This man has started talking any how sha. He is the best option on ground but let him talk small small. Life no straight forward.

IyaTola:
Don't be competing with someone you should be learning from"

I have never liked competition.

Every time I compete, I feel pressured and disconnected from others.

I love harmony, peace, collaboration, and win-win situations, kind of like “me happy, you happy.”

I don’t need to watch another person lose the game to feel good about myself.

I don’t need to dominate or put someone else down in order to feel superior and worthy.

In Nigeria, competing is perceived as a sign of ambition, power, and strength.

Most of us grew up hearing constant comparisons, which turned into a habit during our adult lives:

“Do I look better than her? I want to be slimmer.”

“How much is he earning? I want more.”

“Where does she live? I want a house at least that size in Lekki.”

Which car does she/he drives? I want an expensive car

And so on…

Teachers were always making comparisons between students, parents would compare their children to their friends’ or neighbors’ kids, and no one truly encouraged individual talents.

Competitions are almost always win-lose situations.

People who don’t want competition in their lives tend to believe in win-win scenarios.

Instead of looking for ways they can outsmart their opponent, they search for methods to team up with them and overcome whatever obstacle that they face together instead of apart.

By doing that, they double the chance for success

So here what I’ve learned: Everyone is on their own path, and we all do what’s right for ourselves, in our own time.

I believe we live in a supportive Universe where everything unfolds perfectly—at the right time, in the right place.

Comparing ourselves to others is an infinite source of stress and frustration, and it doesn’t serve us well.

I have helped a lot of people to become a Trainer and Data Analyst.

I have given a lot of training and job opportunities to other people too

I believe the world needs fewer fighters and competitors.

The world needs more givers, peacemakers, and soul nurturers, and it also needs more compassion.

okay so....back to the topic....

Dalil8:
One can tell how frustrated she is just by this comment. Once they hit 30 and there's no man coming they become bitter.


You can but you haven't. Why is that?

you can just see the arrogance in her statement. She can buy a simp and not a man.

KingKO22:
Yeebow done suffer for Reno hand o

Truly, why are Igbos avoiding Monday as a plague ?

Have always say it that Pandora Obituary is IPOB agenda otherwise prove sane Nigeria wrong that you people truly believe in One Nigeria

Organize a rally on Monday if truly you believe one Nigeria in SE

its only a coincidence the rally hasn't fallen on a Monday. Do you honestly think ipob criminals can attack that crowd?

aariwa:
forget the nice veneer about him. That man is a hard man o. There was an uprising in the state that was out of control in 2006 and innocent people were raped and killed by those hoodlums who formed a group. Obi warned them on radio to leave three times but they refused he then formed a team comprising military and police components and within a week what everyone thought was not going to happen happened. John haruna was commissioner of police then and the soldiers were got from army barracks Onitsha and the planning and intelligence was superb. It was a very bloody operation but they were flushed out and peace and calm returned to the state

This is what i love to hear. I am sure the walls of all other parties now will be greatly shaken by yesterday's rally. I really hope the north will adopt this man just as the south and it will be a landslide victory for all. It is time for us as Nigerians to join the rest of the world in courting the faiths of generations unborn. The rot has endured for too long and no one is really looking at the little signs that say we are gradually replicating the Afghanistan situation here. This is turmoil and we have reached the point where death penalty should be the consequences of jeopardising the life and security of Nigerians by flagrant looting. Japa is not a realistic solution to this problem. Fixing it is the only choice we have.

Omihanifa:
shameless bandits. Nah buhari government Dey make us see and hear all these nonsense nah. In saner climes, constant bombings by fighter jets would have make the forest so hot for them that they won’t even have time to be thinking about sex.

Imagine 40 bandits gang raping one woman. And yet shiek GUMI Is still fighting for amnesty for these guys.

Shameful. This is partly why I'm scared of PO. He is talking about facts and figures. I want to see a leader that will tell us how far he is willing to go to implement all those schemes in the face of so much evil with great resilience. It takes an armed prophet to fight this battle and not one who will recite poetry to swordsmen. It is far more than talking and splitting statistics. The absence of statistics is not what has crippled us, it is the inability to force the right thing without waiting for the approval of the corrupt house of assemblies or rotten judiciary.

