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After I cum
The kind post nut clarity wey hit me like Dangote truck.

And I still have to meet her tomorrow at work
We work together in same office

I don't understand how I was enjoying it.
But immediately I cum I start feeling bad

What have I done!!!

Heffalump:
At the Airports they start isolating you like the way we pick stones from beans.

Don't mind them
The ones attacking me have never traveled abroad. They are just exposing their ignorance

One of the most useless passport in the world

bitcoin dead and gone?
A question on the lips of market watchers but none has been vocal about it yet.
After the epstein files reveal secrets about bitcoin, it's been on a freefall and no chance of coming back.

must be closely monitored, while also saying he is unsure what final decision US President Donald Trump will take regarding Iran, according to Israeli media

Sam2310:
so close

your games always cutting 🤦

There was this guy, Tunde, who spent years manifesting a remote job. Every morning he’d tweet, “Remote work will locate me,” like it was a lost wallet.

R.i.p young man.

My Cousin is into Film effect @mikeldfusion_vfx on Instagram

We have young talents in computer graphics
Major film industry no longer use pyrotech
They use CGI 3D explosion and Fire
To protect their highly paid actors like Tom cruise from incidents like this

My cousin does CGI explosion
I even joke that he is wasting time in Nigeria with such talent. He should go abroad
And it looks so real,
Instead of using real fire to injure your actors
Hire a CGI artist and you can explode anything without actually exploding it.

Look at his Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1DB7KYCQGV/
Look at this car explosion
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DLlkQq3gpK2/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

We have CGI artist in Nigeria
But producers don't want to spend money for quality effect. They rather burn their actors with real fire and real explosion.

While Hollywood use 3D Visual effect for dangerous things like explosion.

Some examples
Explosion in field
https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1WQjAqoBR2/

Ojuelegba explosion
https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1F7Gitqcu3/

That explosion you see is 3D CGI effect
It is what Hollywood use instead of real explosion 👇

Look at India Bollywood
They invest in CGI and have one of the most realistic effects on film.
Nollywood has talents yet they are wasting

Checkout his Instagram for more fire effects
https://www.instagram.com/mikeldfusion_vfx?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Kobojunkie:
Why are you going there if you already sense she will ruin your Christmas? You know it is also OK to go no-contact with your mother and to love her from afar, right? 🥱

2. Mothers are not meant to be compared with others. Most of the people who tell you their mother is best are themselves people who have yet to realize that all the abuse they, too, had to endure is wrong. So, don't bother turning this into a my mother is better than your mother " competition. 🥱🥱🥱

I don't agree with the first one.
I am the son the future heir of the house
I cannot let her ruin Christmas
Or run away from my house I grew up because of her.
My dad is the main reason I'm home
As a man I have matured to pont where I need my father blessing and guidance even tho I don't agree in many things.

Overall he has been very transparent with me
And always been there in hard times
I hate manipulation with passion!!!

Kobojunkie:
Have you ever asked your father about the situation around your birth? Who made the decision as far as having you... Your father or your mother? Since they are both together still, that makes me wonder even more if your mother had a choice in having you.

It is a favouritism something
It looks like she likes the girls more than the guys. We are 3 girl and 2 guys
All the girls talk and plan well with her
They talk almost all the time sharing info

Now we the boys lean towards popsi because mumsi does not really send us and it pains me low-key but I brush it off.

When it made me angry was when she twisted the whole thing to make it look like I abandoned her. I insult am wetin no good that day.

As for popsi I don't know if my mumsi tie that man or what... I have never seen a man so blindly in love. I'm his eyes she can do no wrong.

That why I left them to continue their nonesense love let me focus on my life

Kobojunkie:
1. Not all women or men deserve or should have children. It is that simple. But society continually pressures all women(not some) into having children. All men are equally pressured into the same with the lie that continuation is necessary, even when said men are literally established menaces in the same society.

2. If you want to detach from her emotionally and focus your energy on your life more, please get an appointment immediately with a mental health therapist and begin your journey towards freedom from all of your childhood traumas and scars. 🥱🥱🥱

3. It is not god but society to blame for you having to deal with such wickedness without an out. 🥱🥱🥱

Absolutely, never marry and have children with a woman like your mother. Not all women out there are built to be mothers, and definitely not all men are equally built to be fathers. More importantly, it is OK to choose a single life. Peace and happiness can only be found in oneself... not in marriage or any other thing in this life.

Honestly being a mother is not about carrying a child for 9 months
It is how you raise that child that matters.
No matter how many times I tell her to change it falls on deaf ears
Then when I cut ties with her she start manipulating stories that I am the one who decided to stop talking with her.
She wont say why. She always act shocked why I stop talking or sharing information with her.

That is why when I see people praise their mothers as best friend it feels so awkward as me I view my mother as a kgb spy.
Always hiding information. Always secretive about plans. .
So I have decided to turn into mossad spy too

Make all of us dey craze dey go.
This Christmas shishi I won't talk with her
She will find out everything later from outside

SpencerForbes:
Are you still living with your mom? You can't let her dictate your future. Nigerian moms are pretty much cut from the same cloth—remember when she’d tell you to 'go and get your slippers' just so she could slip away? You can't let those quirks or that control mess with your path.

