hawksford:



You see that Whatsapp thingy ehn, I just got delivered, now I chat regularly, there was a time getting on whatsapp gave me anxiety, I once had over 26k messages

I choose when to pick calls too, lol, that shit is somehow... I'd see a call from someone and just decide I don't want to pick it at the moment, na me go still use my credit call them back o (but it's been way better lately)


Before I was not used to missing people, but now I do,


See, I think this thing is really about challenging yourself to get better and to feel emotions and stuff... It's like a conscious decision to do... However, no matter how much you try you can't change your introversion/extroversion status, you can only improve it, really.



Looking back at over a decade ago, I know I'm far, f**ing better!!! It was a conscious will however

Chrisx1x:
Sometimes it sucks being an introvert. There are a whole lot of things i wished i have done. Sometimes i shut the world out. i find it hard to relate with people and that has affected me.sometimes i discover that a whole lot of things have passed me by simply because i didn't interact with people . I just have to accept the fact that i am different from the world.

spongeisback:
You didn't even read the OP before quoting me. He isn't after his rights as a father, he wants the boy to be given to him. No competent court/judge will grant his request as long as the boy is being well taken care of by his mother.

spongeisback:
Did you read his post or you just rushed to quote me?

otobasin2323:

Good day nairalanders, ( pls ignore my errors, I am not good in typing ) I had a baby with one lady from rivers state(ex girlfriend) and I am from imo state, the baby turns out to be a boy he is 2 years old now. The lady lived with me during her pregnancy and also Gave birth under my roof.. 9months after giving birth, we started having issue. Based on am not well to do.. Cause my hustle ain't paying off. She left the house with my son. Later on she and her family found a man who has been married for so long but no child.. But the man is very wealthy and well to do in the society, the man is also from their town in rivers state ,she agreed to be the second wife so he can claim the child.

on hearing this I rejected it and met with her family so they can release my son to me and she can go ahead and marry whom ever she likes.. To my greatest suprise they all decline to my request but gave her full support that she should go ahead quoting me that in their tradition "any man that marries a lady that is with a child the child automatically answers the man's name"

With this statement it got me sad, angry cause I love my son with all my heart I don't want another man to father him.. Every month I Normally send her 15k for keep up my son... She ain't satisfied.. That am too poor for her liking... How do I take her to court the only documents I have here.. Is my sons birth certificate, his pictures with me. And all the receipt of the money I normally sent to her monthly... Pls I seriously need advice or suggestions. Thank you

spongeisback:
Traditionally the boy doesn't belong to you. Even if you go to court they would never ever ever grant you custody of that child. Sorry.