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nwanneni:
Audio 80%na.
It's 11pm,someone that has 4 kids and brings in the 80% income to take care of them and the household still has the ability to be here to defend her nymphomaniac tendencies.
Tell me,where do you get the energy from huh?
If you truly bring in the 80%,I can only imagine how malnourished those kids will look or perhaps and of course,this claim is bogus and highly false.
80% in monopoly money I guess.

Stay at home moms and lies sef

Stay off my thread. It is really not for clueless and brainless kids

solmusdesigns:
you are truly a kid, i bet if we exchange Instagram id and you see for yourself you would understand you prolly can measure up to my subordinates..

But your rant isnt about me and am not a Lady nor am i a lady so i brought a refrence of similar age who is my sister , so as to prove that you are not only childish but poor mentaly if you think at 32 you shouldnt have 4 kids and be finacially stable

PS: at your age i have succesfully resided in three continents and owned businessesyou are here throwing tantrums based on your underachieving life.. dude read your comments again when the alchohol or drug you took wears off and see how dumb and poor you sounded

Ignore the kid please. Thank you

TheArchangel:
The frustrated buffoons has landed, now the thread will go to the dogs.
@Kathleen, kindly ask this question in either quora or reddit to get reasonable responses.

They won't give heads to their young wives that has birthed their kids but will do so to girls with multiple histories of abortions and unknown body counts with tags of girlfriends. Hilarious.!!!!

Thank you darling, the same jobless fool have been trolling with two accounts. How can someone be this jobless on a faceless forum. Really hilarious � �

nwanneni:
Yes,but you don't fantasise over sex if you are actively engaged,so much so that one is contemplating cheating.Its stay at home moms that do most of the cheating,trust me.
If she is all that you say at 32,trust me she won't have 4 children.
When did she finish school,serve,find a career,build it and have the kids then?
Or if she owns her own business like you might claim,I hope you know it takes even longer and doesn't tolerate excess baggage for someone that wants to succeed in it,especially kids.
Trust me,successful women that can afford to be independent can't have 4 kids at 32.It's a trait reserved for careless street skanks or stay at home moms.
If she is the one providing for the family like you say,make I bend!Provide fire.
She said to me and I quote;did I talk to you about "our" finances?bread winners usually talk in the first person singular.
"Our" is mostly used by dependants.
Defend her all you want,this woman makes no damn income,finish!

I can't stop laughing, such ridiculous analysis. It seems you surround yourself with failures

KanwuliaExtra:
Why not just buy a DOG?
Dogs lick better than humans o.
Especially, at that time of the month.


* i have testified on NL about this in 2007. caused me many yeye aprokoistic holy-mwenje h-enemies on NL ke. all of dem don quench tey tey. muchechecheche *

That is disgusting �

bukatyne:
You must have married a wizard if you expect him to know what you want.

He thinks he is the best because YOUR sexual feedback to him is that he is the best.

IBesides, you said your libido increase after breastfeeding so the normal thing is to tell him that your tastes/desires have changed and X, Y Z would satisfy you.

If he is not good in oral, tell him what to do during MouthAction. Not hard.

Or replicate what you want on him and let him reciprocate.

Go on sex vacations so you can both explore and rediscover yourselves.

If you want to stay happily married, you have to work at it.

I appreciate

MajorWarren:
Anyone who insults you for your husband not meeting your normal sexual needs is a total buffoon. At least you’ve got morals and don’t wish to go through with it.

That said, talk to your husband let him know how you feel. Worst come to worst you could get a toy that does that but that should be as a last resort. He should be doing that for you as y’all husband and wife.

Thank you

younglleo:
As long as am on this thread, there will be no insults.
Send me mail lemme help you out.
But am serious

What kind of help?

healthserve:
The most important thing is what I want to hit on before this thread degenerates into a squabble. And it is take it easy on yourself. Your high moral standards and etiquette along with your principles, beliefs, values and self expectation has placed you on a pedestal where you expect yourself to act in a certain manner and form. So to win this war, you must first and foremost win the battle in your mind. Yes, every thing goor or bad in this instance is in your mind and to end this struggle the battle must first be won in your mind. Hence I recommend this tips:



1. You'll make new resolutions and you'll fail yourselves many times. But be prepared to forgive yourself before you fail. Being able to pick yourself back up and move forward is one of the routines you should embrace enroute your destination to get healing.


2. The mind is the largest sexual organ. Stop feeding your mind with crazy sexual stuff. Infact Place rules on yourself not be participate in anything sexual outside your hubby.



3. After you've forgiven yourself, adopt the belief that marriage isn't all sex sex and sex. And you'll sacrifice what you don't receive but stay contented. Mental contentment is one of the sure ways to deal with mental wandering. To win this war, you must treat yourself with love and kindness and not condemn yourself in anyway however bad, lest through your own cycle of thoughts you slip into being guilt tripped by your mind and loose focus on healing beyond scars



4. Try new things and fill up spare hours. Place yourself in a new fellowship or activity group where you'll use more of your free time to practice. The rule for change has always remained the same and one I recommend to myself many times is to replace a bad habit with many good habits and practice. Spend more time on activities to have your mind filled up.


5. What you feed your mind matters. In place of sexual arousing information, try spiritual affairs so the sector of your mind producing this thoughts would be flooded with light and you can fix the gaps within your walls and have the breech sealed.

God bless you, i really appreciate this. It will go a long way. I sometimes watch Bleep to see where I am they give mouth action. I will try and stop

bukatyne:
Have you communicated with your husband?

Does he know you fantasize about MouthAction?

Does he know you masturbate because you are not satisfied?

What other pleasure do you need apart from MouthAction?

And if you are so proactive that you sorted for a gigolo online not minding the risks, have you applied this same proactivenesd with your husband?

And is your desire to cheat on your husband (have sex with another man) or be more sexually adventurous and satisfied?

If it is the latter, you can switch things up with your proactiveness.

Thank you, i have not heard any discussion with him. He thinks he is the best. He is not really good in MouthAction but the penetration he is good

I have to create another account for this reason, please i need all the advice I can get to save my marriage and sanity.

Recently I have been feeling so Hot after I stopped my baby from breastfeeding. My hubby tries his own possible way to satisfy me but after the sex I will still masturbate to pleasure myself cause I will be fantasizing about someone going down on me with their tongue (I have never experienced that in my entire life) my hubby doesn't do that.

This has made to fantasize about other guys giving me the pleasure I need, i went as far as searching the internet for gigolos and having this fantasy with them on my mind. This is crazy, I even contacted one and we fixed a date (he promised to go down on me really hot with his tongue) but I bluffed it cause I really don't have the courage to cheat on my hubby though I have cheated on him a million times on my head. I can't even imagine doing it physically but the thought is always on my head. I need to stop this and the frequent masturbation before it ruins me.

I need all the advices including insults, maybe the insults will reset my head. I am 32 years with four kids. Thank you