I do not live with her. My apartment is a stone throw from their house. So she still rely on me to drive her to church and so on. I have told her to hire driver but trust her paranoid mind to not tell driver where she is going. She love doing secret secret things like say she be kgb spy.
Very annoying behavior. This why I stop talking to her. She don't share things with me but want to know everything going on in my life.
Abegiii na only popsi deserve all my gifts jare

Very manipulative woman but I still love her regardless. Only God know wetin my popsi see in her in the 90s marry her.
Cuz God knows I can never marry a woman like her. God forbid!!

I LOVE TRANSPERENCY
TELL ME THE TEUTH EVEN IF IT IS BITTER
TELL ME.
DONT HIDE INFORMATION FROM ME
BUT DISCUSS IT WELL WITH MY SISTERS
TILL ITS TOO LATE THEN YOU COME AND TELL ME AND EXPECT ME TO DO SOMETHING IMMEDIATELY...

It has gotten so bad that if she tells me 2+2 is 4
I will have to use calculator to make sure it's true.

The crazy thing is she shares and talks more with my sisters but when it comes to my turn
I'm always the last person they tell their plans.

It got so bad that if she is planning something
She will only tell me a day before the event

And this is a woman that expect me to be talking and sharing information with her. While she refuse to tell me things

Thi woman can have 100k and you ask for 20k she will stay rambling and giving excuses and lies...
But f you ask popsi he will press the money immediately..
I have bought 20 tubers of tam only for my father. I will not give my mother shishi
Make she feels am too

I will travel and meet them this Christmas
I have decided to not even talk shishi with her
It will be like we are strangers and that's the way it will be from now.
Can't tolerate nonesense for too long

If your mother is the loving sharing type
You don't know what God has done for you

Something can happen in the house
When I come back I ask her what happened?

She will start acting like deaf and dumb as if she doesn't know what happened.
Meanwhile she saw everything that happened.

I just don't understand why she likes manipulation and witholding information

And this woman had the nerves to accuse me of not communicating with her.

I stopped picking her calls I busy them
I only speak to my dad because he is the complete opposite he tells me all information he knows. But my mother will start manipulating and twisting simple question you ask her.
Them turn around and wonder why I no longer share information with her.

Some mothers no dey try at all at all
And she will automatically start acting like she doesn't know what you are talking about. .

It took me tears to realize how manipulative my mother is.

It is funny how the reason I can never trust a woman started from my mother.

Everyone loves their mum
Despite their flaws we overlook them

But as we mature and grow up we realize that these things need to be voiced out
We need to call a spade a spade and correct them when they start misbehaving.

Imagine pouring out your heart to your mother and when you expect her to tell you something she begins to lie and manipulate the story.

She can say John please church will start by 8am I need you to come quickly before 8

Me being a nice boy I immediately believe her
I wake up and hurry and come by 8am
Only to find out she has not taken her bath and the church service will actually start by 9:30 am

You see the kind of manipulation she does
This is just on the surface level.
Plus she is religious to the core
Only God know the hell my father going tru

I have sworn never to marry from my maternal side. I will never marry a woman like my mother.

Globad:
It looks like you have unfinished business with the state based on your previous life activities. This is not conclusive though.

Note to be very nice to any of them you come across so won’t be indebted to karma. Again, don’t treat any of them badly.

maybe I was a king in Akwa Ibom in my past life.
Even after I left Lagos to Owerri
One fair nurse her name is Edit
She fit greet me good morning like 5 times for morning very fine short babe.
But I was toooo slowww to pick up the cue
That one pain me I missed out
The second one dey across my street slim and tall. She add me on FB and immediately reacted to my FB story with ♥️♥️♥️ 3 heart emojis. I still ignore her..smh

No other girl has been direct to me like that.
U see why I'm scared to go to Akwa ibom
I don't know what will happen

koladata:
if it was Hilda basi that you met you won't come here and be saying all these.

In choosing a life partner the only things you need to check his/her decent family background and character. Pray about it and leave the rest to God.

If I meet Hilda Baci she must fall in love
Just give me 2 days with her. It's enough

erniok2:
What I have seen X punters do is post their winnings especially when massive and carefully avoiding their losses to give an impression of always winning but never seen them asking grok repeatedly. This is akin to asking mirror on the wall who is the fairest of them all pointing to an ego issue.


Whatever rocks your boat and make you sleep well at night bro but work on your ego sha.

