₦airaland Forum

Chiefheywhy:
My own submission ...

If you're praying for a beautiful daughter , please pray for God to give her sense and self worth ..

Drops pen ...

Going by you and scondy's analogy.

No lady of self worth should even go for the show self and even be watching it.
So what exactly are you doing watching big brother naija?abi you nor get self worth too?
Since their naked pics are seen when they bath(or is it not)?They don't even need to have sex for that one at all

WetSmoke:
I will never understand how people will keep wake till 2am or even past 2am waiting to see "action", and when they get it, they start dragging endlessly the lady involved, and when they don't get it they become disappointed.
Like what exactly do people want? Why so much hypocrisy?

The thing tire me.

Tatiana4u:
I love you girl!!!!

Same here dear

MizzD:
Add Kaffi to that list too.. Its a recycled narrative. Nothing happens to anyone. Bambam even had it worse, because of the location and position. And of course fake church girl that teddy will never be with her. They all thrive and life goes on .

One minute we want people to be real because it is a reality show.

Next minute, we want real but minus sex

Same set of people get angry that Kayode did not show the supposedly sex scenes they condemn so much .

Is that not the irony?
Inside life

Munzy14:
My dear it is a journey to grab 85million Buhari Naira..


You shouldn't expect easy ride... Even a hey! exclamation comes with a scrutiny, twist and turn...


Yes woke is good, but woke with morals is best.


The funny thing is u people did this to Mercy last year for her dry humps.

But this year all of a sudden, everyone is woke... Is God not a wonderful God?

I never condemned Mercy for having sex.
I am the last person that will condemn a woman for having sex or be expressive of her sexuality I am an advocate of women's liberation which includes sex.I never supported mercy or even Erica but I will not judge or condemn
So nor be me abeg

Morality is subjective my dear.
My principle is live and let live.Unless something is criminal I don't put my mouth in people's personal lives because I won't want others to put their mouths in minem

Borrusia:
Being subjective should never be mistaken with a blind argument.

If you want to have sex in your house, do you cover yourself with sheets? We’ve also seen some 18rated movies and we see naked breast and ass, so the fact that you keep referencing that the show is 18rated does not hold a candle.

Why can’t they just pull the sheets off and bang in different styles since we’re watching +18? Why are they hiding under sheets?

When you get to big brother's house do this

They either go all out or don’t do it at all. The purpose of BBN is to make people stars while entertaining the viewers.

Just in our day to day lives, people kiss in public places, people dance erotically in public places, but you cannot have sex in public places even in a white man’s land. Police will arrest you, stop defending what you cannot do or condone.

And the fact that you can do it or accept it doesn’t mean others should.

It is done on TV and sex is done on TV so why are you pained or angry about it in the white man's land sex is the order of the day in their own Big brother show and they don't come all out to hypocritically condemn like you are all doing right now.So in a rated 18 show sex is allowed they did not do tge sex on the streets but on TV.
I do not tell people how to live their lives but I have a problem with others like you trying to tell others how to and selectively choose what to support Erica and kidd do not see it as an issue neither does multichoice so it should not be an issue too.Nobody is forcing you to accept anything the problem is you wanting to judge what is your business watching it in thw mme first place if you don't wanna have an open mind about it?

Zzor:
[s]I am ashamed on behalf of Erica and her fans, you people should come take cloth cover face.When a girl show interest or jump over a man,then be ready to be in a relationship only with his erection,it is never good for any lady to show a man she likes him,no matter how you are attracted to a man,hide and bury the attraction if he didn't come for you.I wish Erica would take a voluntary exit or evicted sooner than we expect.Where are those ladies supporting Erica,how market for una?rubbish[/s]

Hush it dear and focus on your favourite.
You are in no place to tell a woman what to do with her body and live her life.
So face front.

Not everyone is interested in your silly philosophy it won't work for everybody I am a lady that goes for what she wants damning any silly consequences and Erica is adult enough to decide what works for her.
Na so ladies go lose good man because them dey wait for the guy to make first move rubbish.

galaxyball:
Who is complaining? For me it's just trolling material. I don't care what happens to her even if they give her an award

Make she do what she likes, I just expected her to be wiser. This is Nigeria

This is Nigeria where politicians loot our treasury and social decadence is the moral of the day be more concerned about that and leave Erica's sex life alone.
When you get tired you rest keep trolling while Erica has fun

eleshin:
The threat from the Government is not even helping matter. They are waiting for the flimsiest default to shut down the show. Audio R18. There are people that stop watching the show cos of the sex scenes. Everything is just upside in this Country.

Abi.

