hey guys. hope u all got the ladies screaming out loud. lol.i got some issues oo. met this gal last yr and things were moving all well, though i got to know she had a guy shes been dating for like 3 yrs now, i ddnt let it get to me. things still moving on well. the guy has met me at the girls place 2wice. last semester and this semester,both at night like 10 pm. after the last meeting, the gal told me to stop coming to her place in the night as she could see that the guy ddnt like that though the guy didnt spell it out, and that the guy thinks that we are dating.as for example, whenever she tells him shes going to town with someone, the guys asks her that is she going with me? though we kiss and smooch , we not dating.i like the gal.but i am not sure if i really wnt her as a gf or not.because i am the jealous type and her character and my level of jealousy can start a holy war.lol. though i wish she was mine, i dont want her to be mine. i no enter the paradise which i want to badly. how do i go about it. as right now she want protect her relationship with the guy and me wanting to enter her paradise.i met her not quite long, but i have managed to become 2nd to her guy as most of her friends even think she has two guys. i and that dude. lol. i dont know how to proceed, what to do, should i back off or should i persist? and if i am to persist, what steps should i take to get to her paradise even if it would mean taking her from the other guy.how can i take her mind off that guy and turn it towards me. or have i been friendzoned?waiting for suggestions.

Guys how far.the babe start dey do shakara. I was supposed to meet her yesternight.wey she agree but the time we agreed on, but at that time her phone was off till like 10 minutes after the proposed time we'd meet each other for. And i had sent her a text earlier when i realized her phone was off. Well she didn't Reply until an hour time, then she sent me.a text that she went out with a friend. And she also canceled an appointment i had with her on Saturday.that she had to go see a sister at her auntys house. Sounds normal. But this reaction all of a sudden? I want carry am go house oooo. What i for do?

Guys a little problem just came up. She not replying me no more not picking my calls. And i noticed that, when i used a picture i took with a very pretty lady at the airport for my whatsapp profile picture.and that of the artiste. Could she be.jealous over me not using any of the pictures i took with her for my whatsapp profile pictures?As her internet.was off the whole of yesterday. This little things started when she switched her internet on. Cox i haven't even used one of the pictures i have with her. And i told her in the afternoon that I'd call her in the evening. Well i did but no Reply. She was online on whatsapp still no reply.do you think i should use the pictures with her as profile picture ? Well she hasn't used the pictures as her profile picture either. And do you think the problem is from this picture thing? Or maybe something else. Cox we ended our last convo on a very good note.

Guys thanks alot. Things are really moving on well between us. We even took some sweet pictures yesterday at stonebwoys program.she was so happy around me, and comfortable with me holding her intimately infront of so many people.That was the second time we had met.the first time was when i took her number. What move should i make next. I haven't proposed to her though. Just building rapport. What step do you think i should take next. I don't wanna mess up. Besides you guys helped me get this far. She's pretty and has this ass that makes me go gaga. Lol.

Thanks man

Bro we were chatting today and i dropped the hey you seem fun today............ama call you now.....line. And she was like " with friends", "sorry bf" , bf and friends. " so i told her "then when i get a less busy time during the day I'd call her up" and switched the topic to something about music. How do i go about she has this bf saga. I have made out with several ladies with serious bfs. But as i said earlier, when i really like a girl i just mess up. Any idea how to handle it, besides knowledge isn't with one person. Thanks man for all you've done so far.

Bro. After a while of texting back and forth, i.told her i got a project i have been working on all day and i got to get back to it as i want to finish it tonight. and I'd call her tomorrow. She was like " oh ok", sound studies then, good night." And i was like "thanks Gn" What do you think ?

Bro i whatsapp the girl. i used the hey girl think you're you're a bit shy and trying to take things cool line.it worked. And subsequently in after a few tenses exchanged, i dropped her the line of seeing her smile over a table of you. And i got an affirmative. Seems things are moving well. I'll keep you posted. I'm a living prove that you're a genius.thanks bro

Thanks man

Ok I'll take the leap of faith then

Ok bro. I'll take the leap of faith

Ok. But i didn't get the chance to even say a word. As i was about talking, she cut the Call. So what do i do now. Should i text her or call her or go search for her class.and from my previous message does anything look like she's interested? I always mess up when i really like a girl. So what do i do next. She's on whatsapp but i haven't sent her a text

Hello teddy. Great work kudos to you man. I really need your help on this. I met this girl at a school program and asked her to help me with a suggestion on getting a birthday gift for a friend (just to get a convo started) after complimenting on her hair style.well she gave me an idea and we had a little chat. I asked for her phone number and she accepted giving me her phone number ok.but my phone was off.so i decided she should write it on my the end of my sleeve. She took a pen out of her bag and did that. We hugged later on and went ways after the goodbyes. I called her the following day in the afternoon. And after introducing myself, she said oh ok. And asked me that " so what do you want to tell me". And after that, she ended the call. I tried her line immediately but no answer. I tried it in about 10 minutes time as i thought maybe she was busy but still no reply. I haven't contacted her again for close to 5 days now. I'm so confused about her reaction and i don't know what to do. What buffles me is that she even told me the department she was in and told me to come to her class on Monday.so that we could talk about the birthday gift i wanted to get for my friend. And also, we starred at each other from the beginning of the program to almost the end of which i.mastered courage to approach her.I'm so confused right now. Please do help me out. Cox i really
want this girl to be mine.