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For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 12:10pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Good morning fellow Nairalanders ; trust the day is going on well? Please I need brotherly advice on this . I’m a guy ,28 years and I’m self employed. I have a nice girl I’m dating and my plans is to get married by December, but currently I don’t have much funds because I’m planning on setting up business for her after our trad . Insha allah What I need to know is, is it wise to get married with 4/5 million naira in your account ? I will still rent apartment in the east (2 bedroom and furnish it ) Do trad and all, Please no harsh words. 1 Like |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Nobody: 12:12pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
You can if you really want to, having a small wedding ceremony is the trend now, it'll help cut down cost and save you a lot of money....focus more the building the marriage and the biz you wanna set up for her...it's feasible 4 Likes |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by ShenTeh(m): 12:13pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Uae01Dirham: Don't go and be spending laulau. Draw a very tight budget amongst you two and run with it. N500,000 can't finance a wedding, N5m CAN'T finance one instead. It is your budget/plan that finances your event. Good luck sir. 4 Likes |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 12:18pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Wow! But please can 500k do trad in south east(Enugu state) With the covid and high cost of things? I’m not planning big stuff ; the problem be say I sabi ppl and my guys from abroad go come. But I just wan use my head make I no go broke after trad ! Thank you boss ShenTeh: |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by mutter(f): 12:19pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
It's very important that the girl agrees to a low profile wedding otherwise she might have regrets later in life and feel she is missing out on something. 2 Likes |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Skyfornia(m): 12:19pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Uae01Dirham: Over possible bro...with 2.5million you can do your marriage, set up shop, rent house and properties in onitsha. Don't go and do pass yourself mutter: Happened to me...I was planning to have a low budget marriage but the lady was telling me that I should consider she is the first child/daughter and need to set example for her younger ones, despite the fact I lost my job that period and the lady wasn't doing anything tangible. That was how we cancelled the marriage... 1 Like |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Goldp5988(f): 12:19pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
ShenTeh: 1 Like |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 12:22pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Low cost ? I’m trying to see if I can bring the guests to 150-200 max And it’s a trad , so what should my budget be like? My babe is suggesting for family kinda trad but I wan make my guys come , see of them cos I know they are sure people and at same time , I’m checking how to make the cost to be low . But not too low. Please are you married? Can you help me cost normal average trad . No vex vikkimimi: |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 12:24pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Abeg help your man. So i no go beg for flight ticket or BTA if I wan go back January Na why I need someone that did trad of recent so he/she can just help me run it down . Merci patron! Skyfornia: |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Skyfornia(m): 12:35pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Uae01Dirham: Contact a reliable event planner..tell him/her your budget...and he/she will give you his/her quotation according to your budget. 1 Like |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Amopeekun(f): 12:40pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Your woman wants a family kinda traditional wedding and you want your guys to show!! All the best! 3 Likes |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Munzy14(m): 1:03pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
Uae01Dirham:Are u really sure you want to enter this lifetime project...The picture painted is an economising lady and shoulder high up guy. Those guys of yours will only come for ceremony, and marriage starts after the ceremony. Go and reason with your woman....And plan life according to una clothe being cut to una coat. If u guys accumulate huge funds, years to come you can still do whatever occasion you want to and invite the whole world. For now a medium cost of everything is key, make u get better balance for acct after every every.... Moreover, your woman is not even earning from your story, so dude u are literally going to spend alone for the time till the business u intend to set up for her gets a strong foundation financially to make returns. 4 Likes |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 4:11pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
lol. this bros sef. thank you for the update , Munzy14: |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 4:08pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Uae01Dirham: Should I help you call Lalasticlala so you can get massive opinions about this? |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by thorpido(m): 4:29pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Is your wife from the East,Op?Her family's traditional requirements will determine how much you will spend? |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by bukatyne(f): 4:36pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
mutter: Is this you? Happy new years. |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by angelfallz(m): 4:37pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Uae01Dirham: Why not discuss this with your family and your future wife? |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by bukatyne(f): 4:37pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Skyfornia: Event Planner? Minus 1 if you want a small wedding. |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Skyfornia(m): 4:40pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
bukatyne: Not true...I have a professional reliable event planner in Asaba Delta state who is always ready to work with people's budget. I can boast for him...cause I have used him severally. |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Nobody: 4:42pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
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Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by obisite: 4:56pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Uae01Dirham: You can achieve it, discus with your wife to be.. There is life after wedding.. Its called marriage.. Those who will commend you for having heaven on earth wedding are same people who will mock and condemn you spending all you have for wedding during Marriage.. Plan and spend wisely, you can achieve those plan with what you stated above.. Do necessary traditional rites, cut every form of crowd partying.. Carry your wife go and start life You're a man, do things to please your conscience and finance. 1 Like |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by bukatyne(f): 5:55pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Skyfornia: That is good to hear. He is different from the pack. 1 Like |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 10:01pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Ok boss . It will be very nice . Thank you so much UyaiIncomparabl: |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by frozen70(f): 12:11am On Jul 23, 2020 |
Uae01Dirham: Honestly, you made no sense here or are you telling us how much you have in your account? 1 Like |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Katier00(f): 12:32am On Jul 23, 2020 |
Skyfornia:were there other issues or you cancelled because of this |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Skyfornia(m): 6:53am On Jul 23, 2020 |
Katier00: That's the major issue...what do you expect? I should use my whole savings to do the marriage and hope for a job after marriage? The best decision I did was to invest the money in a business...and I thank God I did. |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 9:41am On Jul 23, 2020 |
the post is not for you or your type . just pass bye and check another post . thank you frozen70: |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 9:44am On Jul 23, 2020 |
lol . you d mean oh !! Skyfornia: |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 9:45am On Jul 23, 2020 |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Skyfornia(m): 10:03am On Jul 23, 2020 |
Uae01Dirham: Seriously...I don't know what anyone would have expected me to do. |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Newbreed2018: 10:34am On Jul 23, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl:U don hear money u don use style quote am. Small time na u go send pm. Thats how u did it to GreatResearcher/GreatResearcher1 and married him fraudulently. |
Re: For Older And Married Couples ; Please Kindly Assist by Uae01Dirham: 10:44am On Jul 23, 2020 |
lol. i resemble mugu for your eye ? if he is one of them , then i be pure bad market for him. Newbreed2018: |
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