It needs an iron hand and i don't know that PO is any other than a gentleman. We need to replicate the Ghana move in this country if there will be changes

What fuels atheism is foolish people making unfounded claims about religion. Making ridiculous explanations of religion makes people question it.

Islam does not tell you that you will be saved from death. In fact it tells you to prepare for it and not to expect that you will live beyond today. This is a more practical and obviously correct view about life.

Islam does not tell you that prosperity is the symbol of God's love or that disparity in the distribution of resources is an explanation of injustice to some. In fact it tells you that trials and tribulations come to any as Allah determines. And in the end, any one who suffered in the course of Allah and had patience will get a bountiful reward. Allah created the good and the ugly in His infinite wisdom and all decisions are for Him at the end.

NigeriaIsGreat:
YOU CANNOT SILENCE ME WITH TRIBALISM OR NEPOTISM!!!

REPACKAGING PETER OBI?

If no be say person get strong mind na so dem wan repackage Obi give person.

Obi of 13months doctors strike in Anambra. 13!
Obi of Akwuzu SARS. Unalloyed ter**rorism
Obi that did not employ teachers in Anambra for 8years
Obi that did not develope Awka in 8 years
Obi that did not employ civil servants in Anambra for 8years
Obi that his driver was caught with 250m cash in Lagos
Obi that does not own any investment in Anambra, no supermarket, no warehouse

Obi of massive kid*napping.
Obi that ordered the ma*ssacre of arm*less MASSOB protesters in 2006 & 2013 and had their dead bodies thrown into the Ezu River.
Obi of 6months Anambra State Univ strike.
Obi of 7 years unpaid salaries for State Water Board workers. 7years. 260 of them died.

Obi of Pandora papers. Opening secret businesses abroad with his kid's name while he was governor. Dem catch am red handed

Obi of 7years no LGA election. 7years!
Obi of no IGR growth.
Obi of no signature infrastructure. Non!
Obi anti-infrastructure.
Obi wey carry state money put for family business.

Obi importer of groceries for over 30years driving down naira value. He Couldn't metamorphose into production like Dangote , BUA, Adeleke etc
Revd Barr Christian Nwachukwu

- Asari Dokubo

Are you the real asari dokubo we know or you are just quoting his name.

IbileIfe:


Peter Obi's presidential campaign is already losing momentum.

how and why

Stay in your developed country and be campaigning asiwaju for an already folding Nigeria. Later your government will close its gates to Nigerians under one disguise or the other

LikeAking:



Una go wise up soon.

How many rich people in the US n Europe are sending dia kids to private schools? Talkless of the poor and average over dia?

Why will Nigerians dispose public schools?

Nigerian parents are just working for school owners all in the name of good education.

Una go wise soon.

And schools are not even worth the while anymore with the moribund curriculum. Udemy and YouTube teaches more than schools

What they will eat?

Their lunch will not be imported

slickbak:
Terrorism might have come to stay in Russia.

Courtesy, Ukrainians.

the entire idea behind having a putin for so many years in Russia was because of his ability to quell a guerilla war

monex:


Religion by itself necessitates Blasphemy as your truth is not my truth and thus might be considered blasphemous.

Denying the divinity of Jesus is considered blasphemous in Christianity.

The guy is a Tijaniyyah which has some doctrinal differences with mainstream Sufism or Wahhabism hence the chances of blasphemy increase

An Ahmadiyya would consider the Prophet Muhammed to not be the last of the prophets. Most other Islamic sects would consider that to be blasphemous.

A Christian would not even consider Prophet Mohammed to be a prophet.

Capital punishment for blasphemy has no place in a modern society

Yes but still read what i wrote. Don't add a brain twister to this simple thing.

Disbelieving or stating your belief is not what we are talking about. Its your belief. Insulting revered personalities is the case under our microscope here. Trying to expand the compass to disbelief is not necessary because it has and may never be a problem. I have never heard that any fight broke out in kano or kaduna because a Christian said jesus is lord or anything of it.

The problem has always been desecration of things other people hold in high esteem. Don't be deceived it will happen anywhere. People will react in america if their heroes are disrespected. The degree of reaction will only vary with the level of poverty and general position of the law in that country with respect to non state elements wielding the powers to take decisions meant for designated state elements. Its still the case with stealing in lagos market. Its wrong to kill the thieves in the eyes of Nigerian laws, but the people who do it will not agree with you or your views.
Reactions vary everywhere. From ignoring the person, to silently hating him/her to open violent attack. And everyone will find justification for whatever course of action he takes. But then, the person is dead.

