Funny how the world has turned out especially Africa. Nowadays please prefer to be liked online than offline, ladies go half naked just for likes, couples seek for advice online, citizens fight their government online, parent correct their children online and the worst of all we prefer online validation forgetting that online is not the real world but the foolish ones think it is.
mayDtolu: The pressure on men to get married once they hit their 30s is honestly exhausting. In our society, the moment a man enters his 30s, people start acting like he’s overdue for marriage—throwing jabs, cracking jokes, or outright questioning his decisions.
But what many don’t talk about is the financial reality behind it all.
Marriage isn’t just about love; it’s a serious financial commitment. And let’s be real—it’s tough out here. Some men are earning as much as ₦500,000 a month and still don’t feel ready to marry, because even that amount barely sustains one person, let alone a family. When survival is the goal, the thought of taking on more responsibility can be downright scary.
Sometimes, it’s not even about unwillingness. It’s about survival. Stability. Peace of mind.
How do you handle the pressure? If you’re a man in your 30s, have you felt this pressure too? If you’re already married, did you feel financially and emotionally ready when you tied the knot?
Let’s talk. Share your thoughts in the comments.
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Honestly I just believe men are not stupid as women think we are. I dont want to say much because this was the message I received from someone I just met...
In a video circulating on social media on Friday, the cleric suggested that “If you want to die and you’ve been praying for death, but it hasn’t come, there’s a way to make it happen,” Suleman declared. “Come to Auchi, stand by the front gate of our church, and say something against me. Somebody will kill you, another will bury you, and the third will be doing praise and worship on your dead body.”
He went further to recount instances where individuals allegedly punished critics on his behalf.
“I’ve had cult boys bring people to me and say, ‘This boy was insulting you, we beat him and told him to apologize.’ I asked them, ‘Who are you?’ They said, ‘You no go like who we be, but you don help us.’ Kindness.”
Cristiano Ronaldo struck twice in the second half—his second a late penalty—as Al-Nassr secured a thrilling 3-1 win over rivals Al-Hilal, climbing to third place in the league standings. However, the game came to life just before the break. Deep into stoppage time, what a match.
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Please I will like to know if you have S9+ screen that is original and what's the cost. Thanks
Good to see Goge Africa Couple, how time fly. I remember watching them on NTA 2 channel 5 ( your reach out station ) Those are the real couple and good example of marriage. May God continue to keep them strong.
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All women are beautiful it all depends on spec. As for me na woman wey get better back no be BBL ooh! and front, all follow come aka factory fitted....
I am a single guy thinking of getting married soon but some of the ladies I am considering having a serious relationship that may lead to marriage with are not virgins. This came as a surprise to me as I thought it will be easy to find a virgin to settle down with.
Should I try to focus on finding the one with best character and settle with or I should continue with my search to find a virgin?
I understand marriage is more than virginity but I am just wondering.
Looking forward to your responses.
Thanks
Interesting! Marrying a Virgin is a priceless thing ever and meeting one in this present Nigeria is like picking dollar on the ground of Lagos.
I must say that's a hard one bro not in this present naija, were sex is a yardstick for love. As a man don't settle for less because that's who will bring forth your child and nurture them. Is easy for a woman to say she can't marry a broke man but is a crime for a man to say he wants to marry a virgin.
Chilipepper: A heartbreaking tragedy has sparked outrage online after a Nigerian man shared the devastating story of how he lost his pregnant wife and unborn child due to alleged medical negligence and the demand for an upfront payment before treatment.In two emotional clips making rounds on social media, the grieving husband is seen cradling his lifeless wife while recounting the harrowing experience. According to him, they rushed to a private hospital in urgent need of care, but were turned away because they couldn’t immediately pay a ₦500,000 deposit.
Despite his pleas for the hospital to begin treatment while he sourced for funds, they allegedly refused and referred them to a general hospital far away in Epe, Lagos.Sadly, his wife passed away before they could reach the second facility.“They watched her die,” the husband said tearfully. “I begged them, but they drove us out like they didn’t care. How can life be so cheap?”The incident has triggered widespread anger on social media, with many calling for urgent reforms in the healthcare system and stronger regulations on emergency care. Nigerians are demanding accountability and justice as they question how a medical institution could allegedly prioritize money over saving lives.
Onyeka Onwenu said in one of her song " that we struggle to stay alive ". The day you visit hospital make sure you have enough money because if not 😥. I lost a friend at Gbagada General Hospital because of I don't care attitude from the nurses 😥😥😥.