SPOLO:


so this why my dick do refuse to stand with my bae bcus her ass is so small, she is slim though with average boobs but it seems am not sexually attracted to her..

And reason is my ex got big ass and bwess in fact just seeing her then do give me hard on but now when i met this girl i thought i had erection problm but whenever i managed to sex her i don't cum and she is boring in bed ,to make matter worse she doesnt like kissing,romance..

So the 3 times i manage to have erection i went on till she was tired and i didnt cum except i force her to give me BJ.

Now we aint in good terms and am happy.

So sir the best thing is to let her go and pls stop taking sex enhancing drug that shiit is bad...pls

if u end up marrying her u will surely cheat on her

I was starting to think that I am the only one with this problem, thank God for this comment.

Ariza:
Dear Op, you don't have to feel bad that you don't find her sexually attractive. It isn't your fault and wouldn't be if you let her go because of this so don't let anyone guilt-trip you into believing you are devilish. Although I would have preferred you had opened up to her before getting down with her. If you had, she might have suggested you use the Vega, that way she wouldn't feel used and dumped. Next time learn to open up and talk, it's not every time you have to take charge of things because you are a MAN. some come back to hurt. Learn to talk.

My advice : Talk to your woman, reach an agreement. If you can compromise to keep such good woman, fine. If not please split up mutually, and the earlier the better.

BTW I wonder why you aren't attracted to her though, We slim ladies rock!

Thanks for this.

She didn't request I used Vega. I did that without her knowledge, since we have tried fruitlessly before to have sex, and she was becoming worried over our lack of sex.

I would let her be, I know fully well that there are lots of men rushing on her, it should be easy for her to move on.

oyindamex:

Don't leap before you look. I don't have anything to say to you but I advise you let her go for another person who would appreciate her for who she is and what she looks like

Thanks. This is what I am seriously considering.

Davash222:

Just stop please!
So, you fancy boobs and ass over intelligence?

You guys seem to miss the whole point. It is not about whether intelligence is good or bad, it's due to the fact that intelligence alone cannot get me hard.
It's not like I have control over my sex drive, or what I am sexually attracted to.

2dice01:
So its big bootie and boobs that makes you hard goan and find and stop wasting her time

What makes me hard is Good looks and Brilliance

Different strokes for different folks

You can also get her Apetamin Syr its a multivitamin that will make her add weight

Thanks.

Davash222:
I actually noticed that this lady was thin before dating her, but I never imagined it was this bad, she has no boobs, my ass is bigger than her's, if she inhales deeply, I could see her ribs, but I never knew this would turn out to be much of a problem. I am sexually attracted to chubby people, but




Werey!
All of a sudden, she has no boobs.
All of a sudden, your ass is bigger than her's.

So, you didn't noticed all these before you collect number since you are sexually attracted to chubby girls?

I didn't notice her features before I collected her digits, and when I noticed her thin stature, she was putting on clothes and I never knew it would be hard getting my manliness to stand for her, it can happen to anyone, don't judge.

ajasbaba:
story story

you cant like your chicken soo much and say it wont end up in the pot.

if e no end up for ur pot e go end up for somebody else pot.

I want to pretend I know what you are talking about, but I don't.

I created this account just for this, I am an old member of Nairaland.
I am in a sort of delimma. Have you ever fallen in love with someone you are not sexually attracted to? Here is my story.

I saw this lady for the first time last year we met in my place of work. She has a face that I can consider to be more beautiful than Rhianna's and I am not exaggerating.

When I saw her, I was instantly awe struck, was looking at her like a fool, all the time wandering how one person has all this beauty in her, a lot of ladies working there actually noticed what was happening, and one of them felt it to embarrass me. She asked, did you come here to look, or you came for something?
Instantly, I remembered that my boss actually sent me there to get stuff. I moved to her (the pretty girls) table and decided to get the thing there since all of them actually had what I wanted, I introduced myself, told her I was new and requested for her number, she gave me.

From there, I kicked things off, called her, and she was coperative to say the least. She actually found me attractive, and that worked in my favor. Due to mutual attraction, things really sped off so fast, then we started dating.

I noticed that a lot of rich people were coming for her hand in marriage, I have seen a lot of whatsapp chats with men I feel like I can't even measure up to, but she says that she wants me, and we can actually start a quite comfortable family with our salaries, it's a good pay, and we are both just starting.

The problem :

Due to the fact that a lot of people were coming for her, and also, I don't want her to feel like I am wasting her time, I decided that it's best we cohabit a little so to ascertain if we would be compatible. We moved in together, Feb. this year, and we were together till mid March when I traveled to my parents and got held by the pandemic.

I actually noticed that this lady was thin before dating her, but I never imagined it was this bad, she has no boobs, my ass is bigger than her's, if she inhales deeply, I could see her ribs, but I never knew this would turn out to be much of a problem. I am sexually attracted to chubby people, but I thought I should compromise based on her facial beauty, height and personality (which is superb for a lady this beautiful).

Well, since we are cohabiting, she got all comfy and goes around the room naked, first time I saw her naked, I think my d.ick actually shrank. Due to much pressure from her, I resorted to taking Vega any time I wanted to do things to her. We have done this on 3 different occasions, and I know how long it takes me to cum, and instead of it getting better with time, it gets worse.

She's a bit anorexic, obsessed with not getting fat, would never eat any good food past 8pm. She always tells me how proud she is of her flat tummy, I would fake smile at her, while hidding the pain in me.
She's got her mum's physic, the woman still looks thin even at her age, and after giving birth to so many Children.

I am very confused about the whole thing, this is my first time actually being in love, also with a queen, and yet somehow have this problem to contend with.
Please, what should I do?

And before you ask;
I don't masturbate, never done it.
I still get erections some mornings and when I see some big booties.
Up until January this year, I have been naking, and if you asked me then, I would have told you that erectyle dysfunction is not real.