging love/romantics messages with an ex.
I expect you as a couple to have someone you both can look up to to intercede in this matter......a pastor,a trusted elder or counsellor.
I wouldn't say you didn't know the kind of man you were getting married to but probably hoped to live with it.
In all you do,don't let him bully you.He is responsible to you as a husband.

thorpido:
You were not wrong with your actions.A married man should not be exchanging love/romantics messages with an ex.
I expect you as a couple to have someone you both can look up to to intercede in this matter......a pastor,a trusted elder or counsellor.
I wouldn't say you didn't know the kind of man you were getting married to but probably hoped to live with it.
In all you do,don't let him bully you.He is responsible to you as a husband.