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I met her when she just graduated from Madona okija, she is from Edo state and lives in Benin, she was all I wanted in a woman, am ibo, I live and work in Ph, I will make it brief, we have dated for 2yrs now, her mom is aware of my efforts and struggles towards this relationship, to be sincere I have loved this girl with all my life, sometime in August 2015 I engaged her in her church, she accepted to marry me only to get home and her mom asked her to return the ring, she can't marry me cos am ibo and she is Benin, secondly am not very rich, and I practically have nothing to offer her, finally she is the only Gurl, Hmmmmm she never wore the ring for one day after d engagement, I kept complaining but all to no avail, she never made me see her put effort to be with me, I kept complaining, I can't count the number of times I drive to Benin just to see her, if I say 40 times God knows it's too small, I have introduced her to my family and making arrangements for marriage only for her to chat me up saying the relationship is over, she cant continue, am in deep pains, deeper than you can imagine, telling me she is the only girl of her mom, am trying so hard to move on, her mom knows so well my efforts, she never stopped the relationship all the while, when her daughter was posted to delta for service I drive all the way from ph to Edo to pick her and take her there, I can boldly say through out her service year not for once did she go to her PPA alone, all of a sudden I have nothing to offer, God will Judge them all. They deceived me: they will forever struggle and at the end have a worthless end, I write this in pain, I just need an advice on how to move on, is it wrong loving a girl who isn't your tribe?