₦airaland Forum

Let’s be honest — adulthood is hard work for everyone.
Bills don’t care about gender. Dreams don’t grow on sympathy.

It’s not a man’s responsibility to fund your lifestyle, fix your laziness, or fuel your entitlement.
And yes — this is for those lazy, unmotivated, unproductive, and perpetually “waiting for a helper” ladies.

Work is dignity.
Work is freedom.
Work is how you earn respect — not demand it.

Men are not financial plans.
They are fellow adults, hustling through the same chaos called life.

If you want soft life, start with hard work.
If you want independence, stop outsourcing your effort.

No one owes you a good life.
You owe yourself effort, growth, and accountability.

The world respects those who create value, not those who consume pity.

So go out there and grind legit — with your brain, your skills, and your hands.
Your future self will thank you for it.

Jennyclay:
He should have been sentenced to death

Shame on every individual who sexually abuse, exploits underage children.

Shame on those who use children as nannies, house helpers, or in any form of hard labor.

Shame also on the government for failing to prioritize the lives and well-being of children.

Shame!!

I agree with you 100 percent.

Pakute:
https://punchng.com/borno-unveils-plastic-factory-begins-exportation/

I commend Borno State for doing the best they can. When I went to Maiduguri i was amazed at the effort made.

SpencerForbes:
A concerning trend has caught my attention.
Some ladies are connecting with people “abroad” via foreign chat apps and sharing n^de content for quick cash – like $50. Sadly, these images and videos spread online uncensored.

Then the tricky part comes, when they're ready for serious relationships or marriage, leaked content can resurface, causing complications. Then we blame it on the devil. Very funny 🤔
🚶‍♂️

The devil has suffered in the hands of humans

Imagine this:

You’ve been chatting with someone online for weeks. They make you laugh, they check up on you, and they say all the right things. Their pictures are perfect. Their vibe feels real. You start thinking, “Maybe I’ve finally met someone who gets me.”

But one day, boom! You discover it was all a lie. The person behind the sweet words and flawless selfies isn’t who they claimed to be. The pictures? Stolen. The stories? Fabricated. The feelings? Manipulated.

That, my people, is catfishing — pretending to be someone else online just to deceive others. And it’s not just happening abroad; it’s happening here, every single day in Nigeria.

Let’s talk about Teni, a 17-year-old girl from Lagos, who met someone named “Kelvin” on Instagram. He seemed funny, gentle, and full of “God when” energy. They talked for months. He said he was 19 and studying in Canada.

Soon, Kelvin started asking for pictures, nud ones. Teni hesitated, but he was patient and persuasive. Something still felt off, so she confided in her freind. They did a quick reverse image search… and guess what?

Kelvin wasn’t real. The pictures belonged to a fitness influencer in South Africa. The real person messaging her was a 42-year-old man living in Port Harcourt, using fake accounts to trap teenage girls.

Teni was lucky she found out before things got worse. But many others don’t.

Let’s be honest:
Catfishing isn’t a “harmless joke” or “online play.” It’s digital deceit. It destroys trust, shatters confidence, and sometimes leads to blackmail, heartbreak, or even danger.

In an era where AI can clone voices and fake photos look real, it’s becoming harder than ever to know who’s behind the screen.

Protect Yourself And Others
1️⃣ Don’t share private details like home address, school, or nudes with people you’ve never met in person.
2️⃣ Trust your gut. If it feels “off,” it probably is.
3️⃣ Verify before trusting. Use Google Image Search or TinEye to check if their photos appear elsewhere.
4️⃣ Talk to someone you trust. It’s not snitching; it’s smart survival.
5️⃣ Report fake accounts. You might save someone else from falling into the same trap.

In a world filled with filters, fakes, and fast lies, authenticity is your strongest armor. Be wise. Be real. Be safe.

“Catfishing is not flirting — it’s fraud.”
Would you date someone you met online today? Or do you think online love is just another trap waiting to happen?
👇
Let’s talk — drop your thoughts.

Cc nlfpmod seun

You ever see posts like this online:

“A woman in love is obsessed. Possessive. Territorial. Almost psychotic. If she doesn't show the above then she doesn't love you”

And people will be in the comments shouting, "100% correct", I agree with you " “God when!”