Let multichoice keep hiding the sex scenes abeg since Nigerians wanna eat their cake and have it.
You want big brother but at the same time wanna dictate how people should conduct themselves in a show where such conduct is acceptable they are not serious.
Let us keep watching BBN the way it is it should be reduced to rated 16 now self

Nigerians are hypocrites nobody is being forced to watch the show ooo

galaxyball:
We are the ones voting, when in Rome behave like the romans. I don't care if she has sex but I am turned off by her lack of self control.

Is it your body?why are you obsesssed with her libido did she rape kidd?did she commit the act herself or it was consensual why are you so afraid of a woman with a high libido?why take panadol for her.You don't vote her the peopke that vote for her are not complaining are they?

She is on national television and she knows women always get it worse which is why I expect her to make wiser decisions.

And she will suffer because she is very emotional and cares what people think of her, she is not like a ka3na

Well she does not reason like you and on the national TV she is in what she did is expected.Women get what backlash my dear this is 2020 and not all women care about any silly backlash from an hypocrital country like this one.Which worse because Nina and Bambam did same and are okay even Bisola did so why are you complaining of a backlash?Is it your job to police a woman's body?Nothing will happen to Erica she will come out okay so quit complaining

geezprince:
morals? Is it yours or mine to judge in the first place? The fact that we are adding our two cents to other people’s issues and businesses is why we are still where we are as a country, Hiding under the guise of religion and morality, when in reality, we have bigger problems( we no holy reach bruh). What is wrong with “live and let live” ?

We are so moral yet we commit rape,adultery,fornication.
Steal,kill and other sorts of obscene crimes yet we wanna cast the first stone.
I fear who nor fear Nigerians our hypocrisy smells and stinks.

I believe in live and let live and I support you 100%

geezprince:
Honestly, We need to cut Erica some slack. I don’t think It’s right for her to be judged on what she has decided to do with her body and who she has decided to share the cookie with, on a show that is Rated18.
That aside, How are we even sure they had sex?

I seriously doubt if this will reduce her fan support. At this stage in the game, people have invested so much money and emotions into the game, hence her supporters can’t and shouldn’t be swayed by this.
It’s just sad that we live in a judgmental and close-minded society, where you can’t express yourself freely, even on a show R18, without someone adding their 2 cents.

Thanks dear you have said it all nothing to add again self.
Loud it abeg.

Erica is a full grown adult and has made her choice so why are we judging her or wanting to police her body nawa ooo.

jayjaycee0:
Kimbrielle ... I LOVE YOU, oya talk your own back. Your comment always giving me joy

I love you too Jayson

Munzy14:
We grew up like this.


If woke is our thing, our parents will be having sex right in our faces...


Maybe some people will use their nudes as profile pics.


Their is a reason y they say, if u go to rome, behave like the Romans.

That analogy nor apply here.
They (Erica and kidd) both acted in what was expected of the show and we the viewers know we would see this so why the outcry.
If we wanna condemn we condemn in totality not we wanting a show like BBN and still condemning one of the acts the show allows we should pick a struggle abeg


I remain woke

eleshin:
"Hypocritical Nigerians" are the one voting. That is the moral of the whole story. They decide what is right or wrong. Her supposed sex clip is everywhere. Now left for "Hypocritical Nigerians" to decide who to vote for.

We are not ready in a rated 18 show we dey cry foul for sex with two consenting adults.

BBN should be scrapped and taken to another country we are not ready at all

And some of you will wonder why multichoice does not show you Erica and kidd making out that is because of the unnecessary backlash they will get from hypocritical Nigerians in this first place.

If you cannot watch the show with an open mind don't watch Big brother same you will condemn a lady for having sex same you want to see sex on the show and swear for multichoice for denying you that pleasure.
Aren't you all hypocrites?

You wanna watch sex on a rated 18 show what are you expecting to see before and when it happens you wanna condemn the lady and leave the guy should the guy be having sex with himself or a fellow guy before?


Multichoice should keep hiding the sex scenes since Nigerians are judgemental big time hypocrites let us keep speculating on wetin we nor see una go dey alright las las

Munzy14:
Are u from Ghana? Aren't you a Nigerian?


Same people supporting Erica, did mercy shege last year... They kept vigil most nights, to see if Ike will bleep mercy... Infact it was the last receipt they all wanted to pull mercy down.


All thanks to Ike principled guy, because mercy submitted her self to Ike for sex, but Ike declined... A show of someone who genuinely love her and her reputation.


Reputation is priceless, guide it with your life.


TeddyA marrying bambam saved the disgrace..


Nina received hers till today...Her best option is to relocate out of here.... This is naija for u.


Our morals is held high, I remember what transpired between Obama and Buhari in the LGBT rights talk.

We are Nigerians.

