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TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 6 by kasope(f): 9:41pm On Jun 26, 2019
I actually renewed my visa successfully in January 2019 after childbirth in December 2017.
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This confirms my assertion! there is a vendetta on Nigerians for US visa issuance especially for child birth related cases. I was at the Lagos embassy on the 19th of December for an interview following a 221g refusal due to my hospital zero balance ( story for another post)
My advice will be that you get a hospital that charges nothing less than $10k minus doctors fee and other charges.
During my both interviews, the emphasis was on the amount I paid for the hospital( $5000) despite stressing that I paid my doctor fee and some bills. I even mentioned the amount I spent on accommodation and living expenses but the VO told me it wasn’t her business and kept insisting the hospital bill was ridiculously small.
Note: after my 221g, I emailed my hospital explaining my experience during my interview and a letter stating in details the reason for the discount was sent, tried presenting the letter but the VO refused, insisting it was not a bill and the content was not her business..
The earlier you schedule your interview, the better.
I wish you all the best and pray God touches the VO that interviews you.
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by kasope(f): 8:08pm On Sep 14, 2017
Hello everyone,
This is going to be a long post but I hope someone would learn from it like I have from other posters.
Flew AirFrance, LOS-CDG flight was ok though plane was like 100yrs old undecided
AirFrance 10hrs layover in Paris gave me time to check-in to Yotel (airport hotel) and sleep comfortably.
Nightmare started before boarding CDG-NY flight.
Flight was over booked and 40 people had to be offloaded. Volunteers to go on next flight 3hrs later were requested with a 300Euros compensation.
I eventually took compensation cos the delay would have caused me to miss my NY-ORD local flight and I would have needed to buy a new ticket.
Anyways got to NY around 10pm exhausted and requested a wheelchair. Was wheeled straight to immigration point (no queuing)