Before you know it, the same woman don kpai the man o.

Let’s be real, when did we start celebrating this level of toxicity (madness) as love?

Now, everyone wants to prove loyalty by being toxic.

You see someone checking their partner’s phone 24/7, tracking location, fighting imaginary rivals and instead of calling it insecurity, they call it true love. 😒

Relationship wey suppose sweet like honey, don turn to FBI investigation.

The Hard Truth:

Obsession ≠ Attraction

Possessiveness ≠ Protection

Jealousy ≠ Love

All those “do or die” vibes we glorify are what’s destroying marriages today.
People no dey love again na to control, to monitor, to own.
Love wey no give peace, na punishment.
Love wey you no fit breathe inside, na prison.

You should know that, Love:

Gives you peace, not panic.

Builds you, not breaks you.

Trusts you, not tracks you.

Let’s stop normalizing emotional instability and calling it affection.
Because when it becomes obsession, somebody might end up in the news and it won’t be for good reasons.

Your so-called love of your life should not be the cause of your death.

Omo, that’s the real problem these days.
You try to have a serious, meaningful conversation — she’s billing.
She flashes you, you call back — billing.
You call to check up on her — she says, “I’m hungry.”
Billing upon billings. 🤔

⚡ The New Emotional Economy

We live in an era where many relationships have turned into mini tax systems.
Every emotional interaction comes with a cost implication.
You can’t even share genuine concern anymore without it being mistaken for a financial transaction.

It’s not about the money — it’s about intention decay.
When every conversation has a price tag, sincerity dies.

💡 The Psychology Behind It

Here’s the catch — when financial dependency replaces emotional connection, the relationship loses its foundation.
You can’t build trust on constant billing.
It breeds quiet resentment, emotional fatigue, and fake affection.

Eventually, the giver becomes drained.
The receiver becomes entitled.
And both stop growing.

Real Talk

Let’s be clear — there’s nothing wrong with helping someone you care about.
Generosity is beautiful.
But when every “hi” becomes an invoice and every “I miss you” is code for “send something,”
then love is no longer love — it’s logistics.

If affection needs constant top-up, it’s not connection; it’s subscription. 💳

The Bigger Lesson

As a generation, we need to start redefining value exchange in relationships.
Let support be mutual.
Let conversations be genuine.
Let love be affordable — emotionally, not financially.

Because if your wallet must always validate your words,
then what happens the day your balance drops?

Let’s bring back sincerity before billing replaces bonding.

This is very informative.

Hello nlfpmod

Nlfpmod what do you think of this

This conversation has always been ignored.

This thread had no comment for days.

We have a long way to go.

webincomeplus:
This is the same line you people deceive yourselves with. Who told you most Indians depend on traditional medicine?

The same India Nigerians go for kidney transplant and other complex surgeries? The same India where most of the imported conventional drugs in Nigeria is manufactured?

Or you think it's their Ayurveda and other traditional stunts they use for kidney transplants?

See the way you twisted my words just to further your agenda
Humans are something else.

mukshin:
Bribery
Most likely not all are authentic from Nafdac

Of course. You have a point there.

Ashirioluwa:
You're right, but they need to go through the rigorous testing and get NAFDAC approval to make sure they are safe for human consumption.

Safety is not even the main issue.

Their effectiveness and quality is the crux of the matter.

NewHe:
There's no need to delay, it's overdue!
There's no crime if the government help with further investigation and subsequent approvals for them.
Save forex on expensive imported drugs 💉

Exactly. More funding is always needed.

Greetings Nairalanders,

I come before this great forum today to speak about a painful and often dismissed issue—one that strikes at the very heart of our belief in equal justice. We are quick, and rightfully so, to demand the harshest penalties for sexual crimes. But I ask you today: What happens when our collective outrage is selective? What happens when the victim is a man or a boy, and the perpetrator is a woman?

This is not an attack on women. It is a plea for JUSTICE FOR ALL. It is a demand for our laws and our society to see the crime, not just the gender.

The Silent Suffering in Our Own Backyard

We cannot pretend this is only a "foreign" problem. The evidence is here in Nigeria, if we are brave enough to look.

