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rozzay: God forbid

Ah! Ah! Is it that bad?

mariannlove: Still hopingg to find my frst love

I hope you do dear

eph12: If I hear

If you hear what

Can see most of you are practically derailing this thread already. I asked for matured contribution pls...

@Fijiano202, Thanks. I swear, I'm so touched by these advice. It just relieved me from somethings now. Although I couldn't say everything there because I'm still going through my decision already and the confusion is written all over me.

I've been meaning to bring this up but I just wanted to avoid critics and judgements, but no one is perfect and we are entitled to make mistakes.

Anyways here it is, I met my guy about 4yrs ago, and he is the man I've ever loved and ever been free with, in fact my first serious relationship is with him.

But along the line we do have issues of trust, so we have sillies of altercations, but that didn't end the relationship, rather we make up, thereby discussing about the issue. He had even hit me out of jealousy and had apologized countless times but it's quite hard to let go that scenario and I've done worse things too, but we still end up forgiving ourselves and continue.

We had problem that led us not communicating for months, within those months I even got into a relationship with another guy but a platonic one. So we met ourselves again(me and bf), i told him how those months had been for me, how i got into another relationship, but he forgave me and accepted me back, likewise me.
I'm just still curious, if anyone has been in my shoes or worse and it ended up well because most times I still get confused how mine might end up.
Pls Pls just matured minds and answers are welcomed here. Thanks