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Mariangeles:
Have you never prayed together with your wife?

I remember that we prayed the first time she pack to my house. but i'm not the religious type hence prayer is not our thing as a family. we hardly pray talkless of doing it together

Mariangeles:
What did you think was the cause of the misfortune you suffered?

Good question

But you sound as if i'm dodging my responsibilities and blaming my wife for my woes instead.

what was the point in advicing women to choose wisely if you were not trying to bring another angle to the issue at hand? for the last time, i love my wife and will always do, i can't even imagine staying with another woman even if she left me cos i don't believe another girl will understand me like her. what i'm saying is how she acted weird and the accusation about her spiritual life. your advice is also noted.

Starz825:
Believe that fronzen70 shit at your own peril...
There are spiritual forces and you know it...

There is spiritual forces in play on this earth. one pastor(samuel osaghere) in benin who owns believers ministry once made me to believe it.

A normal me will never fell under the anointing nomatter how strong a pastor push me, i use to stand well whenever i visit a church but with just a touch from that man, i fell and started speaking rubbbish, he did not even ask me for any money but i don't know what came over me, i enter a bus back to my house the next day without seen him again as promised.

crackhaus:
Wonderful.

Go for vigils and do your prayers in a church then. This ogbanje they said is in your wife must either be forced out or forced in.

I have been trying but it seems my faith is not strong cos i always doubt the power of prayers, i have been to more than 20 powerful men of god but i did not see any progress(i must confess that there is one pastor in benin by name samuel osaghere that touch my soul through prayers but that is another long story) that is why i read about opening the third eye through mediation which i'm trying to do it and see things myself.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Mental depravity and backwardness. Emancipate your brain and stop casting libel on an innocent woman.

Women, be careful of men who will never cease to hold you responsible for every problem in their lives. These men will make you doubt your abilities and question your sanity.

They always refuse to take sole responsibility for their retrogression. They think the "women" in their lives always bring them bad luck, so they hold these innocent women responsible should their business(es) go south or jobs crumble.

You don't have to bring that feminism stuff here to make a point. i stated clearly that i was not a good guy but that was in the past. i also praise my wife for always been there for me so i don't see any basis for your hate comment

crackhaus:
Are you the same person as the OP?

YES.

i will not take what tonycyril say for granted. i tap from your turn-around story brother.

madridguy:
No allow anyone to tear your house apart. Your own is your pillar yet someone asked you to send her away, to bring you down completely or what
When next you want to pray at night, lower your voice and stop disturbing her sleep.

I did not even say a word out talkless of shouting to disturb her sleep. i use to just meditate and stare in the blank darkness like that.

Ahmed0336:
Be prayerful and watch things unfold. Don't be in a haste to take decisions, be certain before you do. May God see you through.

Amen.

crackhaus:
Go do your prayers for another room nau.

The issue is not praying in the same room, the problem is how she reacted to it which is confirming what the spiritualist say about her. your suggestion is well noted though

Homeboiy:
Leave the room and go outside to pray

Is it nice to hide from your wife before praying? nice suggestion though

@Joeev, i really appreciate you for this

Joeev:
See what will happen. Make your wife really really happy or whenever she's laughing just use style and ask her if there's anybody that makes love to her in the dream?

Good suggestion here. i will try it out.

pls can you copy my first three posts and join them together, then paste it once in the family section? i'm using a small phone pls, moreover, people will comment more if you post it. pls

frozen70:
If you believe any nonsense spiritual things about your life, marriage and your wife,
Your case would be worst that the present situation

Team up with your wife and pray together on what you guys want God to do for your lives

Stop birthing children till you can afford to feed them all without begging for money

If you two agrees, it can work out well

Thanks. i already promise myself not to beg anybody again talkless of doing it online. but are you saying that there is nothing like spiritual forces?

Nyascobar1414:
Karma doesn't exist bro

Are you sure about this?

Lastpharoah33:
Whatever you are planning as the next step, never you send that woman away.

Try to help her instead.

That is what i'm trying to do. But how should i go about it?

I'm not blaming my wife for this now untill i find out if it's true and she knows about it. like i said, it could be karma dealing with me cos i was a very bad person in the past. that is why i use to help people(even on this forum, i help more than 4people) even when myself is suffering with nothing to eat or do the basic things in the house.

Petyprincess:
It baffles me whenever a man is facing financial difficulties in his marriage they blame the wife or accuse the wife of being the cause of their problems.

The moment men start taking responsibilities for their life and actions is the day you are ready to make a change.

I did not and will never blame my wife. i even stated that my past is also ugly so i initially thought karma was serving me breakfast untill this issue came.

