₦airaland Forum

You will never come back! All the looting happened under your watch, you destroyed this country. Coming back so you & your invisible rulers can sell Nigeria. God forbid!

He lied about getting married. I never knew u was going to come back. I made a mistake and i regret it. But is it something that can't be forgiven?

Have been in a relationship with my bf for over two years. He met me a virgin hence no sex, because I wanted marriage before sex. He begged severally to confirm with his fingers, which I rufused. I gave him total love and commitment, I don't ask for money or stress him. Only for him to tell me after dating for the first one year, he's getting married and the date fixed already. I was hospitalize for a week as a result of the news. I couldn't believe it cuz he's so responsible and we never had issues. I started drinking and taking pills so I could sleep. In the process of the heartbreak I got disflowered unconsciously, it wasn't my intension. Three months later he came back and said he was sorry, and wants a serious relationship. He got to know I wasn't a virgin few months later. Thou I couldn't tell him initially, he felt so bad but we continued. Now we are planning on getting married especially my mum. He's saying he wants to back out, that he can't live with the fact he wasn't and he couldn't confirm for a year. I should surfer for it. Hence he doesn't trust me. I don't know how to go about this, I honesty don't know. I love him so much, it was a mistake. He's also on nairaland.

smart girl. I love her composure.

Sweetest! But she talks and behaves like the man most times.

Wizkid all the way