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Thx to ya'all for your advice. I visited Ekiti and it was nice. I went to Ekogosi warm Spring was interesting. Generally the people were friendly but not in every facility that I went to, some employees were so unfriendly. I didn't take it personal after a while anyways coz the heat plus no fuel plus unstable electricity could be a contribution, though it should not be an excuse. I appreciated their efforts regardless. Lagos was a nice place and interesting with crazy traffic that will make you wish you could have wings to fly over the traffic lanes. The food was good and spicy hot and I liked it since spicy is one of my favorite. Anyways juz like everywhere else in the world I took the best memories with me and greatful to God for the amazing experience that made me appreciate a lot of things in my life that I took for granted. Good memories are to be cherished and bad memories should be buried and forgotten.

I am a Kenyan with a Yoruba man and we have been dating for an year now. He introduced me to his family as the woman he wanna marry. His family is really nice and friendly. Inspite the fact that we love each other, I also have some little fears of what if he one day marries another woman from there tribe considering their culture etc. Gal my advice is give him a chance in that one year, and pray for your relationship. If God has approved that man to you, then it's safe, but you need to be wise, respect yourself, stay faithful to yourself and to your God, and surely everything else will fall in place. That's exactly what am doing and I believe nothing is a coincidence, as long as you believe in God, there is a reason for everything that happens. God has given you the freedom of one thing; making your own choice. Am sure if you stay faithful God will guide you into making the right decision, so relax, do the right thing, pray for your guy and wisely see how the one year goes. God bless you both.

Oh yeah, nice word.

Am traveling to Ekiti in Nigeria for the first time. Would you please advice me on what to expect, dos en dont's, interesting places to visit, important culture activities that I should put in consinderation, most language used there etc.