Joeev:
My guy I wouldn't lie to you, what that guy said about your case is very most likely true. As you were narrating your story that was what came to my mind, that it could be your wife causing these things. 2 things. Either you break away from her or you have to fast and pray with a very very very strong man of God. Spirit husbands usually frustrate the lives of their victims husbands. They make them so miserable. Your story isn't the first. Just mere reading it I knew it was a case of spirit husband.

Na waoh! but did my wife know that she has a spirit husband? i also need a favour from you pls

I`m not using this story to get sympathy but this is a true life story. the babalawo is a nairalander too. he may be reading this sef, i just need ideas on how to handle this

1Alex:
you have not said anything.

I completed it now

i'm using a small phone that is why i did not post the whole story once, i might be anything but laziness is not part of me, i use to hustle 24/7 to keep my family going and my wife is not lazy at all.

Jennyclay

This guytold me that my wife is ogbanje, that i should send her away if i want to have peace, and that my former girl has a spirit husband who is also on my case. so after sending my wife away, i should do spiritual cleasing to be whole again.

but my wife is my pillar in this trying times, who will even cook and care for my children if i sent her away? worst is, this girl use to worship me as if i'm a god even in this condition so i see no reason to carry out that instruction untill she did something strange.

i research online on how to meditate and wanted trying it out, when it was 11pm, i told here that i want to pray and started but to my suprise, she started tappin me violently that i'm praying too much, i kept my cool and went back to bed. yesterday was same thing so i'm beginning to suspect her cos i don't know when praying for more than 5mins is a sin.

pls what should i do about this?

In my efforts to find a solution, i contacted a nairalander who claims to be a spiritualist and know much about life, my complain to him was simple, i just wanted to know if my woes are spiritualy connected, this is because, i have a serious badluck.

For example, no one is willing to help me even family members, whenever someone promise me of any help, he/she will not fulfill it(even here many has promise me one or two things but none was able to fulfill it) worst is that, i can't even take something to market and sell cos many will not be willing to ask me how much? talkless of actually buying it. I tried online business but nothing worked as no one is willing to order things from me even on pay after delivery basis. Is that bad hence i decided to talk with the guy about my predicament. He then consults with the gods on my behalf but i'm very confused about the outcome.

I'm confused about this and will like anyone with ideas about this issue to advice me.

I'm married with 2 lovely kids but my home is not that lively due to my poor condition, i'm always on a look out to see ways that will better my condition but all efforts are not yielding any positive result. my major problem is to raise my children in a way that will enable them live and not just exist like i do hence i always go to any length to provide the basics in the house. However, my problems seems to be increasing daily to a point that i started feeling depressed and suicidal recently. i sometimes attributed my woes to how i live a very bad life in the past but then again, something came up recently which is giving me sleepless nights.

Just seen this mention. pls message the number on my profile and i will reply you. thank you

I read from the beginning to the end and ended up crying like a woman.

Just look at how this young lady pull through all the difficulties that life presented while i'm here contempleting on ways to do fraud.

The soil in my farms, here i come! i will make sure that i farm harder till i have a broken waist from tomorrow henceforth, i also vow not to beg online again. i will get rich through farming or gladly die in the farm. so help me God

Lastpharoah33:
I have been in your shoes years back, wishing for death and all,(you can go through my older posts) but all I want to tell you is it can only get better if you hold on a little longer.

Soliciting for mentorship for gee on a public space like this no go work atall, na your friend wey dey game you go meet, disturb the living daylight outta him.

Me don run street but wetin come out no do me, I switch back to legit though the pay is not as big as gee but I want to build a solid network with people for future sake.

Ciao.

Good advice, i dey villa now and there is nobody around me who knows the way. pls help me, i just want to save my children from poverty. as for me, even 5years is ok for me. na to just establish for my family and rest in peace on the other side

kals4luv990:
Make una no dey troll the nigga If yu hv nufin to contribute positively to the guy make una just shut up..

I weak bro
Happy sunday

Autobot05:
Say No to fraud sir


Feel free to abuse me verbally if you like
Jesus is the ONLY way ❤️

Abuse you?
No nah, you are entitled to your opinion. Happy sunday

Theweb:
keep heart friend. Meet people around that will teach legimate skills. Thanks

i would have love to do as you said but no one is willing to help me, i'm beginning to think that my problems are spiritual cos i'm all alone in this world. there is nothing i did not do within my power to better my life but all my hope are always dashed by one thing or the other. my story is long bro, i just want to be comfortable in this life even if it's just for a little period