· The Reality of Male Rape: A 2023 study by legal experts concluded that male rape is a widespread issue in Nigeria, and our existing legal framework is insufficient to address it. The study highlights a combination of legal, social, and psychological factors that prevent men from coming forward and getting justice .
· The Legal Gap: For a long time, our laws defined rape in a way that only recognized women as victims. While the Violence Against Persons Prohibition (VAPP) Act of 2015 has made progress, the old thinking remains deeply ingrained . Many of our laws are not gender-neutral, creating a huge barrier to justice for male survivors .
· The Hidden Stories: While high-profile cases of female perpetrators are rare in our media, the academic research and legal analyses point to a silent epidemic. Men and boys are suffering in the shadows, burdened by a culture that tells them they cannot be victims.

The Global Pattern: A Chilling Mirror of Leniency

For those who say "men cannot be raped," or that they must have "enjoyed it," the data and cases from around the world tell a different, more heartbreaking story.

· The "Made to Penetrate" Epidemic: In the United States, a CDC survey found that a staggering 1 in 9 men (10.7%) reported being "made to penetrate" someone else at some point in their lives. In the majority of these cases, the perpetrators were women .

· The Teacher-Student Betrayal: We've seen the headlines from the US: female teachers like Shauna Taylor receiving 10-year sentences for raping their 17-year-old male student. Yet, these cases are often met with a disturbing undercurrent of jokes, as if the boys were "lucky," completely ignoring the profound violation and lifelong trauma .

· The Sentencing Disparity: This is where the injustice becomes glaring. Studies from other countries show a clear pattern: women often receive shorter sentences than men for the same crimes . This is often rooted in a "chivalry" bias—a patriarchal, condescending attitude that views women as less responsible for their actions. True equality demands equal accountability.

The Pain Behind the Silence: More Than Just Physical

The aftermath for male survivors is a heavy burden that leads to:

· Severe Mental Trauma: Depression, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), anxiety, and suicidal thoughts are common .
· A Crushing Identity Crisis: Men report feeling intense shame, questioning their masculinity and their sexuality .
· Social Withdrawal: The fear of stigma and not being believed drives many survivors into isolation, unable to trust anyone.

A Call to Action: It's Time for Change

We must move from stating problems to demanding solutions. We must speak to the heart of the matter.

· We Must Break the Silence: We need to create safe spaces, online and offline, where men can share their stories without fear of judgment or mockery. The next time someone makes a "lucky boy" joke, speak up. Explain that sexual assault is about power and violation, not desire.
· We Must Demand Legal Reform: We need to support and strengthen laws like the VAPP Act to ensure they are fully inclusive, properly implemented, and that sentencing guidelines are applied equally, regardless of gender.
· We Must Support Survivors: If a brother, friend, or son confides in you, believe them. Listen to them. Your support can be the first step in their healing. Their pain is valid. Their trauma is real.

Final Word

This fight is not about pitting men against women. It is about uniting for a principle: that the law must be blind. A system that punishes a man severely for a crime but gives a woman a "slap on the wrist" for the same offense is not a just system. It is a broken one.

Let's use this platform to start a real, honest conversation. Let's be the generation that ends the silence.

What are your thoughts, Nairaland? Have you or someone you know been affected by this silent epidemic? How can we, as a community, push for a system where justice is truly blind?

#JusticeForAll #MenToo #BreakTheSilence #EqualJustice #Nairaland

Its high time we start relying on our traditional medicine like China and India. Lets standardize and make it better.



I am carrying out a survey on traditional medicine practices in Nigeria.

Check Signature for the form to participate and give your opinion.

PerfectStranger:
Kneeling depicts submission. A man was created to be the head (biblically and otherwise). Any man who kneels is weak and doesn't know his worth and value.

Exactly

Verbtips:
some people dey ready to be single mom as long as cash is involved,make I tie am down with pregnancy 😂😂😂😂😂

Linkai447:
Well said, what I know is that I will never kneel before any woman in the name of proposing to her.

i don't know why we like copying everything from the west.

This post is a rebuttal to ex BB Naija star, Neo Akpofure's take on men kneeling to propose.

While it is a common saying that everyone can do what they like since it's their life but in reality, if everyone is allowed to do whatever they want the world will move backwards and things will be in chaos.

