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chaircover:
When my husband and I got married he didn't have a car, Infact our first car was a £550 banger LOL. When we had our baby, we couldn't afford to buy a cot. Baby and I slept on the bed while hubby slept on one of my wrappers on the floor. I rememebr that My mum bought our first freezer 

And although this is very personal, I am sharing this story so that someone somewhere who is probably at crossroads can seek encouragement from it and make a wise decision.

I married my husband because he was a good kind man of integrity and a hardworking man with prospects and of course I loved him. People said all sorts at the time but I didnt listen some even called him a gold digger. Today I am enjoying that decision. He is a husband, brother, father, friend all rolled into one.

Today he earns much much more than I earn, I only work part time (he told me to reduce my hours & to stop stressing myself) and I now run a business that I enjoy.  He is still the dependable solid man that I married back then and he treats me like an equal rather than a gloried slave.

Yesterday afternoon we were our shopping for light fittings for our new house and I was looking at the prices before choosing, (Ijebu to the core that I am) but he noticed it and he just said to me "just pick what you really like . . . don't look at the prices, I am paying"
If I were to be a glorified slave he would go ahead and buy whatever he wants without it even crossing his mind to consult me.

Dont get me wrong, It has been an uphill struggle and there were times that we went without but eventually if you both muck in together and with the grace & favour of God, you will eventually get there.

What I have noticed is that it is here in the romance section that you see " I cant do this for any man" " I cant cook for my boyfriend" "he has to be rich" etc but the reality is that these same people pop up 3 years later in the family section with a new ID saying that their husbands don't treat them well.

If anyone here has a broke but good boyfriend/fiance, please do not throw him away but help him to grow. It will be a tough struggle but you will both reap the reward in the long run.

Chaircover = A rare gem.https://yoursmiles.org/tsmile/rulez/t2015.gifDaysis be long!https://yoursmiles.org/tsmile/rulez/t2027.gif

Omolola1:
why was ths thread moved nau?

Reason(s) :

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=605940.msg7749276#msg7749276 date=1297960246]Omolala  simply needs to move on  ,    with Mr Cork! [/quote]

El Guapo:
^ Hehe

Stud, Quickie u mean?

Studio CFR:
U dis one minute man. Mtchew

Railway workers
Need I say more?

@@MissB

Soooo nice and thanks for saving a dying hungry man. Me don belle-full wella. https://yoursmiles.org/bsmile/fun/b0228.gif

[quote author=190: link=topic=606396.msg7747554#msg7747554 date=1297941967][color=deeppink]^^Shattap di[i]c[/i]khead!![/color] [/quote]Ogunfe.

[quote author=p.wiz link=topic=606396.msg7747780#msg7747780 date=1297944636] who tel u?[/quote]U dey mind that guy sissy

Nelly - Air Force Ones

Quite comforting. . .() thanks a lot!

Atreides:
loool. . Na corky. . He wrote Jamb 5 times so tey Jamb give am Jamb T-shirt before he passed canal go Canada. .

I hear say na trek im trek via Libya sef.

[quote author=190: link=topic=606396.msg7747236#msg7747236 date=1297938784][color=deeppink]cock is not in canada get your facts rite
hes in peckham London!![/color][/quote]Who asked u amebo?

googles:
lol incriminating thread 

Rotfl Abi o! Oya begin dey talk jare. . .I don't lie though.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=606413.msg7745618#msg7745618 date=1297913203]Well I told AnnaWhite she waz pretty [/quote]Lol.

@MissB

Can I have some fried Plantain abegggg, and soda water too. I'm so famished!

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