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explorer001: I notice most marriages these days are triggered by the fact that the bride is pregnant, hence the need to plan an urgent wedding. I really don't have anything against it. But some people seem to frown at such practice. What are your views?

Most marry with I miss my period church says no abortion or if I do I will die are ladies who are either desperate or have seen a thing in the guy do want such marriages always crack or experience ups and down every now and then

francafrank: The questions are
1. Do you believe in the curses, rituals etc
2. Do you still love her after all?

I don't believe in the curse but for a woman u marry with ur money when it was good she spends foreign currency mostly flaunting with wealth to swear that his man will regrat his mother gave birth to him he will beg to eat and truly its happening and now a second one that I will regret till I die ha u need to run for your life if she's not a witch some enemies are using her as a lady if am your brother older or younger what will u advise me

ammyluv2002: I really don't the gist sha but I think , she needs to grow up...for how long will she continue to swear? For goodness sake, marriage is not a bed of roses! On the other hand, wetin you do her? Cause she won't just swear unclad if the gravity of your offence is mild these things are very powerful so you need to beg her to undo whatever she might have said during the process. If you don't have Christ in you, dont be surprised if your life gets worst! Curses are no joke especially when the person doing the stuff is not guilty and with a heavy heart.


Btw, if you don't love a girl to the extent of making her your wife then don't sleep with her, is really annoying. Let her be and look for someone you love!

I did nothing than a slap I gave her for calling my mum a witch and that she's responsible for my issues,however note while single things were rousing till we got marriage till date I can't say I have reasaon to smile other than am alive some men beat up their messlessly am not in support but she kept insulting my mum

Fellow Good NL pls before u comment think passionate inside first as this is a serious matter.
Back in 2008 I was a big boy single then with lots of babes however to cut all story short one got pregnant and decided to do introduction after much pressure from her on the base that because I was not fully based in nigeria I might not come back for her though I love her then but I don't think I would have settled for her as a wife. Things suddenly became tough I mean tough that I lost my business and was unable to raise cash to travel we bless with kids. But as a hustler I believe I will be back on my feet. U want hear more ......We had a fight (me and my wife) just recently and she said all sort of thing and for a second time she went un clad and was swearing as someone from where culture is practice shld we just settle and put family out of it even though both families are involved already with some saying she must perform some rites other saying we should pray over it as it stands now can I let her into my home without any of these cos she ran out with our kids. I stop for now pls be constructive and mature as this has to do with a fellow NL marriage,life and happiness. I need advice pls

In orogun in delta state if u kill an iguana will do burial rite like its a human

Between BBM and whatsapp which is likely to gain more recognition soon, I as a bbm user I think whatsapp will soon be the talk of the town cos its easily accessible by all inrespective of your mobile phone so long as it got GPRS. Am foreseeing bad market for BB in a year to come whatsapp just just a little upgrade the only difference is the unique pin number,however whatsapp is unique in its own way either ur phone number or name disadvantage been that any one call call u but there is a solution use a number u won't put on your mobile so u can only strictly chat all calls to that number goes off. Get your take on this issue. Which will be talk of the town in a year?