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Snails can sleep for 3 years

Current partner is 18yrs older than me and I am over enjoying the relationship like kilode. Age is just a number o. He knows how to tolerate me.

Skyfornia:
Over possible bro...with 2.5million you can do your marriage, set up shop, rent house and properties in onitsha. Don't go and do pass yourself



Happened to me...I was planning to have a low budget marriage but the lady was telling me that I should consider she is the first child/daughter and need to set example for her younger ones, despite the fact I lost my job that period and the lady wasn't doing anything tangible. That was how we cancelled the marriage...

were there other issues or you cancelled because of this

Galactico4ever:
I knew you'll definitely be back,no suprise there.Whether you're father Abraham or Jeff Bezos,who are you that i can't underestimate youI like being immature sef,bantino can tell you more.Welcome back from your short honeymoon with katier00.

respect is reciprocal, no need to raise more dust on this matter

Galactico4ever:
Some folks here missunderstood things quite easily.Guess what? No one cares

please don't be like that

Ugaboy:
no hard feelings, i wasnt the only one initializing on intruding into u...like i said already there's no any core value intending to know lots about u and also pour d all blames on me.
....u have alligned good point to justify ur claim. It surprising that i didnt say all that u just stated, it only coming from ur heart. I dont know any basic history of u, so why should i drag u over what i dont know, if u cross-examine how we came about this, u should know i've only been teesing u.
the guys did understand, u acted so pain as if im digging u cus one them did mention it.
i never wants us to continue this mess... I felt u feel humiliating with ur response, so i had to apologised, so as to stop the ranting.
ur words cant hurt me. If u do feel hurt over my press. Im still sorry ok.
u dont deserve this treat i brought to u, we startd with fun lets nt end it with beef ma'am.
every woman deserve respect so i owe u one.

you are the one making a big deal out of this. Yes you didn't start it but you continued even when others stopped. The truth is that I am not angry but we should always know when to stop. I respect everybody here and you have not wrong me. So please no need for all these. We should be able to accommodate one another. Welcome back from your vacation. We don't need your absence here okay

Galactico4ever:
The young man saw you as his spec and decided to have a try.He didn't know you were way older than him and i guess we shouldn't blame him.Your profile pic must have turned heads.I like your maturity,but encouraging him on that vacation wasn't 4 d best.

way older? I never said that, I only said the sound of his moniker presents him like a teenager or a guy in his early twenties. Maybe we even fall between same age bracket o. Just a vacation na. I am also considering one myself

Bantino:
ANNOUNCEMENT! ANNOUNCEMENT!! ANNOUNCEMENT!!!

Please leave our Likers Paradise Katier00 alone oooo. I will not mention names, y'all know yourselves.

Peace everywhere.

If I'm big and have a brother, does that make me BIG BROTHER ??

it makes you a bigger brother . Let the fun continue jare

Galactico4ever:
Chai!Who caused this gbas-gbosUgaboy,enjoy The vacation jare.I hope katier00 is not missing you

I only miss those that can stick to the rule of live let's live. Why getting into other people's space to prove a point? Tolerance and mutual respect should be the key to happy life

Ugaboy:
katier00 we are not here for word war...u can put every blame on me. I want to apologise for all and for humiliation we had bring to u.
i dont know how the major clock pointer so fast at me...it is true action and reaction are equal.
i believe we are better than this arguement. We cant be doing this.
just owe me responsible for this, i would've just respect your opinion n frown at it, i just wanted to show concern.
im soooo sorry ok for d pains and humiliations i or we have bring to u.
I WILL TAKE A BREAK,BYE.

you haven't cause me any pain or humiliation, in fact i don't even remember you till I see some of your mentions. what do you take me for, a bitter frustrated woman? Far from it. Just take home this lesson, learn where to draw the lines. Don't nose into things that doesn't add any importance to your life or money to your account. Stop assuming things. You are here painting me as a miserable woman that is clung to her past, a notion I still find very hard to comprehend and at the same time pretending to care. This shows a lot about your personality and how you look down on people because your views differs. Thanks for the break. No hard feelings brother

Ugaboy:
for u to know this, it simply means, u also might be at same age range. Complicatio? That might not mean what she really meant as complicate. projectively, i see something different, i cant really tell exactly, i suggest it's pertaining to her past and not wanting to repeat same situation or ...
greenlight? Pls dont force words of my mind, she know what she want, u guys only makes it look as if im expecting things from her.
i just like her sense humour.
maybe i need give some break on this thread...MY PRIDE HAS BEEN PUNCTURED

which past is this fellow talking about? You have my permission spill it here. You are right, please take a break from this thread. It was fun before you guys that sees people's past and future came into it. I can't have
an opinion on a subject matter without you linking it to a past experience. I just came here to have fun, this is my 14th year as a narialander so I love being here. You guys should not create unnecessary tension in this Paradise.