Back to the matter.
Let’s be honest: kneeling is not romance, it’s subjugation. Slaves knelt before masters. Subjects knelt before kings. Humans kneel before God.

So why are freeborn men kneeling before women in the name of love? 🤮

Marriage in Africa was never about kneeling. Our traditions saw marriage as partnership, legacy, responsibility. A man stood tall, invited a woman to join his journey, and both families built together. He never begged. He never humiliated himself.

But today, men drop to their knees with rings in hand, acting as though they are beneath the very women they are supposed to lead and protect. That’s not love, it’s weakness.

The so-called white wedding only makes it worse — imported rituals that turn men into clowns financing their own humiliation.

Truth is simple:

A man should kneel only before his Creator, never before a woman.

Marriage is a call to partnership, not subjugation.

A woman joins a man’s mission; she doesn’t become his master.

African men, reclaim your dignity. Stand tall. Lead with strength. Stop the madness of kneeling for proposals. It doesn't symbolize love but weakness and subjugation.

Cc seun nlfpmod Dominique

We need to talk about something that’s quietly destroying lives in our communities: the flogging of children in the name of “deliverance” or “spiritual cleansing.”

Psychiatrists in Nigeria have raised serious concerns about this practice, especially in prayer houses and religious centres. Instead of healing children, they say it’s leaving deep wounds — not just on their skin but on their minds.

Why it’s dangerous:

Children who are beaten regularly can develop anxiety, depression, and even post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

Their brain development can be affected, leading to poor learning, low self-esteem, and difficulties managing emotions.

Long-term, some may struggle with substance abuse, antisocial behaviours, or violent tendencies as coping mechanisms.

Experts warn:

Dr. Yesiru Kareem compared it to using “salt to heal poison, but the salt itself has become poison.” What’s supposed to bring healing ends up bringing trauma.

Dr. Modupeola Adebayo explained that a child’s brain is like wet clay — easily shaped but also easily scarred. Constant flogging doesn’t “cast out demons”; it rewires the brain in harmful ways.

The bigger issue:
Many of these practices are more cultural than spiritual. Unfortunately, even educated parents are falling for them. Children showing signs of autism, ADHD, or learning difficulties are sometimes labelled as “possessed” instead of being taken for professional medical evaluation.

What needs to change:

Parents must stop seeing corporal punishment as therapy.

Religious centres must be held accountable.

The Child Rights Act (which prohibits corporal punishment) should be fully enforced.

Communities, schools, and leaders must push for safer, evidence-based child guidance methods.

At the end of the day, children don’t need bruises to learn. They don’t need scars to grow. They need love, guidance, and professional help when they struggle.

💬 Forum Question:
Do you think religion and culture are being misused to justify child abuse? What are better ways communities can discipline or guide children without destroying their mental health?

Seun nlfpmod

Verbtips:
🏧😂

What do you mean by ATM

We keep trying to explain away the reality of life with comforting stories.

Hinduism and Buddhism say it’s karma—maybe you’re suffering now because of something from a past life.

Christianity says, don’t worry, judgment day is coming.

Islam says everything happens by divine decree—be patient, paradise awaits.

African traditional religions blame curses, ancestors, or spiritual imbalance.

But let’s be honest—all these explanations push justice to “later.”
Later = after death.
Later = reincarnation.
Later = the unseen.

I honestly just shake my head sometimes. Every religion has its own way of sugarcoating suffering and injustice.

“It’s karma, wait for your next life.”

“Hellfire is waiting, don’t worry.”

“Judgment day is coming, the wicked will pay.”

“Your ancestors are angry, do sacrifice.”

Translation? Keep quiet, keep suffering, justice is postponed.

But open your eyes—bad things keep happening to “good” people, while “bad” people are out here balling, building empires, and living their best lives.

Take Job in the Bible. Man was righteous, yet God let him lose everything. And when he asked “Why?”, God basically said: “I’m powerful, don’t question me.” No explanation, no justice, just vibes.

Here’s the uncomfortable truth:
👉 The wicked prosper because they work principles, not prayers.

Think of corn. If a thief steals corn and plants it, does heaven stop the rain? Do angels refuse the sunshine? No! The corn grows, and he harvests bountifully.

