Ballmer:
Still waiting on your respond to my PM.

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Ballmer:
More like offer you private advice n with good reasons. You should simply reply the PM.

Okay

Ballmer:
You should rather drop your own contact instead.

You want to abuse me privately abi, have seen your pm already, just say what you have to say here

tweeby:
Very funny gal.! I just pity d man in question, op u can get all wat u want n need in life. Just simply apply law of attraction. I've once been in dat state bug thanks be to God, I'm way better off now. Don't wana tell u how I survived, might be too risky for u besides how old are u?

Please tell me how you managed the situation and come out of it, forget my age cos even if I was to be 35 have always choose happiness over desperation.

pet4ril:
keep it with you and let him find his way........ Time waits for nobody

Babes keep your desperation for separate Lane cos I can't trade my lifetime happiness for a day ceremony

pet4ril:
If this guy were your brother, would you have loved someone to play with his feelings Its possible the dude wants to settle down, so i beg you in the name of whatever you believe in, stop wasting his time and wait for your mr handsome to come your way tell him to find his way for one mans poison is another mans food

Huh? So caring, do you care for his contact?

Omotayor123:
My sister, run before it's too late if you think you can't cope with his character!

The character for now seems nice but it looks fake or something that he's enduring just to get me, cos since I don't like him at all, I don't bother with all those visitations to really access him and whenever he invites and say no he doesn't complain about it.

Young03:
only thing I would say to u is to be focused, alredy u av made up ur mind not to marry him but due to d fact dat he keeps pressurizing u...u want to accept.


if u know he z not attracted to u,don't let him in to avoid stories dat touch but..


if age no de ur side, sista run go Marry her

note..he loves u dat anytin u do , he sees it as a good thing, dat kind of a man will never let u down...


follow ur mind sha

So he's the only one to be happy in the marriage, what about my own happiness?

That's selfish to me

Right now I'm confused and frustrated at the same time still I don't wanna make lifetime mistakes.


Here is my plight...There's is a young man seriously in love with me but I'm far from liking him let alone love him yet he wouldn't stop, this his relenting spirit kinda attracted me to him but still I can't find a place in my heart to accommodate him, everything about him just irritate me, he laughs uncontrollably over my not so funny jokes, from the look of things he seems so happy and settled with me yet I'm at the opposite end, whenever we have a date I do keep an eye on my wrist watch and keep wishing time flies so fast.

But I discover he is serious and focused and sound to interact and have a meaningful convo with but his physical looks is just a big turn off, I really wanna give birth to lovely kids not some "oputu poyoyo" please y'all should not tell me to look beyond looks cos these things do come into play...I'm saying this cos my mouth no good oh, anyday we have any misunderstanding I might mistakenly yab away his future.

I have been postponing giving him a yes hoping for someone presentable to show these signs of seriousness but no way, now he has fix March for the main thing, all my thoughts now is how can I maneuver my way and make all my kids take after my beauty instead of his and it's my baby girl I'm so scared for cos most baby girls take over their dad.

Note: he's not rich oh just a struggling guy before y'all will conclude I'm into his money, the only thing is he acts different from the rest that will just act so sex starved, any focus girl wants a focused guy too but to tell y'all the truth I'm still in doubt since I don't feel a thing for him and he seem not to be bothered which I'm certain he will after the main thing.

Please to the lovely ladies that once said yes to a not so presentable guy(I mean a man with bending shaped head, undefined complexion and petit in nature ) how is the journey so far