Nigerians should stop the hypocrisy and stop being judgemental I don't think we need Big brother in this country it should be taken to south Africa instead the people there are more exposed than hypocrital Nigerians

BluntTheApostle:
Wow!!

Words of wisdom.

There are some people that can never be happy even if you give them the meekest man/woman ever made.

It is a matter of happiness from within, and not happiness as a duty.

I am glad you agree with me dear

jayjaycee0:
Kimbrielle put your hacant nomba haiii fast fast

https://i2.wp.com/gistvic.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/cyyu1.jpg?resize=898%2C600&ssl=1

Thanks dear but I will pass

mariahAngel:
Coming from someone who was trying to shame a lady for not knowing an immoral sexual term

Try to read broad and stop covering your ignorance by labelling something immoral.I shamed her for being a judgmental hypocrite nothing more.

Zzor dear, be careful and guard your heart with all diligence from "woke" ladies such as this one and makydebbie

I have no problem with anybody guarding their heart but I have a problem with holier than thou people trying to tell other women how to live their lives or police their bodies.I am proud to be "woke" and not asleep

They are the types that'll teach you that men are not really important to make you happy, but fact is they don't practice what they advocate.

But it is not a lie na makydebbie was right happiness comes from within and you owe no one your happiness and vice versa.I practice what I preach because self happiness and worth comes from within and it is tied to nobody.

The truth is a lady is her happiest self when she has a good man in her life who loves her truly.

She is her happiest self because she chose to be happy with that man if she is with a good man she can also be sad because she has not chosen to open her heart to happiness happiness is a choice it comes from within and nobody not even a man can make you happy if you don't want to

She can do anything for that man, even if they deny it.
They might even teach you that you don't really need a man for sexual satisfaction, that you can do that by yourself.
They'd even teach you how to DO IT YOURSELF!
They'll mock you for not being sexually "woke"

Be careful of such ladies.

It is your type that such ladies should be careful of because many of your types are actually the sad ones.There is no lie in all what we woke ladies preach because they are practicable you should broaden your scope more and learn new things instead of limiting yourself to closemindedness and terming something beyond your knowledge capacity as immoral.
Learn and stop being asleep be woke.

nazablossom:
Clash of the Titans, i can't wait

makydebbie:
I'm shocked lol.
Like our destiny is tied to a man lmao.

Many ladies that talk like that have identity crisis and no self worth.
The earlier some ladies realise that they are living for themselves and not for a man the better for them to avoid stories that touch the heart because senseless man na senseless man

makydebbie:
Dear women, your existence and happiness isn't tied to a man.
If you want to be innocent, it's your choice and you should do it for you and not because of a man. You're not living for a man but yourself.
Protect your innocence for yourself and not for a man.

Louder dear.
Preach it.



Calling, mariahangel and zzor come and learn

Tatiana4u:
Then,support my Erica.

Nah.
I like her though just so indifferent about her when it comes to support or votes

Cheaper:
I used to think this way until I have my own family. The country is so hard you have to be on your toes 24hrs to be able to provide the best of life for your family. The tension, the weight of expectations, the fear of failure among other things have not done fathers any good in this country. Fathers are really trying, but it is difficult to see because we dont easily break down or show emotions

They should just make time for their kids and carry them along.
E go dey alright

Cheaper:
Why are they all sending messages and shoutout to only their mum. Are we fathers not trying at all. Kini gbogbo eleyi gan

In naija not generalising though.
Some fathers are present but behave like absentee fathers when it comes to building a relationship with their children that is why children are closer to their mums and have a bond with them.
Unlike some fathers who feel their only duty na to pay school fees nothing more they fail to invest their time on their children,so strict,unemotional and lack communication with their children when those children grow the relationships are strained.
Naija fathers should learn to communicate with their kids and spend time with them.
Family is important

Tatiana4u:
I want us to quarrel!

You go cry ooo.

So perish that idea

livelymatilda:
Dora is a baby and one of the sweetest in that house..

I admire her self esteem a lot... You can hardly guess her age..

We agree on something

Tatiana4u:
Dora must leave that house too!

In your dreams

livelymatilda:
Why not face the Laycon you claim you want to support.....

Madam bandwagonner who swore with her life that she will never watch Bbnaija again after her god Tacha was kicked out of the house..

So Tacha is still giving you nightmares Eyah.

Donate your tears here and worship Tacha below

Tatiana4u:
Story!
Erica's fans gave her pity votes but she's leaving next week!

Because na you get Big brother house or now you be him PA.
Did you not say that Lucy will go last week but she still dey here.
Dey there dey deceive yourself Lucy stays

Tatiana4u:
Neva

Vote her nor make us quarrel