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Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by EmmyOD(m): 1:27pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Is bc ur in UK dt u r reasoning like oyibo? Nawaaoh, guy no loose guard ooo. Don't even pay any one to test her. Open several Facebook accounts and WhatsApps. A month is enough to get the information you you want to get. That's if you a still a wise son of his father.... Good luck |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by InvertedHammer: 1:28pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101:/ You are embarking on a journey that has killed many before you. Nobody spends money and resources with the hope that it will end in divorce. But the odds are highly stacked against you. Do not judge or assess her with the way she acts while still in Nigeria. Na after you give water to monkey you go know how far. Good luck retrieving that cup. Your parents have no idea and you shouldn't rely on their assessment. Your mind is talking to you but you choose to be stubborn. / 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Tayorshd2(m): 1:33pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
God bless you my brother That's why I agreed sometimes that dating relationship orarriage doesn't have rules and is a black market ... Nobody can be produ Abt getting it right only by the Grace of the almighty God generalwo: |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by ufotunang: 1:35pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101:... there is no nigeria lady that lives in nigeria that would not like to marry a guy that base in UK or abroad...long distance love relationship is dangerous...you are just going to marry a stranger...a lady you do not know much about her true character and behavior... forget all those WhatsApp, Facebook chatting and phoning and calling each other...it's not enough to know a lady true character and behavior...she is just desperate to Japa out of the country nigeria and does not truly love you....it's better you date a lady over there in UK... even if it's a Nigeria lady...so that you both can be visiting and seeing each other frequently..it will give you the opportunity to know her true character and behaviours and then from there you then decide to marry her.. so far both of you love each other and know each other very well....long distance love relationship is dangerous 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Tayorshd2(m): 1:37pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
HomeTutorsPro: My brother you are God sent am actually facing similar issue too after 5 years of dating then getting married to her was d greatest mistake of my life .. I think the game of marriage love or relationship don't have formular make person just pray for grace 1 Like |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by professore(m): 1:38pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101:take your time, but most importantly pray. |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by frozen70(f): 1:43pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101: Being in a hurry or being slow in marriage matters doesn't guarantee a marriage free of troubles If you can come home, spend some time with her and you and your family will watch her attitude If you cant come because of documents issues, Make plans for her to be observed by your mum, sisters and aunties That means she will be visiting them and spend weekends with her and they will interact with each other One year is never enough to understand a woman The most troublesome woman will humble herself so far her suitor is abroad Anyone abroad can never understand any one's behaviors in Nigeria due to the economic situations Lastly, slow down a bit so that reports from the female relatives from your side, whom she will be visiting, Will be put together to know close to her type of person In another words, only a woman can understand and explain another woman no matter hoe canny, smart or pretending she is Good luck 1 Like |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by eastgates1: 1:44pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
toxtimmy:true but to avoid stories that touch you can do all that he has been advised from close range and see if she is truly what she says she is and what he wants besides the issue of pretending will not be there afterall the lady will also be in the uk and is not trying to use the guy to fly to "the abroad". |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by JustAndy(m): 1:45pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Hope is not one of those tinder girls oh! Don’t mistake hookup qualities to wife qualities, you better do background check |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Patobajujuman12: 1:52pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Big mistake |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Nobody: 1:56pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
akbonus: Wetin happen? What of the one wey dey ground? Abeg abeg no pour Sansan for the girl garri or wait if she fails the test we told op to carry out, you can give him your sisters details. No dey let your blood dey hot. Your sister don dey there, let another girl cross too. Hian! |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by rumenase(m): 2:06pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101:look for a Nigerian girl in the Uk and marry her. |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Nonexisting1: 2:08pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Nigerian girls now have different lifestyles to suit different men that come their way. She has activated the one that suits abroad man and the mugu is seeing the exact picture he had hoped for. Nigga you are abroad so you can afford a private investigator but I believe that will be waste of resources because the outcome of doing that on Nigerian girls will always be the same. 4 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by CSTRR: 2:09pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
