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MarvellousGod:
I think he's frustrated. . Does he have financial problems?

no, he has gotten anoda job since,

i feel for ribery oo ,

Pogba can go to hell, united will sign good players like Bale, hummels, and Depay(that guy iz good)

united is about to get deadly

carlmerz:
Do not be afraid of his curses just keep on respecting him as your father, I don't have much to advice you but this :

Ephesians 6:1
Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.
Ephesians 6:2
Honour thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise;
Ephesians 6:3
That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth.
Ephesians 6:4
And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

ur words are so soothing

cococandy:
He let the grief get to his head.

maybe, but this has gone too far nw

Lacomus:
He still miss his wife, don't stop praying for him perhaps he will change soonest.

@Even curse sabi body !!!!

so he still misses my mom,? i dont get ur last sentence tho

This is my other moniker on nairaland,

My mom died 12 years ago, she died after the birth of my junior sister, before she died,my family was living a normal life, my dad had a job in zenith bank, my brother and i attended good private schools, e.t.c.

Then she got pregnant, after giving birth to our junior sister (last born) she fell seriously ill, she died a few months later.

During the time of my moms illness, my dad kinda lost his job, not that he was sacked, he was retired involuntarily by the bank,

when my mom was battling with her illness, my grandmother (on the motherside) was the one taking care of my little sister. my dad spent all his gratiuty on trying to save my mothers life, she later gave up ghost, ..I was six years old when all this happened..

After mom died, my dad blamed her death on her mother (my grandma on the motherside) he said that she was a witch and that she killed my mom. Also, all my relatives on the mother side were not allowed to interact with my brother and i.

To say that he hated them is an understatement. Things went like this for about 11 years, being a young boy, i belived all my dads accusations against my motherside. But as i grew up ,i started asking questions, any time i asked my dad about it, his mood will change and he would get angry, very angry

Recently, i came in contact with my moms twin brother, he is in lagos while im in kwara state, he was so happy to hear my voice again after close to 10 years, he was crying on the phone while he was trying to explain all that happened,

he said that my grandma had nothing to do with my moms death, he said that she died naturally, he even backed up his claims with pictures, when i got the opportunity to ask my grandma about it, she said she was innocent, that she would never kill her own daughter, wheras, my dad said she was a witch and she ate my moms meat

My uncle (moms twin) has been really nice to me since we came into contact again, he sends me money , but my dad must not know, otherwise, he will murder both of us

Now, the problem is that my dad gets angry at any slight provocation and curses my siblings and i, he even sometimes call my younger sister badluck, that her birth brought death upon my mother,

The curses really disturb me, i fear they might have an imoact on our (my siblings) lives,

i need ur suggestions to go through this ,cos im very confused and sad,

cc lalasticala, pls move this to the right section


im still seeking for admission into a university

Your help is highly appreciated