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I didn't go back to the post just went through it again

Yours is not as bad, sorry for the inconveniences fine girl/lady. I won't mention your post another day.

Amanee:
You see how you don't read, where in my post did I state that I'm from a family of 7? Your tatafo did not allow you see clearly. My simple post is grating your entitled ass thats why you jumped into negative conclusion. Choke on your advice because I don't need it.

Read through your post and see how you were boasting of knowing only yourself.

It caught my attention because you also stated that you're the first daughter the family of 7. I'm not asking you to kill yourself for your siblings but you need to know that first daughters unites and support their younger ones morally and financially(this applies to the financially buoyant ones) and they derive alot of joy seeing that their younger ones are successful.

If you're not yet their and you're still hustling, put them in your prayers, not typing rubbish on platforms like this, showing how much you care only for yourself and how strong and independent you THINK you're.

Amanee:
Typical numbskull, jumping into conclusions without deductive reasoning or logic

What part of my post states that I don't care for my siblings, you just read and understand with your deek only to start masturbating in my mentions.

If I don't even care for them is it your business? Or my post struck a sore chord in you because you're a grasping and parasitic sibling. Try to get a life and get off my mentions, asswipe.

I don't need be educated to know that any first daughter of a family that only cares about herself is wicked and selfish. Get that to your empty coconut head!!

Amanee:
I am not the cause of your illiteracy. Next time read and understand before mentioning people to spew garbage from that underutilized decoration you call a brain.

I don't need to be educated to know that any first daughter of a family that doesn't care about her siblings is "Wicked', get that to your selfish coconut brain!!

Amanee:
I am not the cause of your illiteracy. Next time read and understand before mentioning people to spew garbage from that underutilized decoration you call a brain.

How you were raised matters alot, its either you're wicked or you were never close to your siblings growing up. Most first daughters of the family always watches out for their younger one's both in prayers, financialy and various other ways to make sure they succeeds and its quite irresponsible to say you only care for yourself( if you don't care for your siblings would you care for others? No! Your parents? No! Wickedness!!).

As for the OP, if your husband is not taking care of his immediate family, then its bad! But I know most of the time, ladies prefers their husband focusing on their own family(her and her family) without assisting his own siblings not knowing what they went through growing up. Some families suffered alot with so much intimidation from the society, uncles and all, which creates a STRONG bond that would be HARD to separate. Your husband won't actually be fulfilled until a good number of his siblings succeeds.

Lesson 1: before you get married, investigate how your spouse was raised and how much he or she loves his/her family. Family love doesn't hide, you must see the signs before going into the marriage, its left for you to decide.

lesson 2: IF YOU GET MARRIED TO SOMEONE WITH 7 SIBLINGS(BOTH WIFE AND HUSBAND), DO NOT EXPECT ANY DIFFERENCE FROM WHAT OP HAS POSTED

Amanee:
Default setting ko factory setting ni

I'm a first born and I watch out for my damn self EVERYTIME

I will never abject myself to debt or penury for anyone in this world. The last time I checked we all came to this world alone and we'll exit alone. If I can help and it won't inconvenience me much, I will but anything outside that, everybody is on their own.

This op's husband and people like him needs to work on their psyche. Nobody will canonize you for giving up your life for family. The most they can do is remember you once in a while when you're gone and most times they act like entitled prigs when you're unable to cater to their whims.

You're so much on point!

eazzzy1:
Women do not always like it when their spouses give other people money, the 5000 or 10000 your husband gives his siblings is not the cause of his lack of investments.

There are lots of other ways your husband can cut cost but you are fixated on him not giving his family. Expunge that idea from your mind, it will always be seen as trying to put a wedge between him and his family.

If truly your husband is irresponsible with his money, love him through it and one day he will come to realization, if you can’t do that leave the marriage. You are already solely taking care of your immediate family, I’m sure you won’t miss him anyway?

My advise is that you should stop masturbating to PORN, thats what caused your problem. Masturbation according to research does not necessarily cause ED, but masturbating to porn does alot of harm to the brain. It rewires the brain completely!

Alot of people are facing same or similar problem out there without knowing the real cause. Masturbating to porn is bad! All you need now is to quit porn and masturbation completely for atleast 90day, during which you'd engage in some physical activities/exercise, and healthy eating habit.

Browse "no fab" on google to read alot of articles and success stories relating to it. Also visit https://yourbrainonporn.com to see alot research backing this claim.

Do not loose faith bro and don't take any harmful drogs, they wouldn't help that much

Why complain when you know your fiancee is a cheat? You already know what's good for you!

Or What advice do you need from me

Decay in every aspect, 0 maintenance culture and carelessness in the highest order.

I hope no one is injured though

Much beautiful than what we have now.

There used to be law and order and the citizens were forced to abide by them or attract penalty. That was the simple magic to we see on the pics!

We all have a role to play on sanitatizing our environment in one way or the order, let's not wait for the government to do it all!!

We can start by proper disposal of satchets and plastic water. That would go a long way!!

Deserves no comment because he is still a learner!

the last paragraph got me what is the work of anti virus then Nija dey worry

People say Dino was pretending and some said he was actually sick, what ever the case, what is bad is bad! No justification to the way the senator is been treated!

Since Change came onboard there has not been rule of law, people openly bycut court order... police does not honor Senate invitations and even the Efcc.

One question I need to ask is if police is working for us or against us?? Thing has really changed the wrong way! We need to retrace our footsteps... we need to change the change be you omo igbo, "onye ofe mmanu" or aboki!

The blame goes on and on... if we make same mistake we will continue hearing same till 2023! We need to be wise, they've done their part and we've all seen incompetence at its worst!

Truth be told, Democracy should be democracy, and the key to development and achievement by any responsible government is the view, the voice and criticism by the opposition!

Apc government does not want to develop or work for this country. To me it is an EVERYTHING THAT BENEFITS ONLY THE APC goes government. GOVERNMENT OF THE APC TO THE APC AND BY THE APC!!

DINO opposed the government and that's what he is getting!!

EarthXmetahuman:
2015 was about getting rid of pdp and its evil empire.

Its not because buhari was giving any special speech or done something extraordinary from what made him fail the first 3times.

Sowore is offering something different. Apc is pdp, pdp is apc.
We don't need career politicians anymore.

There is no dirt on sowore, despite giving it hard to those politicians that wants him dead at all cost.

As long as sowore keeps to what he is doing, he has my vote.
And I think any sane person who is tired of the old crooked generations destroying the country would do the same. Atleast to give the young ones voice.

Well I don't dispute that fact neither am I against a youth taking over aso rock in 2019. Every sane youth should be of that vision of a youth taking over.

My concern is that a strong force is need to kick out this evil government! Do you think he has the capacity? Do you know the real voters and their age brackets?? Most of us here on social media don't even vote!

My major concern is about the apc or pdp winning by DIVIDE AND CONQUER APPROACH! Sowore and his youth movement I think can only divide the votes needed to force this government out of office. Currently he doesn't have the capacity! #myviewthough

His speech is always nice but it takes more than that to elect a good leader, We aren't interested in someone who doesn't have an asset or financial capability just like what we believed in 2015!

Only God can provide us a good leader come 2019!!