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so sad,

Hello All,
Please I need your advice, I have been married for ten years now. My wife is usually the type that gets angry over anything. the first two years was manageable, I have been hoping things will change. It has been a real challenge to me and the three kids. My wife is always angry, the anger is getting too much. I have tried everything possible to make her calm down, but nothing works, she gets angry over anything possible, few things make her happy, the only thing that gives her joy is to be independent, and be in charge of everything that happens in the house and every where, because of this she is at logger head with all her friends, old and new. also this has made to be at logger head with her family members who try to correct her.. THE ONLY WAY I ENSURE PEACE IS JUST TO ALLOW HER HAVE HER WAY AN all issues. I have told her family members, but they did there their best and she would have none of it, presently her brother has told me to do what ever I think to have peace in my life. He sent me a message to let me know that as for him, he can not tolerate that behavior from any woman. I have begged I have used force I have prayed. The last three years have been hell. The sad part is that I have asked her several times what the problem is she does not just speak with me, we literally leave as strangers in same house. My presence seemed to be annoying her. Sex is dead.
Of recent, I am having this thought that perhaps I should allow her go so that she can enjoy the rest of life.

*She is not the bread winner, but if we separate she will have no problem as the government will provide everything for her and the kids.

Please I need your humble suggestions.