Ugaboy:
lolz, i dont have time for such either...cus it of no value to me. Also i neither do not have a private life here. It easy to analyse my personality on how i approach situations.
i understand you kate...we also had past, i feel u are still living in the past; deep wound u need someone to nurse. Pls come out of it, they are roses and sweet episodes u can still enjoy. time heals, but with precious lovely people that can wipe the stripes.

now you are getting me sick walahi. Which wound are you talking about? I am trying to get donors for my NGO and the day is too early for this. I bless your day be fruitful.

Ugaboy:
u are not anonymous as u think u are here...and beside she is not seeking for advice over status she just cant start talking about her relationship. She is a woman, they willingly speaks when they needs to.

you don't mean it

Ugaboy:
she might not want to talk about, as a phylosopher by profession. I can read emotions and behaviovr with the xpression of the words. Besides, walls has hears.

you can read emotions? You? Nawa for emotions o

Galactico4ever:
Sorry...Was just pulling your legs my gee.How is you and kate?Any wedding news

now this is funny

Bantino:
^^^^

Na wah oooo

bros talk your mind o abeg. This is democracy

Ugaboy:
hmmm, katier00...im fine and i believe katier00, she doing gracious well.
dont tell me u are suspecting us.

suspect kwa? From your moniker, I imagine you as little boy in his late teens or early twenties. Why would anyone suspect us? I could be wrong though

Galactico4ever:
You don't how to give greenlight to a guy that digs you? What other word should be used then?Well in plain terms,are you single or not?

come on, I know what you meant? The word TAKEN, sounded weird to me. For the records, no. I am not single. There you go again, "dig you" words like that, throws me off balance.

Corbin:
you gotta be kidding me

anything to keep the game going bro

Ugaboy:
and also, legally bond commitment?...i want to read between line(also make logic play here)...i dont know if im permitted to draw few point from my little experience that could establish your reject over marriage, but i might psychological reveal your privacy with just assumptions or preassumptions.

you can o, I don't think I have make my life so private on Nairaland. So go ahead. Do your analysis, so through my posts and make your conclusions if you have the time for such. Life is a teacher and it has taught me a lot of things among which I stated here.

Ugaboy:
maybe u are attached to many activities that is vaguely not given u the awareness that u need some1.
well i will love to give more attention and make myself vulnerable beyond...

I didn't say, I don't need someone. I have a very beautiful relationship and every woman needs a man. I believe in love and life. Just hate complications. Life should be very easy

Ugaboy:
dont mine that guy...troubles is inside his DNA

your trouble pass sef

Ugaboy:
haaaaa!
i see u hate marriage and the challenges within.
every real man will love to pamper his woman expecially if he financialy bouyant.
i guess u are lonely, rite now i have limited views to make...cus the walls has hears

you are wrong, i am far from being lonely just don't want a legally bond commitment. Buoyant or not the primary duty a man owes a woman is love and respect. Every other thing will fall in place

Ugaboy:
it was a typo error, i meant, u will marry a man and not be a man
however, goodevening hidden figure

thanks for your wishes but I don't think I want marriage but of cause I will love to be pampered by a man not to marry one

How much

Galactico4ever:
Don't be bae.The guy obviously likes you and is waiting for greenlight.You should tell him if your heart is already taken by another ;P

greenlight? Do I even know how to do that? Taken? Is that the right word?

Ugaboy:
it is a confusion, without the awareness of the confussion...
i'm just praying for u, "that u will a man"

but I don't want to be a man.

Ugaboy:
i like ur courage katier00, with this strength...i know u will marry a man.

now I am confuse

Ugaboy:
to me nothing is too late learn. Wow, nobody wants to feel left behind, the hustle will surely pay in IJN.
i'm eyeing u already, i hope to be like u when i grow-up.

certainly I don't want to be left behind. The trend now, is being better than me while growing up

Ugaboy:
d time has pass biko, we talk money now.
so how did u spend ur day?

if you have the patience to understand Catholic doctrine then you can understand and practice financial principles. My day went well. Working on attracting some clients to my newly established business

Ugaboy:
wow, i've never attended there b4, i do have the urge to, but those incantation and rituals, i have no idea of.

yeah, I can't teach you doctrines now. You won't understand

Bartork:
This matter yaff enter strong things

Ayaam coming

Lemme borrow who to hold

make the person better like you oooo