Please read this statement carefully before you respond so you do not automatically infer that anyone is defending a lawless state. The underlined cores here are; in a place where the justice system is moribund, what do you do in your own little effort to forestall a suburban meltdown of peace? Since you know the markets and streets are filled with druggies who actually have nothing to loose if a fight broke out? Simply avoid doing things that stir these reactions especially when avoiding them do not threaten your existence in any way, or infringe on your right.

I do not have Christian friends who insult me or my religion. They were raised up properly. Neither do i attack people who do these things. And so can be said by millions of people in the north. But this does not rule out the fact that it happens. It doesn't rule out the fact that there are people who will deliberately insult others or pull strings they know are capable of inciting a civil unrest in all regions, neither does it out rule the fact that there are those who are ready to kill for it. They can kill ordinarily in a fight for 100naira change. So their ability or readiness to kill is not constrained to the cause its self, but a function of who they already are /were before the event.

newbornmacho:


And you're not worried that this is the case in a secular country? You a youth? I'm shocked

You guys always deviate from a topic just to hold arguments.
So if i advice people not to travel at night from maiduguri to mungono, it should be something shock inspiring as well. Stating the obvious causes shock only to people who leave reality and dwell on dreams. Don't wait under bridges in abuja at night. Please be shocked by this

Joshmoore:


What are you defending exactly? That humans should kill a fellow human for a god? Why not allow that god to fight for itself? Why being so extreme ? Remember when Peter picked up his knife and sliced the ear of one of those soldiers persecuting Jesus, Jesus told Peter to avoid violence, at least not for his sake! I'm just wondering what you are trying to defend here? Are humans now stronger than their gods that they should be the ones taking justice into their hands all in the name of serving their gods ? Guyyyyy, open your eyes and see, this act of blasphemy should be abolished or better still, let everybody just go their separate ways.

Why killing a fellow human for a god ?

Remember, it was me and you before these gods.

if this is how you comprehend and interpret written articles, then you did not pass ssce English exams yourself. Read again.

newbornmacho:


You are not understanding the ramifications of this judgment. If it stands then Nigeria ceases to be a secular country. You see why I'm against Muslim Muslim? These people have a wicked islamization agenda

well im talking about a general observance of wisdom and caution. For people not to deliberately do things that can cause and overspill of reactions in different places. The cause is not the topic now, the topic is recognising it exists and managing it

newbornmacho:



You're talking nonsense. Do you know the Muslims officially call Christians unbelievers, and that is protected by the cursed shariah law? Do you see how they interfere with other religions? Tell me where common law offends Islam...


Give us biafra now!!!!

you are free to banter here as you want. But just don't do it where you will be unsafe. And don't do what can endanger the lives of innocent persons even far away from where you are. Do not cause a conflict

Joshmoore:


Rubbish! And gradually you will sell away your democratic rights to freedom of speech. What is blasphemy? Why not allow what you worship to fight his or its battle for himself or itself ? Why TF does humans have to fight for gods? Isn't abnormal to you ?

Do you know constituting nuisance and breech of public peace is a crime in UK too? Why deliberately do things that will stir people up in the name of freedom of speech? The approach is to manage people and populations successfully with less incidents of wars and conflicts and not showing that you have power. Or you think you can wish away the fact that people are different and have different cultures and beliefs. This is with a knowledge that people will be moved to certain actions when pushed a certain way. Managing it makes you a great thinker and not trying to eliminate the difference. There will always be difference, but how do you manage and prevent any possible of an urban unrest? How does blasphemy help your life please? How does abstaining from it block your throat? Stay there and be speaking English with your keypad. But if you find yourself in sokoto among the street guys, mind what you say.

There is no gain in testing the secularity of Nigeria or the lack of it. Since you already know its not taken lightly in the north. Simply abstain. Every place has its own norms and what is held in high esteem. Lets learn to live and let live. Avoiding blasphemy will not take food away from your table. Why indulge?

