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Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating someone should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now[color=#990000][/color]

My brother, I know you may not believe me but I got my deliverance from TB Joshua's church after 11 years of masturbation.

Masturbation is a monster that you may not just fight like but I'm glad to say that I am normal again. Thank you, Jesus!

If you are in Lagos, don't hesitate!!

Aganju849:
See as the guy be like demon...he no resemble human being at all

NaijaCoverBlog:
https://dailytrust.com/gunmen-kill-dss-officer-in-imo

chatinent:
Ok o.


Maybe it is the word you used but I put it to you, once I am feeling uncomfortable with a relationship and get knocked off for serious questions, it's a red flag.


That friend or bestie that cannot be your partner makes me wonder if some people really know what they are doing most times.


Yeah, I also keep my cool when I am about to leave you to keep dating yourself or move on.


Awwwn, just like a ramseynoah-ogeokoye love.


Angry or needing an excuse for the nearest exit?


I am thinking to say this is good news. Let me wait to read what you have to say.



Hello brotherman,

I won't mince words with you but I'll be considerate by incorporating myself into your love story.

If I were the you-figure, I would walk away. Maybe I would have done so long ago when the signs were no longer glistening as greenish as it earlier illuminated.

I have to walk away from people I also love sometimes, not because I didn't try enough, but because of self respect.

If that's the only reasons she clung unto to end your four-year love internship, oh, so sorry...you were only the finance guy! My apology if I used hard words.

I strongly advise sponsoring only a wife in school, or anything...and not the other way round! Your case is one of the many cases hovering over the angry always-recurring blue moon in the minds of many guys who were once gentlemen. There have been many cases where a gentleman had to finance a woman's education and she married some other course-mate, or got impregnated by sb deemed better...making her sponsor's efforts come to waste!

Love is a beautiful thing... but it mostly turns out that the best person who'd hurt you is that one person you truly love...and that hurts the most.

Don't feel too bad. Move on. Heartbreak is like cloud storms...with time, it will fade. But you have to nurture your heart to repel against heartbreaks too. Of course, you also have to learn not to transfer aggression to the next honest girl who comes by. You know, it isn't a gender fight. It's the person not the gender.
So, we aren't preaching retaliation...we only have to forgive people who hurt us, forget their hurt, but not forgetting the lesson it taught us.

Moving forward....I think you should stop begging. You are worth more than that. Yeah, I know we have to try to reunite with people we love. I've done that too...some times, I apologize not because I am wrong, but because I value the relationship than being right. If my efforts are not respected, I stop doing them..and it's gone forever.

Men cry too....but make sure no bi relationship matter dey make you invent river benue.


This is a stage of your life you will begin to see changes and understand there is more to your being than what you have been. Build on it. What she is rejecting in you may be envied by others!

Keep squares out of your circles. Avoid toxic people and relationships...and next time, date when you are about to marry.

I liKe the man you'll become.

You are welcome.

FESTAC101:
Hello OP, I've read through all you wrote but I have just one word for you- there is hope in Christ Jesus. If you can get these books from Kenneth Haggin if possible download them cos that's what I do, read them diligently like someone about to write a serious exam, digest what you read n apply them. I tell you the hold of Satan over your family affairs will be over. He has lost all power,the ones he has we have to him. Get 1. Believers Authority and 2. The triumphant church. You will come out victorious. NB. Most times our prayers seems unanswered because we r not praying from the point of knowledge. Be determined.Remain blessed.

Ariza:
First thing first, separate yourself from the family. If possible get "yourself lost" that no one will be able to contact you. One it I've learnt about spiritual battles as a Christian is that most times generational causes or plagues aren't as effective as they should be without the help of household enemies and monitoring spirits. Household enemies uphold generational curses and they work with information. So cut them off by distancing yourself.

Give your life to Jesus Christ, there's a difference between a believer and a Christian.Be a Christian, surrender all your burdens to Christ, then he will give you peace and solutions.
Look for a Bible believing Church , one with real knowledge and manifestation of Holy Spirit. Worship there, Work for God and Serve God More. If possible,get a Holy Ghost filled pastor for Deliverance. While doing all these stay away from home. And study the Word of God because it is more powerful than a two edged sword and it will be your weapon of battle.

