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@ abinton, yu rock, am checkin out d link already,

@ fifi09, yur advice is really intense and i appreciate it, thx

@ y, all. i really wanna appreciate and thank yu all, i only pray that while taking the break i wouldnt loose him, hugs to y,all

@ labiyemmy, thx so much, we have sat down so many times to talk but cant find the problem, it all seems like a change in character and attitude, we even discussed seeing a therapist here in nigeria but i cant locate any as much as i have googled, i dont know wat to do cos as much as i am confused he is confused, there was a certain time i felt no love or feeling in my heart for him and it troubled me for a week and he was worried cos i wasnt calling as before, after dat week the love bounced back just like that. it was scary, i guess its happening to him now and he is confused, do yu know any therapist we may visit in nigeria?

@ abinton, thanks, am trying to be patient as well but i cant stay and do nuffink, like i earlier asked if yu know where we can go for therapy, pls recommend, i would be most grateful cos i dont wanna loose "US'.

Hi Peeps,

Am getting really borthered bout this and i need a honest and sincere opinion,  I have been dating this guy for more than a year now and we plan on settling down together foreva.  Recently, the relationship has been in ups and downs with  lot of changes, we call each other as much as possible and wanna make things work again as before but as much as we try there is always one issue or the other or odawise the togetherness is breakin up which is making us drift apart,  honestly i love this guy so much and am ready to start afresh if that would solve it and i wanna believe he loves me,

Yesterday he called to tell me he is still very much interested in the whole affair and loves me but he doesnt know what is wrong with him, he says its not another lady or his bizness (cos if it was he would have been able to identify his problems ) but he cant explain why he is not just himself in this relationship,  he wants me to give him time to figure this tru and he prays everything works out for us,

Now my question,  y would he love me so much and want us bac as before and still be in a confused state of mind, as to why he is not himself in the relationship, ?