Some of us are very ignorant and we make blind argument. The ugly osu system is very much in existence even though nobody will come out publicly and say it. Branding a fellow human being an osu is not only barbaric but ungodly. I am a full bred igboman a diala for that but I am strongly and vehemently opposing this satanic osu issue.
Our forefathers started this practice out of utter ignorance. It wasn't like this when Igbo people started their lives. The founders of igbo ethnic group did not have osu in their mist. This barbaric system was brought into existent by somebody and it will surely be ended by somebody too. It will be recalled that osu system is not only tradition that was seen as abomination "aru". Killing of twins was also one of them. In today's world one should be thinking of how to advance further and not holding on on some barbaric practice that is rooted deeply in paganism. If we say we are Christian then let us live like a Christian and not half Christian and half pagan.
Normally if we are to follow the issue properly, being in contact with an osu in whichever manner makes u automatically an osu. Now how can we interact with them and refuse to marry them. Are we not deceiving ourselves by doing so. In otherwords we modified the system to suit us or serve our purpose. What a height of self deception!
Most annoying part of it is that even the elites among the dialas are in support of this barbaric system.
Anyway the first black president of America emerged after three hundred and something years. We should not forget that blacks were also stigmatised like osu back in those dark days. They were giving such names as niggers, black monkeys,savages etc just like an osu. But today it is a serious crime for a white man to call a blackman nigger. We are not better than Americans or more civilised than them. Let us not delude ourselves.
If the love of my life happens to be an osu so be it. Time has passed when parents have strong hold in the matters of marriage. Parents should be more concerned on the happiness and love for their children and not enforce some olden days rules upon their children. People should marry cos of love and not cos Of parents desires. cos that is the main cos of many broken homes today. I am so surprise that many people are so blind to se see this.
Funny enof if u ask somebody why do u rejects osu? He will not be able to say a meaningful thing.
Therefore I am calling on all igbos to come out with one voice and denounce this issue.

O'boy you'd be surprised how many guys are indeed into that very thing it's called phone intimacy
If u are turned on by just listenin to ur own voice,u need a check up from neck up, cos u are not normal.phone intimacy is far from it my dear.
But my sincere thanks to u for ur advice,l really appreciated it.I ll give it a trial.
@omo eko
the problem with u is that u dont seem to know much abt phone softwares,if u are in doubt here is the tips,
if ur phone is equiped with application installer,then try and go to people that downloads these softwares into phones,they'll give u whatever u want ,u can aswell ask of call recorder.
@all my real guys out there,
I've already uninstalled the software
My gal promised to listen to me but she said it's not a guarantee
I'm goin to follow ur tips IBDat.U seems to have acquired a PhD in things of this nature.Wish me luck my guy,,,,cos I love that gal

Well he want to listen to it when his masturbating

From studies,it was proved that guys get turned on by what they see and not by what they hear thats why u get hard when u see a half dressed lady,but if u masturbate just b/c u listen to a female and perhaps ur own voice,then i think u are abnormal, shi ke nan.

@cute ass
The content of the conversation is just the same thing when u are introducing urself to somebody u just met,no "i love U" stuff,just introdution only.Her analysis is as follows,
1.How is she sure that I didn't plan to meet her somewhere?
2.why do I have to waste my credit and time on her if I dont care for her?
3.That the girls voice sounds very romantic,meaning that she is already in love.
4.Is she the only girl on that mag,why did I choose to call her?

Of all these questions,no 2 is the only one I could not answer cos there is no answer to it.then another thing is when the girl asked me this:"kene u dont even know me,u have not seen me, u dont even know if u are going to like me if u see me,I mean my complexion",then I answered ,"colour and height means nothing to me"I bet thats what upset her most.But believe me I did the call just for the fun of it and was never serious.

amu, u're bored but ur YIM is off mumu

Stil on my bended knees but she still maintain that it's over btw us,too bad for me cos I love her very much.She said her annoyance is that I lied to her by tellin her that I dont have any girl friend while I am nursing a plan in my mind.So u see,my problem now is whether she loved me b4 cos to me I cant see any good reason why she should break up our relationship over such a flimsy reason.

cute ass think abt it,just dont be bias in ur judgement.some guys are caught red handed by their girl friend wit another girl but at last pardoned talkless of telephone conversation.I am lamentin cos l love my gal and aint happy abt the situation of things now.After all ,if there is no sin there wont be 4giveness.

my guy there is no way for u to know that,its very difficult to ascertain the truth.the point here is that she knew quite well that u exist,some smart guy can easily convince her that u are not faithful that u may probably be sleepin around with white chics,so my advice to u is to mind whatever u're doin over there,when u come back if u think that u can still carry on with her then go ahead, after all u urself can not claim that u maintained abstinence while u were there.that is that

very much single,tall and love s-x a great deal

Cute-ass, you are so mean,sometimes in our lives we normally have side attraction but the truth still remain that I love my gal and is ready to do anything to bring her back but she is very far from me cos of that incidence.But can you throw awaay four yrs of r/ship just like that.Besides my phone records conversation authomatically untill the memory is filled up.

if u need a man u can have me.I bet u wanna know my profile, very simple I love sex more than food,u can contact me if thats what u want

if u need a man u can have me.I bet u wanna know my profile, very simple I love sex more than food,u can contact me if thats what u want