POE Conversation
Elderly black man, nice and asked me not to stand up from my chair.
Me: Hello (I smile)
POE: (smiles back) Hello. Can I have your passport? What are you here for?
Me: For holiday and have my baby later in the year
POE: Are you an immigrant?
Me: (Confused) No
POE: Asks me to 10-thumb print and was about to stamp passport
(This is my 4th US visa since 2008 with about 12 US trips so far so figured he didn’t have issues with me)
POE: Ma'am you'll have to go to the office
Me: OK no problem.
Was taken to the office and waited about 3mins
Office POE (Mexican): Looked and me says hello ma'am can you walk?
Me: Definitely
Office POE: Ok pls step forward. He sees me wince as I get up. Smiles condescendingly and says "Lemme guess why are you in America?"
Me: I am on holiday and having my baby later in the year (December)
Office POE: Looks at my passport and say "What did you tell them you were coming to do when you got your visa?"
Me: (knew what he was implying) I got my visa a long time ago (August 2016)
Office POE: That's not what I asked you
Me: Ok I said was coming on holiday. It was my regular dropbox renewal.
Office POE: So why are you using it for something else? (Didn't travel to US last year due forex drama)
Me: Well I am currently here on holiday. Will be going visiting in Chicago, North Carolina and Dallas before going to Houston later next month (I have tickets for all these trips already)
Office POE: Yes but did you inform the consular about that?
Me: Yes but I was told it was not necessary to inform them since I got my visa long before I conceived. (I didn't call but I knew from this forum)
Office POE: Really? They said so? Who did you tell?
Me: The US embassy in Lagos
Office POE: I know…where?
Me: Walter Carrington VI (am slightly annoyed at this point and glare at him)
Office POE: So why can’t you have your baby in Nigeria?
Me: I want the best medical treatment I can get
Office POE: So you don’t have doctors in Nigeria?
Me: We in fact have very good doctors in Nigeria but do not have the best infrastructure. They can only work with what they have
Office POE: Ok so do you have contact with a doctor in the US?
Me: Yes. (hands him my printed correspondence, proof of deposit to gynae and estimated bill doc sent me
Office POE: Why did you pay only $1000?
Me: Because my gynae fees are only about $3000 and I was asked to deposit a minimum of $250. However, the rest of the fees are directly to the hospital who I have contacted already. But due to the hurricane, I have been unable to process any payments as they have bigger emergencies right now.
Office POE: How much do you have?
Me: $12000 right now. $4000 in cash rest in my BOA account (I tried to show him my bank statement)
Office POE: So how do you intend to survive till December?
Me: I am only paying hospital bills and shopping for baby as I am staying with family. However, my husband will send me $xxxx every month extra till December
Office POE: (With sarcasm) and where will all this money come from?
Me: From earnings of course. We work. (I am calm but obviously ticked off at this point)
Office POE: How much do you earn?
Me: Show him husband's payslip and my business profile etc...
Office POE: (barely glancing at it) So you want to spend half of all your earnings on having a baby?
Me: (looks at him incredulously cos I don't know what he was calculating) Half? That is not up to half
Office POE: Ms xxxxx, you are very well spoken and seem to be an intelligent woman. So let’s do the calculations
Me: Yes I am an intelligent woman. I just showed you my husband's payslip and my business docs and that is not up to half plus we have two other businesses which I run (We do the calculation together and he was wrong in saying half)
Office POE: (He asks to see cash and I show him) He pauses and says I am worried that you seem to have come on expedition to America and with no concrete plans about the birth.
Me: I just explained to you why I have not made any full payments. There is a hurricane in Houston which I cannot control. In fact I have made alternative arrangements with McArthur OBGYN in Dallas in case there is an emergency before I get to Houston.
Office POE: My problem is you people… (I interrupt him and say which people?)
Office POE: (He says can you let me finish and I say ok but you need to allow me defend myself too) Foreigners come into the country and don’t pay their bills then become a liability to the US govt. You…
Me: (I cut in) What have I said to make to believe I am one of them? I showed you money and bank statements, documents to prove I have a birth plan with a doctor which you barely looked at. I definitely showed I have more than enough money to pay my bills and I have no records of breaking the law in any of my past trips
Office POE: (he flips through my two passports and see a lot of travel) What is the longest you’ve stayed in the US?
Me: 1 time was 4weeks, all the rest were between 1-3weeks
Office POE: So who is in Chicago, NC, Dallas?
Me: Family
Office POE: So since you know all this, why didn’t you pay for medical insurance?
Me: (Looking confused) Medical insurance? I don’t live or work in the US. How?
Office POE: Yes you can get medical insurance (in retrospect, I now realize he was baiting me)
Me: (at this point I was thinking toh, wo send me back if you want am tired) I honestly don’t know anything about a non-resident paying for medical insurance. You are just giving me new information. I have medical insurance at home and they will cover part of this bill too
Office POE: (he nods at the officer sitting next to him and thumbs up to someone behind me. I guess they had all been watching my body language) Ms xxxx I truly wish you all the best with your baby. I honestly dont mean you any harm. Pls just ensure you do the right thing and pay your bills. (he smiles and stamps my passport)
Me: No problem. I will. Thank you (was too tired to smile back)
Office POE: He gives my passport to dept of agric and they wheel me to another office
Agric officer: How many bags do you have? Do you have food?
Me: 1 bag. Only bouillon cubes. Beef flavor
2nd agric officer: Only one? Are you not Nigerian? No yam, egusi, indomie, dry fish etc
Me: (smiling) none of that. Just bouillon cubes
Agric Officer: Then this would be easy (everyone in the office is cracking jokes with me at this point asking me to stay and gist with them and all)
They scan my bag, give me my passport and wish me all the best with my baby.
The wheelchair guy insisted on taking me to my taxi. Since I had missed my ORD flight, I was sleeping in NY. Gave him a $20 tip for his help (plus he had seen my $4000 earlier, so didn’t want story. As a sharp Lagos girl, I had gone into the toilet and put the envelope inside my sokoto NY at almost midnight abeg I cannot shout). He kept saying God bless you.
Here ends my long, drama filled waka. Sorry it is so long but put in all the details cos it might help someone. Even when the POE officer is being difficult, stand your ground and be confident cos they are trying to break you in case you are being dishonest.
All future preggy travelers, wish you all the best grin
AutosRe: A Clean Registered 2008 Kia Sportage For Sale N1.350m by kasope(f): 11:40pm On Nov 11, 2013
Mileage?
AutosRe: Clean Naija Used Kia Soul 2009 N1.2million SOLD by kasope(f): 10:48pm On Nov 11, 2013
950k?
Does the car have any issues?
Why are you selling it?
AutosRe: Buy Cars from Cotonou without stress and your car(s) will be delivered 48 hours by kasope(f): 1:53pm On Nov 06, 2013
Pls how much is a 2004 primera hatchback?
AutosRe: Very Neat Honda Baby Boy Toks by kasope(f): 9:46pm On Nov 03, 2013
Mileage pls?
AutosRe: SOLD!!! Registered 2004 Honda Civic For Sale N700k Negotiable by kasope(op): 7:23pm On Oct 26, 2013
More pictures

AutosSOLD!!! Registered 2004 Honda Civic For Sale N700k Negotiable by kasope(op):
AC, Automatic transmission
Mileage: 143700
Clean interior and exterior
Resprayed last year June
No VIN bought brand new in Naija
Pls call 08028736502 to inspect in Lagos
It's my car and am buying a new one

PS I don't have access to check here often so pls call or email me for details
kashy885@yahoo.com

