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funmisticqueen2:
Two of you are in a codependent relationship. That's toxic. Most likely she doesn't see you as attractive anymore, but cannot do without you. That's why I think she is cheating. I think you should fight for her and stand by her. Don't dump her. She'll come out off it, the way you also did. Be her true friend in need and lover. Continue to pray for her too. Keep on being faithful and hang on.

Yes I think she loves you and can cheat on you too. Humans are like that.

Thanks

nwokolokingsley:
5k, and I'll advise you on what to do!

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Kj66:
Months ago I cheated on my gf, it was really tough on her. But we overcame it. Fast forward she's cheating on me right now and it seems my world is falling apart. I had asked her to choose between me and the guy. She always assures me she loves me and can never leave me but she has been with the other guy(who has money than me by far) for some days now. I'm confused. Please what should I do?

I appreciate the feedbacks and thankful. But it's a bit complicated than that. Let me briefly expatiate. Foremostly. She is someone who isn't emotional expressive (can bear pains pretty silently) while I'm quite emotionally expressive.
We've dated for over 2years, and I've always loved her. Herein the complication. Last year I met this wonderful soul at my workplace, she was a colleague and we connected almost immediately like we've known for years. We were great friends, then lovers and we dated for about 7months whilst I was still in this relationship. What led me on was the fascinating way the new girl showed me love and she practically lived it out-it was telling in her life(she was overly expressive). But I loved my gf more and had to quit the relationship.
But I knew what my gf endured. For those 7months, the last 4months she was fully aware of the relationship. It was so bad that I tried breaking up with my gf on multiple occasions but I knew how hard she fought back. On one night I told her the other girl was carrying my child and I love her- she cried and told me she'll stand by me if I promise to stick with her. I kept on playing nonchalance till the falsity of the pregnancy was revealed and everything ended.
On 2 occassions she has met this other girl one on one, it was the last encounter that I finally called it quit.

Eversince our relationship has been sweet until this recent episode. Yes I know I should move on but I'm a bit confused cos I knew how she fought for me and its weighing on my decision at present. Cos I knew I really loved her when I cheated on her. Don't know if that's a possibility: loving someone and cheating on them.

Months ago I cheated on my gf, it was really tough on her. But we overcame it. Fast forward she's cheating on me right now and it seems my world is falling apart. I had asked her to choose between me and the guy. She always assures me she loves me and can never leave me but she has been with the other guy(who has money than me) for some days now. I'm confused. Please what should I do?