Pls tell him that even the Bible said..... And I quote..... "In the latter days, false prophets shall abound" and the Bible advised us not to be decieved
After the 2023 election, I decided I will Never go to any rccg church again, even though I was a member at the time.... Some of the reasons has been highlighted by these young man. God bless you Alex for standing on the foundation of truth...
Most Nigerian pastors, including those in the high and mighty will go to hell.... No be curse
I need genuine opinions on a relationship dilemma.
My younger sister is 31 years old. She's highly educated with a master's degree, works with an NGO as a Programme Coordinator and Mental Health Counselor, and is also a skilled fashion designer with equipment worth over ₦2 million. She's hardworking, focused, and has consistently supported our family. Her job has taken her across different states, exposing her to diverse experiences and opportunities. Above all, she's deeply committed to her Christian faith.
She recently met a fellow church brother who has expressed serious interest in marrying her. However, he left school after Primary Six and works as a traditional window louvre fabricator. While there's absolutely nothing wrong with learning a trade, he has had opportunities to upgrade his skills to modern aluminium fabrication but hasn't pursued them. Instead, he seems more interested in becoming a pastor or working in a church, though he currently has no clear or realistic path to achieving that.
Another concern is the family dynamic. My mother and the young man's mother serve in the same church unit. On several occasions, whenever he goes out for a job, his mother would call him back or redirect him for other errands, and she would even mention these things to my mother. This has given us the impression that she relies heavily on him, raising concerns about the level of responsibility he already carries within his family and how that might affect his future marriage.
My mother strongly opposes the relationship, believing the gap in education, career progression, ambition, life direction, and even family expectations is too significant. I understand her concerns and tend to agree, but it also raises an important question.
Can love alone sustain a marriage when there's such a wide difference in education, ambition, exposure, career growth, and family responsibilities? Or should long-term compatibility, shared vision, emotional maturity, and the ability to build a stable future together carry more weight than love?
I'd genuinely appreciate respectful and honest opinions from both married and unmarried people. Please keep the discussion civil and objective—this isn't about looking down on anyone because of their educational background or occupation, but about understanding what truly makes a marriage work in the long run.
Let me give you a good advice to give to your sister, if she mistakenly agrees to marry that guy, she is doomed for life, better she waits on the Lord or marries Jesus than marry someone that will send her to her early grave, she will not be happy in that marriage. Also, love alone can not sustain a marriage, so many factors are involved and should be in the mix for a marriage to work and eventually last till death does the partners in that marriage apart
See as yarimo and co quickly rush come first page immediately they heard it's P.O talking, but, when it's about the failure of their principal especially on security, they will all hide like cockroaches that saw light..... They love darkness and do truly have dark minds/hearts
Daily, with all these via speech, I am loosing respect for this man, it's very unfortunate that h can be this insensitive, it has actually shown the whole world the kind of person he is......
I decided in 2023 after the rigged elections that I will never be a member of RCCG again, and will never be..... Just because if this man.
Bigsin: I posted a picture of my dog that was looking for a boyfriend and the post made front page. However, Verywickedman's comment sent cold shivers down my dog's spine and now she's depressed. She's not an ekuke, everyone. She's a half cast.
Anyhoo, she's currently on heat and is still in need of a nuclear weapon that can give her babies. If you have a big male dog but don't want babies, don't be heartless by depriving a city girl some.
She'll take care of all the babies and won't ask for child support.
babastanlolo: we can not in reality, because it is unlawful to carry arm. That is why we have a structured society( In quote) for the government to provide such services, which mainly is the protection of lives and property. I wonder, I just wonder how these people in leadership sees this kind of news and go to bed at night, wakes up and go about their normal activities as if this is normal. That is not even the most painful thing, but knowing that there are people (sane people) that will still come out to defend this ineptitude and only concern in attacking opposition is the most disturbing issue. Because this keep false validation to the government to know that some idiots will still stand and kill themselves to them, despite their failure. It is indeed pathetic what religion, tribalism and bigotry has caused the nation.
yinkus6750: They will come and start blaming the first lady now. There are policies and procedures for doing things. Imagine preparing akara in an unhygienic environment. By the road side, and beside an open major drainage. No show glass to put the akara. Follow and obey the rules, and nobody will seize your items.
Why did the govt. Not make everywhere in the state hygienic?
You tell them to go and sell akara, you come to size their utensils, and tell them it's because the environment is unhygienic, a part you are supposed to play....
Very insensitive APC govt. Very wicked set of people
TruthHurts1: Her name was Janet Dairo, an NYSC service member. She left Akure on June 1 to Kwara State University to sort out an academic document.
She boarded a bus, expecting to get to her destination and continue with her life, instead, she was k!dnapped by band!ts.
If this doesn't awaken something in you, then you're dead inside.
Kpankpangolo, are you now satisfied with the information you have reviewed now, imagine you are the father of this girl....
Imagine such happened to any of your children
You will still continue following your president, as insensitive as he is, cos you portray such attitudes
My daily prayer is, Sy the insecurity happening in this country befall on those that created and foisted it on this country, including their supporters, may it destroy them all
Despite the energy challenges they are experiencing, they still had to waste electricity to power a microphone for Peter!
Is it that they do not have top priorities other than listening to the fictions they are being told.
Moreover, Peter should reduce his carbon footprint . Burning aviation fuel across the globe still won’t make you win! Your defeat is already a constant.
I see your pain, but, I don't want to feel it, your papa, your full generation can never be Quarter the man Obi is today, also, The EU had to prioritise OBI because they have no choice, and because, you all prioritise him even on your hatred, also, you can not pay his flight tickets, so go and Sidon and cry for your pity life and that of your born and unborn generation
rickpat: From your story..I feel you had very high expectations going into the union,dont get me wrong every "next level" in life should come with expectations but not very high expectations,one step at a time should be better...
Secondly,your husband shouldn't have said you guys will have a big wedding party later on when he knows its not going to happen or under probability, knowing fully well how you love to have a glamour wedding...a man that can't keep his word,would be seen in a certain way...
Thirdly,for you to make.sacrifices means you love the man and you should focus on that,reduce expectations and let the sacrifices you made to be with him,forever be a sacrifice(let go of the things he promised and can't/ not giving at the moment.
Finally,this is your part,what about your husband's part of the story,how he feels,what he wants,how he sees you,the sacrifices he has made as well? In marriage no matter how beautiful, you must make sacrifices, even if it's as little as "switching off" the light to sleep when all your life you sleep with the light switched on.... Compromise is the key...no perfect person,no perfect marriage...