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Family / Re: TWO Years In Marriage!!! The Feeling, The Realization And Surprise. by kelzmaniga: 3:21pm On Oct 20, 2014
mk3jax:


Well I have a similar issue with my wife. She was miss perfect agreeing to everything I want when she was looking for marriage and after marriage, her real self started to manifest. First it was constant complain about my family for no reason, then she graduated to wanting to control my life and determine who I am to give money or not and where I can and cannot go. She complains about everything and never appreciating anything I do. I provide all the financial need of the house 100% yet she want me to take care of her parent and siblings(both married and single ones) like i am their father and every time I refuse to send them money it is quarrel. She also expect me to praise her for almost everything she does like I demand same praise for putting her under a roof, paying all the bills, feeding her and our child and making her as comfortable as possible.
She bitches about everything I do making me feel like i am a child that doesn't have a sense of making my own decision despite being very successful in my career and handling lots of real life responsibilities that she can never imagine doing.
After the birth of our child, she turned to something else which in turn made me to make up my mind that I will never have a second child. She has time to watch all her tv programs to make herself happy but as soon as I pick my remote to play a game despite working from morning to night while she sits at home, she complains and I have over time disregarded her complains and do what I want to do to make myself happy. I have just one life to live and being married to someone doesn't gives them a control over my life and if you don't want to stay married to me again, then get the fu.c.k out of my life and go take care of yourself. I almost divorced her sometime ago but just decided to calm down. I hope we do not separate because of my love for our child but if we have to, then so be it because I will not live a life of a prisoner because of a child.
bros your wife is just reacting to just the way you treat her. check your self properly if you are doing the right thing /treating her well........
buy another TV women don't like and cant stand watching video game
Family / Re: My Dad Still Beats My Mum After 24 Yrs Marriage by kelzmaniga: 1:03pm On Sep 13, 2014
bizzybii: my house is always on fire wt quarells, my parents still fight till 2moro, he still beats her embarassed embarassed no one seems to listen to advice, they hv been married for over 20 yrs and the kind of things that make them fight is amazing. they are not setting good examples for us

please how do i handle this
My dear I also grew up in an abusive environment where my mum and dad were always fighting my parents re 29years in marriage and my dad beat my mum 2 years ago if I am not mistaking. My best advise to you is to pray about it. that is the only weapon to defeat this situation my siblings and I tried it and it is working perfectly for us. Just tell it to God pour out your heart he would help you trust me.
Family / Re: My Dad Still Beats My Mum After 24 Yrs Marriage by kelzmaniga: 1:00pm On Sep 13, 2014
sayso: sorry but I think your mum is a stubborn woman
Mr man for making this statement may all your daughters marry men that would abuse them physically beat them frequently then your eye would clear. every man in his right thinking senses knows that it is absolutely wrong to beat a woman no matter what she does. if u know u are thirsty for blows and punches why not visit one of those boxing rings lets see who d man is in the ring. Nonsense

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Fashion / Ladies Should I Use This Skin Care Product Or Not? by kelzmaniga: 12:26pm On Sep 12, 2014
Ladies in the house I want to know if I should go ahead and buy skin enhancement product from one FAB EMPIRE SKIN CARE, I really have a terrible skin and I want to enhance my complexion and skin glow. please has any body in the house used any product from this company or any other suggestions as to what enhances skin glow. thank you

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