KingTom:

Funny enough the REAL cultists would never pull up to anybody na dem be the most friendly, always calm and smiling na those akiewu niggas wey dey wan do like say na gods dem be because dem join small cult

who told you that?

yemite100:
I want you to advise me on what to do, I'm finding it hard to ask this girl for sex, she has been with me for the past three days now, we sleep together on the same bed but I'm always scared to touch her in the night, even as i type this message she is beside me watching Korean fil
It's really giving me sleepless night, I don't know how to ask her for sex I cant even touch her body..
I need your advice guys..

you want people to tell you how to process your fornication plan. Get married.

ArchiLimited:
My former landlord's son had one left for him by his late Dad, and sincerely I won't mind buying that one for N1m. It was so neat and well maintained that the guy parks his own 2012 Camry to drive this Benz to work and sincerely it gave him more prestige than the Camry

but the fuel consumption is much

Maobichek:


Solar is costly oh! I know you pray for business but Civil servants in Nigeria hardly afford Solar let alone the poor masses.

true that. Its unfortunate its not supposed to be like that. In the last 5 years the cost of solar energy has reduced by half internationally because of advocacy for clean energy. Its in Africa where we import everything that the cost has doubled.

But you know the reality of life, a person must be ill for doctors to feed, there must be hold up for gala sellers to sell. If any solar installer tells you he doesnt want jobs or situations that may motivate people to patronise him, he is actually lying

hustla:


So, if you come get accident and them no get light to treat you for hospital.. And you later die.. Wetin you gain?

You see how you dey think like Gorilla wey be imbec.ile?

k

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oluseyiforjesus:
Another father of children n husband of a wife or wives just lost his job......

gaskiya ne fa

buygala:
What if lecturer borrowed the girl's laptop to insert his flash drive for the presentation?

People are shallow minded

sweetkev:
That is blasphemy. Jesus is not a prophet but son of God. He was there before everything was created. Surrender to Jesus now and leave that violence religion of yours. God bless you as you yield to this advise.

Sometimes i really wish i could open peoples eyes to the beauty of Islam and the factual backings it has. But Allah (swt) has said that none can guide others except Him. So seek guidance of Allah.
May Allah guide you to Islam

Righteousness2:
Sir ! We Live in a wicked world filled with all sorts evil, abominations and Wickedness.

We Live in a world whose Inhabitants are dining and whining in the ocean of evil of all kinds.
JESUS Christ is the Only one who will bring sanity to the world.
Until, JESUS Christ comes back, destroys this world and bring down a new Heaven and new earth, that is when you will see what you desire.

So sir, get water and take your Bath. Surrender to the Lordship of JESUS Christ. Make Him your Lord and Savior.
Be ready for His Imminent return. So you will be qualified to come back with HIM when He Comes to rule on Earth.

Where did you learn all these falsehood you are spreading? That Jesus will destroy this world and bring a new heaven and earth.

Worship the God that Jesus and all other prophet worshipped and do not make any of them your God.

Allah is one, He has no partners. To Him belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth. And to Him is your ultimate return and mine.

Anything short of this belief us regrettable upon sighting the angel of death

FalseProphet1:
This is why I'm not a fan of sending kids to spend their holidays in all this uncles and auntie houses.

When I get married my kids especially the female ones would remain in my house. Any holiday or festive season I'll be the one to take them out. But to keep them under the care of one horney uncle or one wicked aunty, God forbid.

This I have seen.

Nigeria self no good for travel

siofra:
This gender, best in wickedness

You sound very unintelligent when you make blanket statements about men. You sound like some one suffering a lot of psychological issues. You are either seeking attention or you are actually a mediocre. I hope you dont raise a son alone with this toxicityyou are carrying about. If you give birth to a boy, do him a lot of good by giving him to an intelligent relative to raise him for you. This is borderline mediocrity you display with your empty rants.

People with fathers come out to insult an entire gender. You give the impression that the men in your life are all damaged people and thats where your psychological problems started. Seeing a lot of damaged depraved men around you growing up. This is a way of painting your own father and brothers in very bad light since they didn't give you any reason to even see exceptions in your impression of men. If your father was a failure and a sorry excuse for a man, he is not 'men'. He's just a man who is negligible in the numbers of men! How low your mentality is. May your son not become a bobrisky after hearing from you about his 'evil gender'

Last word: Go see a psychologist. If it doesnt work, see a psychiatrist. Get help.