₦airaland Forum

[quote author=gree-die]uhm... its not lyk he is marrying u today. u said lyk in a years tym ba?
u can court him and.opt out if u dnt lyk wat u discover. if u lyk him,give it a try. his tribe is good too[/quote]Thanks for taking the time to respond. What do you mean by "his tribe is good." He told me he's Igbo but bcoz of Lagos influence identifies more with Yoruba.

Hi all.. I have a few queries that I hope you can help me out with. I'm of Kenyan origin and just recently met an Igbo guy (he grew up in Lagos). The guy has been very hot on my tail. He brought up marriage pretty much on day one. Is that normal in your culture? I'm trying to understand. He's 30 years old, very intelligent and highly educated (PhD level), Christian guy. He says he doesn't need a long time to figure out whether the relationship can work, that one month is enough to know. He can "sense my spirit" and he's at peace. He appears to be very confident that we can get married in a year or so. I mean, I barely know him...?!? Is this too good to be true? One thing I like about him is that he's a man's man for sure (he's not a sissy man) and he speaks with so much confidence, he makes me feel safe but I'm scared to fall for him incase it turns out to be a lie. He has been in the US for 2 years. Are there any red flags you can think of? Could he be having another family in Nigeria? He says his parents don't mind that I'm a kenyan. Please help!