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My. Baby mama nd I r(nt yet married)r in distance relationship 4 d past 6mnths. I do call her oftem until lately I reduced it to like 3days a wk.she always gives excuses of nt hvmg crdit even after sending her she still doesn't call. She says its ok if I'm fucking someonelse to supress my urge since she's nt arund but it me suspicious of her as I
figured its wat she does over there.so got a new BlackBerry and started chatting wit her as someone else . Told her stuffs I live in ph an offshore contractor. I flirt wit her a lot, asked if she wz in a relationship nd she said no. she sends me pictures of her. So I invited her to cm nd spend three days with me and said she wld think abt it. We've only b chatting 4 a week. I intended to reveal my identity but I wuld wait until she agrees to come visit. so guys tell me I'm I doing d right thing,should I tell her nd dump her?

I'm an artist residing in asaba but i really want 2 relocate. So i can't really decide yet between port harcourt and lagos where would be more lucrative to sell my paintings.

my country people abeg i need advice. My girlfriend nd i hv been dating 4 3yrs nd last yr april we had a baby. I dnt ve a job yet but i luv her so much. She traveld 2 abj 8mnths afta she had put 2 bed. I begged her 2 stay 4 d baby's sake but she refused, because she wants 2 luk 4 sth doing. Since she travld she rarely calls despite my frequent calls. Sometimes 14 missed calls esp on val day she said she went out with a roomate nd her boyfriend . When i tel her i luv all she says is ' i dey hear u' nd since i stopped callin. What should i do cos i still luv her.
I 4 got 2 add. she told me a secret 2wks when we started dating she has neva told anyone dat she had a child 4 d guy she dated b4 me afta tellin her 2 abort d pregnancy. She nw travelld 2 a motherless babies hm to deliver after which she left d child and came back. With such huge confession i thought she wanted 2 change.