Tell him to ask AI how many draw predictions he got wrong

You will see more than 4000 draws lost
But he won't post it

Mathantics:
Jmoore

Booking codes please

if he send booking code make I bend

These type of people rather die
Than to share game that will benefit all

Kobojunkie:
Your ancestors walked around literally nude and depravity and lynchings. that was literally the culture for the longest --- before the white man showed up. So, let's get things straight,abeg! 🥱🥱🥱

2. Kid still get no real discipline same as those before them --- even your grandfathers, and fathers are all indiscipline and corrupt entities to date so don't even pretend they are better in any way. However, the brainwashing culture of old which hides its evils behind words like discipline continues but fortunately kids now have the Internet to know what is real from all the bullsheet of old. 🥱🥱

Others are advancing and evolving.
You are going backwards to the ways of your ancestors by walking nude.
You should go back to fetching water from river to drink since your ancestors didn't have borehole water or GP tank.

Also stop using phones as your ancestors didn't use phones to communicate.

budaatum:
What you are describing as absolute respect is more fear than anything else. And perhaps I'm just the 2% you left out.

Nigerian parents can, or rather, do definitely demand absolute respect from their children, but that's no guarantee they'll get it. But I'm not your parent, so, despite the probable fact that I am likely to be twice your age, I'm very certain you will disrespect me if I don't respect myself and disrespect you. You after all are a human being who deserves respect, so why should my age give me license to disrespect you?

Perhaps those Nigerian parents you mention need to learn to respect their children. Because, those children learn from what they see their parents do, and if they show disrespect to their children that's what their children will learn to do to others.

My African Nigerian parents respect me their child, so I have learnt as well as I can to respect others regardless of their age, gender, color, wealth, etc., unless they show they don't deserve it, then gloves off.

P.s. I have commented on Nairaland like 40k times, so you can read my post history and share or quote the ones where I have been disrespectful to see if I walk my talk, at least more than I don't, and where I haven't, if it is deserved.

Not that I agree with OP
But let's say the honest truth

Respect=Fear

You respect fire because you know once you touch it you get burned. The fear you have for fire is in the respect.

You respect a lion, you fear a lion
If a lion was soft without teeth you won't fear and give it the respect it deserves.

When you fear something You respect it
You don't go about touching naked wire
Because you fear and respect electricity

Kobojunkie:
That's because the respect system thrives on the ability of parents to traumatize their children. All that so-called discipline that you gain in childhood in Nigerian homes is usually through the use of abuse. And all that trauma is what causes children to remain subdued even into adulthood by their parents and others in the community who may have inflicted similar abuse on them during their formative years.

What you have in Nigeria is not respect or discipline but trauma-enforced cowering.

maybe that is what we are missing.
That is why nudity and depravity has multiplied Because kids no longer get disciplined like before.
See te level of shameless people on TikTok and Onlyfans. If they had parents like old parents not these woke mumu new age parents that don't discipline their kids

thesicilian:
Early 90s claiming senior man on top Gen Z When the age difference between you guys may not even be up to 3 years!

So 3 years no be senior

At this point I dey fear to enter Akwa Ibom
It seems their girls are magneted to me

I fit pack all the babes comot that state

But seriously, I am not from Akwa Ibom
But when I look in my life.
The people that really vibes with me to the core where all from Akwa Ibom.

It feels like maybe in my previous life I was from that area or maybe I have unfinished business in Akwa Ibom.

I swear on my mama
Akwa Ibom girls dey always fall for me.

I go dey vibe with Igbo girls dey will be feeling funky. But the moment I chat with Uyo babe it feels like they can't hide their attraction to me

It got so bad that if I vibe well with a girl
The first thing I ask her is are u from Uyo?
And to my shock 98% of babes that vibe well with me are from Uyo!!

Now to make it worst worstest
I noticed my Facebook I have many friend request with Akwa Ibom names or Akwa Ibom written on their bio.

What is going on?
Why is Akwa Ibom people mysteriously all around me.

I have had a deep reflection on my dating life and one thing keeps baffling me.

My 4 ex's are all from Akwa Ibom
To make it worse my best paddy ino iss also from awka Ibom.

Bear in mind, I meet all of them without knowing where they were from.
Till later later when they say it.

Now the one that disturb me is a hotel staff I toasted and took her out for fun
After we run bedmatics, I ask her where she from She said Akwa Ibom.
Now she is falling love for me. We just meet 4 days ago..
I did podcast with 2 girls..
One of the girl a chubby babe said I'm turning her on they way I talk.. she was serious.

My brothers and sisters, I found out she is from Akwa Ibom.

To make it worser I am in Lagos.
And I meet all of them in Lagos
Why on earth do I keep linking up with Akwa Ibom people without knowing it.

Baronthecelebri:
That is how God program it

where in the bible did God say men must spend money to have sex??

HydraFeeds:
So fufu and eba get taste ?

Eba get better taste. Even fufu
AMAlA na trash👎🏿👎🏿👎🏿

KnowledgePower7:
Sporty give me bonus
During international break make I loss all the bonus on nonesense games. Una plan no go work

These people are too smart
Dem no give bonus when big leagues dey play

Na when international break and lower clubs dey play dem give person bonus.

So that we go play rubbish teams and lose

For sporty to not give bonus and wait till international break. They know that lower leagues will fix games and losses go mount

Peterodion49:
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how much u go pay