My Brother, You are about to fight and break free from a bondage that has run through your family for ages, be ready for real war.But be rest assured that you will conquer be Lord Jesus Christ has conquered the world for us and he ended it by saying"It is Finished". Be assured that victory is your. Beloved you must fight this war and break free because the curse will not only end on you but you will save your generations to come from such bondage. And when you have overcome,you will bring other members of your family out of theirs too.

The Lord is with you.

aaking:
Prayer for forgiveness and Mercy . Rom 9:15-16

Thank God and let Him know His your Creator Psalm 50,51

Plead the blood of JESUS over yourself and family Rev 12:10-11

Father from today I terminate my name ,family name from every satanic covenant by the Blood of JESUS Gen 49:1-4

Father every agreement with satanic bondage , yoke I destroy in the Mighty Name of JESUS Christ Isaiah 10:27

Father whatever pronouncements that is afflicting my life, family be nullify in JESUS Name nuhum 1:9

Father every route of evil in my lineage be broken in the Mighty Name of JESUS Christ Isaiah 18:8-10

Father I break every yoke of the devil in my home in JESUS Name

Father please save me from evil thought

Father let your Mercy rescue me and my family Heb 4:16

Father whatever we have done that brings shame on us be lifted up in JESUS Name. Psalm 24:7-10

Father every gate of limitations set against us be lifted by up in the Mighty Name of JESUS Christ

If you need more let me know.

Ejenavi18:
Please Op keep pushing on... Don't contemplate Suicide I beg of you. Things may be difficult for you now, the future may seem bleak but that doesn't mean it won't get better... Let it be your determination to survive please.. This is a just a phase, it will soon pass.. Always remember that there's always light at the end of every tunnel.

Suicide is Never an Option!

iupac120:
Always back your prayers with positive confessions.
Believe that your case is different and you are born to fulfill a purpose.
Please consecrate your life by living a holy life and forgive if you have anything against person (s).
You and your family need an altar

Caramelskin:
Place your hand over your heart, can you feel it? That is called purpose. You’re alive for a reason so don’t ever give up.
You need to pray like a warrior. Fasting, midnight prayers and all (Trust me, it works). People are willing to help but there are some negative forces hindering your breakthrough. Just pray against those forces and I am sure it will end in praise.
Cc kizit22

EliteBiz:
My brother, when a man is at rock bottom, there is no where to go except up, You will be favored. Fear not, Worry not. You will be favored. Start thinking of every positive thing u can, ignore the negative environment, dont think negative, You will be favored. Congratulations kizit22

aaking:
Anglican church will not solve your family problems but JESUS CHRIST. Call your family for serious Prayer. The sin of your forefathers is affecting your family. Which brings afflictions and satanic sicknesses upon you and yours

chatinent:
Hi kizit22,
Bro, everyone has a story to tell. If I narrate mine, you'll likely join me shade tears as I am, doing already. Sth I learnt about life is you can be born however, but you have the right to make your life how you want it, giving your life a new rendition.
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You have to let only the pillows be in bed and walk away from your imaginations and out to your dreams. Nobody can curse you if you don't believe they do. Nobody can put you under a spell if you have no one's life. I lived all my life crying behind doors but smiling to many eyes that glistened.
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I suffered emotional pains, child abuse, parental neglect, parental abuse and..guess what? I also contemplated suicide. My suicide note turned into a diary because I could read it again; I lived again. I learnt sth; I have to be satisfied with my life how it is even if I worked hard.
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Know why? Because if I'm always thinking I need newer things, I cannot ever be happy because there must be sth I'll feel I always need.
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Try sth new without thinking you are less human nor you have to be perfect. Believe bro, you own the remote to your head; station it well.
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Believe only you can change you.

osizi06:
Don't give up. Your breakthrough is on the way. Be prayerful. I pray for you and your family. Generational curses are broken in Jesus name. Amen

igbarasdynasty:
You will only bring more disasters and curse upon your family by ending your life..... these are stories you will tell in future how you made it amongst all odds...... Ending your life is not a guarantee that you have truly rested....

In fact read up on people going through hell and they never gave up.... people had stayed in Coma for decades, People are struggling to breathe, More people are blind and they never ended their lives.....

Because your brother nor sisters never succeeded relentless on how they try, does not mean you are bound to fail too....stop admitting failing....

You can be the change your family seek, since you have traced the problems.... you can re- write your Family History if you don't give up.....

I have gone through depression and I understand how you feel.

usba:
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Yes, the likes of Jonathan and Dasuki have qualitative leadership that you need. Rubbish!!!