That’s life—systems reward action, not morality. Rain doesn’t fall only on “holy ground.” Money doesn’t multiply only in “righteous bank accounts.”

Meanwhile, many of the so-called “righteous” are busy fasting, binding, cursing, and waiting for fire to fall from heaven—while the “wicked” are planting, networking, investing, and reaping.

Curses? Please. If curses worked, half the corrupt politicians would be dead by now. Instead, they’re the ones funding churches, building mosques, and cutting ribbons at cathedrals.

The hard truth:

The wicked aren’t always “favored,” they’re just smart.

The righteous aren’t always “oppressed,” they’re just passive.

Hope in divine punishment is psychological anesthesia to make suffering feel noble.

So maybe the issue isn’t that the wicked prosper.
Maybe the issue is that the righteous confuse piety with productivity.

Because whether you’re saint or sinner—corn doesn’t care who plants it. It will grow.

Cc nlfpmod Dominique seun

mjblinks:
Yes, husbands fight silent battles.
But let’s also remember: wives do too.

Many women carry invisible loads that often go unnoticed, even by the men they love most.
Why don’t wives talk?
👉 Because they don’t want to “nag.”
👉 Because they don’t want to feel unappreciated.
👉 Because they’re told “that’s just what women do.”

But just like men, their silence doesn’t mean peace. Behind her smile, here are 10 hidden battles many wives secretly face in marriage:

1. Pressure to Hold Everything Together
From kids to meals to home and sometimes career, she feels she can’t afford to “fall apart.”

2. Fear of Not Being Enough
She wonders if she’s still attractive, still desirable, still “the one.”

3. Loneliness (Even When Married)
She may crave quality time, deep talks, or affection but doesn’t voice it out.

4. Silent Exhaustion
Between work, home, and motherhood, many women are simply tired to their core.

5. Emotional Starvation
She longs for affection, appreciation, or just a listening ear—but may not ask for it.

6. Comparison Pressure
Seeing “perfect” wives or mothers online quietly makes her doubt herself.

7. Invisible Sacrifices
She gives up dreams, hobbies, and sometimes career progress for the family—often unnoticed.

8. Fear of Growing Apart
She worries: “What if one day, he stops seeing me the way he once did?”

9. Spiritual Weight
When she feels she’s carrying the faith of the family alone, it can be overwhelming.

10. Silent Cries for Partnership
She doesn’t just want a provider—she longs for a partner who shares the journey of life fully.

The truth is: both husbands and wives bleed silently.
Marriage is strongest when both see, honor, and support each other’s battles—not just endure them alone.

Because love isn’t about who suffers more. It’s about carrying each other’s burdens, together. ❤️

Thank you for your comment.

Yes, wives fight silent battles… but let’s not water down the storm husbands face.

I agree — women bleed silently too. But here’s the reality: while wives often carry invisible loads, husbands carry invisible loads with consequences that are far more brutal if they fail.

Why? Because society judges men not by their effort but by their results.
A struggling wife will often find sympathy, empathy, and help. A struggling husband? He’s ridiculed, shamed, or abandoned.

Let’s go point by point :

1️⃣ Pressure to Hold Everything Together
Yes, women juggle kids, meals, and home which is tough. But if a man fails to provide, the entire family’s survival is at stake. His “failure” becomes headlines in his home, community, and extended family.

2️⃣ Fear of Not Being Enough
Women fear desirability. Men fear uselessness. If his wallet dries up or his strength fades, society (and often his spouse) treats him as disposable.

3️⃣ Loneliness
Women crave affection and talks. Men crave respect. A wife can still be loved despite distance, but a husband stripped of respect feels like half a man.

4️⃣ Silent Exhaustion
Wives get exhausted. Husbands get exhausted too—but cannot stop. If a man “rests too much,” he’s branded lazy.

5️⃣ Emotional Starvation
Women long for appreciation. Men long for validation of their worth. That’s why losing a job or income drives so many men into depression or suicide.

6️⃣ Comparison Pressure
Yes, women compare themselves online. But men compare paychecks, careers, and property. And unlike women, their peers rarely comfort them—competition rules their world.

7️⃣ Invisible Sacrifices
True. But men also give up hobbies, passions, and even health chasing provision. He cannot boast of these sacrifices because “that’s what a man should do.”