AutosRe: BUY OR CLEAR YOUR CARS FROM COTONUO AT REASONABLE PRICE*** by kasope(f): 3:41am On Oct 04, 2013
How much is a 2004 nissan almera pls?
AutosRe: Buy Cars from Cotonou without stress and your car(s) will be delivered 48 hours by kasope(f): 3:24am On Oct 04, 2013
How much can I get a 2004 nissan almera pls?
AutosRe: BUY YOUR SHARP & NEAT CAR(S) FROM COTONOU ( @ THE BEST BET) WITH A LOW MILEAGE... by kasope(f): 10:12pm On Oct 03, 2013
How much is a Nissan Almera 2004 pls?
PropertiesRe: 2let: Decent Mini Flat In OGUDU GRA! by kasope(f): 10:59am On Mar 05, 2013
Is this in Pako or Ramat?
what is the total package?
PropertiesRe: To Let 2brm Flat At Ogudu\ojota 600 New House 2t2b Cal by kasope(f): 8:02am On Mar 01, 2013
Where in Ogudu pls
PropertiesRe: Duplex To Let @ Anthony & Newly Build 4nos Of 3br For Sale @ Ogudu Ori Oke by kasope(f): 7:51am On Mar 01, 2013
Tell me the details here pls. I'll call I'd am interested in what you have
PropertiesRe: EXCLUSIVE......1,2 3, 4 BEDROOMS AND DUPLEXES TO LET IN GBAGADA,ILUPEJU ANTHONY by kasope(f): 7:48am On Mar 01, 2013
The two bed by Gtbank is in what area pls?
PropertiesRe: If U Need A Year Rent In Lagos Mainland by kasope(f): 9:40am On Feb 28, 2013
need a 2-bed in ogudu
PropertiesRe: To Let 3brm Flat At Ogudu\ 350 2t2b Beautiful by kasope(f): 9:40am On Feb 28, 2013
do you have any clean two bed in ori oke?
PropertiesRe: Duplex To Let @ Anthony & Newly Build 4nos Of 3br For Sale @ Ogudu Ori Oke by kasope(f): 9:26am On Feb 28, 2013
do you have any 2-bed to let in ogudu ori oke?
PropertiesRe: 15UNITS GONE IN 1WEEK!!! "Hotel-like" Room Self Contain In Onipan, 150k/1yr. by kasope(f): 12:08pm On Feb 21, 2013
Which part of onipanu pls and i cant see the pics?
PropertiesRe: 4 Bedroom Flat At Ilupeju Estate/office Space In Palmgrove For Letting by kasope(f): 9:31am On Feb 19, 2013
do you have any mini flat or two bedroom in ilupeju area?
PropertiesRe: Good 2 Bedroom Flat And Miniflat To Let In Lagos Mainland by kasope(f): 6:17am On Jan 29, 2013
Is the two-bed on Oyewole street still available? Is there water and parking pls
PropertiesRe: 2let: Mini Flats In Ogudu/ Ojota Axsis by kasope(f): 5:48pm On Jan 25, 2013
where in ojota are the miniflats pls?
PropertiesRe: Alapere Letting & For Sale @ Ketu Call 07084915052. by kasope(f): 5:39pm On Jan 25, 2013
the miniflat is which part of alapere pls?
is there water? and tarred road?
PropertiesRe: Mainland Letting, RSC, Miniflat, Flat Etc 08031955044 by kasope(f): 4:52pm On Jan 25, 2013
3 Bedroom flat 2t 2B at Alhaji Abass Street, Ogudu up 400K/yr for 1yr.
Is this still available? Is there water and parking in the compound?
PropertiesRe: To Let - Room/self, Mini/flat by kasope(f): 7:32pm On Jan 24, 2013
is the miniflat @ ogudu gra (N250k) still available?
is it one year or two years?
PropertiesRe: Affordable Rentals(pix Included) by kasope(f): 10:40pm On Jan 11, 2013
Which part of Ajah are the N260k 1-bedrooms pls?
The 3-bed is inside VGC?
PropertiesRe: Brand New House- 3br Flat All Room Ensuite @ Ogudu 500k by kasope(f): 3:58pm On Jan 06, 2013
Which part of Ogudu pls
PropertiesRe: Various Mini Flat & 2br Flat @ Ogudu GRA by kasope(f): 10:02am On Dec 13, 2012
is the 2 bedroom still available? which part of pako?
AutosRe: SOLD 2008 Registered Camry Hybrid For Quick Sale! by kasope(op): 5:23pm On Nov 02, 2012
still available
AutosRe: SOLD 2008 Registered Camry Hybrid For Quick Sale! by kasope(op): 7:31pm On Oct 30, 2012
1.850M
AutosRe: SOLD 2008 Registered Camry Hybrid For Quick Sale! by kasope(op): 9:00pm On Oct 25, 2012
Still available

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