₦airaland Forum

maybe in your bush FL

but the Nigerians up here wear native with a western twist.

[quote author=_Queenisha link=topic=174453.msg2839319#msg2839319 date=1222117014]You can't tell us to submit and submit our paychecks too.[/quote]

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=174453.msg2839291#msg2839291 date=1222116655]LOL! I'm not that crazy to talk to those kind of men.
Unemployed?
It's better to have a man without a diploma working, than a man with diploma unemployed[/quote]I disagree. The latter will eventually make more than the other while the former will be constant.

It all depends on determination and I dont see that from the OP's agbaya.

Some guys are shameless.

How can he go to the girl's family./house with nothing in his hands yet expects her to buy stuff for his family.

L-O-S-E-R

a 31yrs old depending on a 24yrs old is very worrying
please dump his ass and move on.
My conclusion is based on the fact that he relies on you not just because he demands money for his upkeep or thereabout.

Save the money you are spending on him for your future because, when he does eventually get a job the probability of him cheating on u is somewhat high (again an assumption based on the fact that he probably likes you for the monetary things you provide) and if it does happen you Will probably curse the whole generation of men in this world and in turn find it hard for your heart to heal.

Best advice, bar none.

Dude's a loser let him go.

Osisi, if the thing was just recent, she would have mentioned that he tries to look for a job. i didnt see any of that in her post. Point is he roams aeround looking for scraps from a junior. Disgraceful

as for the lame "things may change tomorrow" rubbish, for how long should she wait for things to change? Til she's 40 and then when things do change he suddenly realizes that she's too old and then trades her in for someone else?

joichi, ignore those trying to make you stagnant. Move foward, that guy isnt helping you.

blackspade:
Why don't these gentlemen invest in helping Naija first, then buy a soccer team?

If £350,000,000 were to be put into a fund to help further develop, they could see that money come back 10-fold.

*nods*

hate? why?

30 Rock is crap. Dont know why it gets so much love

wish Dexter got more love

Im too busy clapping for you instead

[quote author=Brash! link=topic=174396.msg2836963#msg2836963 date=1222090114]if person dey find the recipe for ewedu up and down, then how the person go fit boil egg?! [/quote]It's cos of dumb remarks like this that most people dont feel comfortable asking harmless questions here

Congrats.

Early 20s isnt underage so the whole Hefner comparison is completely idiotic.

Also Gary Glitter was arrested for his crimes. Note the word "Arrested"

Lastly teen pregnancy is WAY better than being a country with pretty mcuh the highest AIDS rate

You people need to stop embarrassing yourselves with pitiful arguments

Mad Men won at least. Something good did come out of it I guess

Im wrong for that ke? Did you not see that video of a 3 year old party and how those babies were dancing with grown ups applauding like idiots. Disgusting

But them Jamos aint got nothing on those Jambalaya eating N. Orleans folk.

Same difference. Actually no. Haitians are better human beings.

They're very lazy. Dont want to teach anything.

They think everyone is like the jamos who started when they were toddlers

Hannibal:
True. . . . .Some men like virgins but after deflowering them, they still go out there to find a tigeress in bed.

There lies the irony.

[quote author=_Queenisha link=topic=173975.msg2834619#msg2834619 date=1222045577]I was engaged prior for a couple of years earlier and never slept with the guy.[/quote]well with the way you described that one's table manners I cant say Im surprised you didnt let him near you.

Cant believe Michael Emerson lost that Emmy. Im upset

lmao. yea Ive noticed that you've been called gambari.

wetin?

osisi and her two mouth

osiisi you know I am madam gboborun and memory is excellebt. I remember when you leaked that you "did eat the fruit before marriage".

I no go lie I did with my husband
but I didn't move in.
there are those who even live with the man without a marriage proposal.
Those are the ones I'm talking about
It's not right.

Definitely agree with you on this. Lol I think the girls who do this, do it as a way to DETER their men from cheating around. after all the dude cant bring someone else if he has his girl living there. Little do they know, if a legally married man can still cheat with his legal wife and kids under his roof, nothing is stopping one who isnt legal yet

secondly there has been business ventures he wanted to go it but I didn't feel good about them and advised him and he went with my opinion and later thanked me for the advice.

See, examples of how you really do have a good husband and not an egomaniac. Alot of husband esp Naija men would be like "After all Im the husband, I will take on any decision I wnat and after the fact I will tell the wife about it" and when shit hits the fan and the money is gone, frustration is then taken out on the wife.

anyway good job with the thread osisi.

Emmy Time!

when I talk about my papa David will be the first to yell that a person should marry their parents. Yet he keeps looking for his Mama's twin

Oniranu.

DeepZone:
You are a religious fanatic. Why won't you marry a girl because she is not a muslim? I don't think a sane girl will want to marry you as a 2nd or 3rd wife by the way. Stick to the wife you have now.

Lmao he's a afanatic for not wanting to marry someone who isnt a fellow Muslim but you're not for ignoring a naming cos of no show policy. Irony anyone?

and in the case of olabowale, one of his WIVES is actually Igbo(dont know how he was able to do that) and she converted.

same way a Christian man or woman should marry a fellow Christian, I dont see what's wrong in olabowale wanting a fellow muslim as a wife.

Lol this thread should be called Q&A with Osisi   [size=4pt]dont tell me she's the only one on NL with a happy marriage hehe[/size]

why would a woman move into a house with a man cook ,clean and sleep with him without marriage?

While I definitely agree with you osisi, are you saying during courtship with either your ex fiance and current husband, you never did any of this?
would you tell a girl not to cook for her bf or whatever he is or help him with his place, yada yada?

How come you know that much

It's celebration done after Ramadan, alagolo.

Jeez, dont you know any Muslims? Olodo

Funmi, I'd sooner take those kinda churches over Catholic.

Maybe because most people don't wnat people bringing in dirt into their homes with their shoes especially when they have babies/toddlers around? What does religion have to do with that

as for juju and such. hehehe. Hmm what happened to you not judging other churches with rumors?