8️⃣ Fear of Growing Apart
Wives fear fading romance. Husbands fear becoming irrelevant in their own homes—when kids, bills, and survival push them to the background.

9️⃣ Spiritual Weight
Women may feel they pray more. But men often feel guilty that even their prayers “don’t matter” because they lack results.

🔟 Silent Cries for Partnership
Women want partnership. Men want loyalty—even when they’re weak. A wife may carry extra weight for a season and still be celebrated. A husband who falters for a season risks being replaced.

The truth?
Both husbands and wives bleed silently. But the man’s bleeding is lonelier, less understood, and more fatal if ignored.

That’s why when men say they’re “rock solid,” they don’t mean they don’t suffer. They mean:
They must suffer in silence—because society has little patience for a “broken man.”

And that’s exactly why men’s battles deserve spotlight. Not to downplay women’s struggles, but to finally admit: husbands are bleeding, too—and often, they bleed to death.

Heffalump:
You failed to add pressure from in-laws, who felt because their daughter is in your house you should worship them and be their benefactor for life. That one is more lethal than all you've mentioned.

That is a thread for another day.

NovusHomo:
And the INLAWS?

I left them out cos that is a different talk for another day.

Bigchris01:
Being a man most especially in this part of the world where we hail from African Nigeria to be precise they believe men are strong enough to handle everything that’s why most men don’t last anymore even The Bible sef join mount pressure on men 🤭

That last line said it all to be man no easy.

PerfectStranger:
Marriage was not meant for everyone. If you feel you can't contend the pressure and shenanigans then remain single.

No go kpai yourself just because the society expect you to bottle up your frustrations.

You are right.
Yet same society will be pressuring men to marry that what are they waiting for, that are are irresponsible.

People think men are “rock solid.” Strong. Unshaken. Providers who feel no pain.
Truth?
Many husbands are fighting battles they’ll never confess. Silent struggles that eat deep into them and, if ignored, can damage a marriage.

Why don’t men talk?
👉 Society says “man up.”
👉 They don’t want to look weak.
👉 Or they don’t want to stress their wives.

But silence doesn’t mean peace. Behind that calm face, here are 10 battles most husbands secretly fight in marriage:

1. Pressure to Provide
Bills pile up, business slows, yet he must smile and act like all is fine. Inside? Shame and fear.
📖 “But if any provide not for his own… he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.” (1 Timothy 5:8 )

2. Fear of Losing Respect
Sarcasm, comparisons, and ridicule wound him more than most women realize. Respect is oxygen to a man.
📖 “…and the wife see that she reverence her husband.” (Ephesians 5:33)

3. Loneliness (Even at Home)
He misses attention when his wife is too consumed with work, kids, or activities.
📖 “Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.” (Ecclesiastes 4:9)

4. Quiet Struggle With Temptation
Yes, even good men wrestle with thoughts they may never admit.
📖 “Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” (Matthew 26:41)

5. Shadow of Failure
Every man wants to be his wife’s hero. When life knocks him down, silence hides his pain.
📖 “…David strengthened himself in the Lord his God.” (1 Samuel 30:6)

6. Bottled Emotions
Society says “men don’t cry,” so he bottles stress, anxiety, and grief, no wonder mem die early.
📖 “Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.” (1 Peter 5:7)

7. Comparison Pressure
Seeing friends “doing better” quietly makes him feel less.
📖 “For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves…” (2 Corinthians 10:12)

8. Work vs. Family Guilt
Struggling to balance being present with providing.
📖 “To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.” (Ecclesiastes 3:1)

9. Fear of Losing Love
He wonders: “Will she still love me if I grow old, broke, or sick?”
📖 “Charity never faileth…” (1 Corinthians 13:8 )

10. Spiritual Insecurity
When his wife seems more prayerful or dedicated, he may feel inadequate.
📖 “Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.” (Proverbs 27:17)

The truth is this: Husbands may look strong, but they bleed silently.
Wives, when you understand these battles and respond with love, respect, and support, you don’t just heal your husband — you fortify your marriage.

📖 “Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2)

👉 What do you think?
Why do men hide their struggles, and what can wives do differently?

Women do you agree men go through these battles?

Nlfpmod come see this