You absolutely need to investigate. The best course of action is to get two or three different people living in her environment on your pay roll. They will watch her for you and give you honest feedback. That is what people do when they have something of value to monitor. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by GoooodHardDick: 2:19pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Nazgul: Humility101 Come and take this advice son and stop simping! Because your Simpson madness is on international level. You met a Nigerian hoe who belongs to the streets and you want to wife her ASAP? Omo where did you simp men came out from Abeg? 1 Like |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by GoooodHardDick: 2:20pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
eastgates1: Humility101 better listen to the advise these honourable comrade are telling you |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Clinghton: 2:23pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
You haven't had physical contact with her only through phone , look before you leap. |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by ObalendeCMS: 2:23pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Ah! Naija girls life don finish. @Op, please don’t do it. |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by GoooodHardDick: 2:27pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
BigDawsNet: Humility101 Ivory coast is even better. Just tell her you've been transferred to Northern Nigeria or countries like Togo, Kenya or mali and that will be your permanent place. Then relax and watch her reaction. Bro two seconds that girl will not only stop giving you attention but will dump you ASAP. You want to convert a Nigerian street hoe to a wife? You must be an international simp. You better marry a white lady over there or look for a sane Nigerian girl who's a British citizen and get married to her. |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by tunnex190: 2:29pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Met online 2 months ago and you are planning wedding already . 1 Like |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by mctech(m): 2:35pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
shege45:Gbam! Even when you are living nearby and seeing regularly, ladies (and guys too) still have terrible secret lives and pasts. Let alone someone you have never seen before. Your family saw her once and concluded she is a good girl. ���� She MAY be o. But every marriage is a gamble, but yours seems to be the riskiest. Try to see if you can get into her social media accounts (there are guys here that can do that for you), and her phone too. If you believe in prayer or have someone who can do that for, please do. Do everything to know her real person. Never be carried away by her words and actions. Even Jezebel want to marry, let alone japa. |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by promami: 2:37pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Bro you're rushing things really and there's no guarantee that she'll not serve you breakfast once she gets to UK. Put her loyalty to test and see what kind of stuff she's made up of. You can claim that you've lost your job, things are tough for you. You're now squatting with a friend. Then get another friend of yours to torment her life with relationship request while showing off riches and a promise of bringing her to UK. If you wanna do this, it has to be a friend you trust oo. There's no way you can guarantee she's not into you if not of what she'd gain unless you test her loyalty. If she pass your test and stand by you for the next 3 to 6 months, you can wife her. For now, abort that her dreams of using you as a means to japa and better her family life. |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by ExudeLoveToAll: 2:45pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
hifocus: You should know that the Crux of his message is that people tend to accept you when they know what they stand to benefit in the relationship and not that no girl that was highlighted. Him giving a reference of Northern Nigeria was to lower his social stratification and see the real interest exuding from her. That no girl is just a way to catch cruise. |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by IamMobisola(f): 2:45pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101: Since according to you people overseas, women in Nigeria want to use you as a japa tactics, why not just look for someone over there and stop disturbing our peace? 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Afolashade00(f): 2:47pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101: |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by babavik: 2:47pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
shege45: Bros abeg take this advice. |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by IamMobisola(f): 2:53pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Savedday: And who says girls in the UK too won’t throw him out of his own house and make him homeless? Just say you haven’t see such cases before. 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by ACE1010: 2:53pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
[quote author=SPAMBOX7 post=118347952]Lol even American girl go dump you for half of those tests, talk more of the hunger infested hoes here [/quote |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by remsonik(f): 2:54pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Get married if you want to and God will give you a happy home, all the advice you get here is just to turn your back against a happy home. Pray unto God to give you the right revelations on who to marry and when to get married and it is well with you in Jesus name |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by LordReed(m): 2:56pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101: I'll never advice anyone to marry a person they've never actually spent any time getting to know. Marriage is not something you jump into just because you feel good, you need to know if the person you are marrying is actually the kind of person you want to live with and if it's a consideration, the kind of person you want to have kids with. |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Cde1: 2:57pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
You decide |
Re: Can I Get Married To Her Now Or It’s Too Early? by Elsueno: 3:00pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
humility101: She already knows all of ur cards dat she needed....While u know almost nothing except she's got 'qualities' |
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